relationship seem to fall, how to save?

[SunOS]

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8 months na mi. naka feel ko ug something na change sa iyang side.
ang iyang comment kay, feel niya nga dili na daw ko happy sa among relationship (actualy im happy , maybe this is a misunderstanding?)

ingon sya dili daw sya kasabot nako, ingon sya nga dugay nami nagkaila pero wala pa kay sya naka ila nako.

missunderstading cguro ni kay tungod cguro naka ingon sya nga di ko happy sa amo rel kay dili man ko good conversationalist.

inputs will be appreciated.

even me can't understand this kind of complexity

[Tirong-say]

Maybe she is asking for intimacy, be more closer to her,and make her feel about being very close to you....

[SunOS]

i hope its not yet too late bai. seriously its going to fall. ingon niya di na namo ipadayn amo relationship kay di na daw sya happy but i don't i did something wrong.

how can i make her mind change? course not by asking her to come back to me desperately. it's not going work

[RemohDude]

ask her whole heartedly if there is a 3rd party on ur relationship coz dis happens oftentimes to a relationship, labi na 8mos. palang mo there are lots of challenges out there naniid sa inyo relasyon..

[esprugodoys]

ana jd n..... same r mn ta ug personality diay. im the type pd nga hilom lng. prefers not to talk that much maski sa partner p. though it has its own advantage for ourselves, but we are not aware that some of the people around us find difficulty in trying to understand who we really are...

the key to a stronger relationship is understanding each other as a whole. and the best way to make yourself understandable to other people is for us to show it "literally". action speaks louder that words tuod but if inevitable that we sometimes "have" to speak for ourselves literally for them to understand.

communication lng... trust me... a little initiative will do the trick... ^_^

[SunOS]

^^

that's the lesson that i need to learn, i hope i'm not going to learn it the hard way (you know what i mean).
based on my post, our rel is in critical condition. i wonder how to handle

[richardramram]

brad, don't worry much about your relationship. i mean sometimes if you really love someone you need to let her go.mas maau pa tingale na maka kita mong duha na mas compatible sa inyong personality mas maau pud na mas earlier makahibalo mo na dili mo compatible than later on mag buwag lang ghapon masayang lang ang panahon sa inyong duha.no matter how hard you've tried if the other party did not appreciate it, i think it is useless. so para nako be strong enough to learn how to let go.

[r0mm3L]

brad, don't worry much about your relationship. i mean sometimes if you really love someone you need to let her go.mas maau pa tingale na maka kita mong duha na mas compatible sa inyong personality mas maau pud na mas earlier makahibalo mo na dili mo compatible than later on mag buwag lang ghapon masayang lang ang panahon sa inyong duha.no matter how hard you've tried if the other party did not appreciate it, i think it useless. so para nako be strong enough to learn how to let go.

kong ako pay tig tambag, mo jump nako ingon ani if nag talk na sila formally

[esprugodoys]

give it a try... make the first move.. open your doors to her because im getting the impression that your partner really feels your doors are closed for her that is why she is having difficulty in understanding you. first time is always the hardest... but when both of you gets the hang of things... everything should flow smoothly. ^_^

[jfox]

kinahanglan ra na ug bonding activity gamay to remake the spark...PEACE!