Does having opposite views affect one's relationship?

[dimplesheaven]

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Quite frustrating to finally found your potential mate but when you started getting to know each other, you realize that you have different point of views when it comes to dating.. Eventually,you have discovered that other one has a liberated views while the other one is a mixture of open yet conservative ideals.

Conservative in a sense that she believes in marriage and the other one prefer to do the "thing" first before marriage.

Considering that you both like each other but just because of your opposite views , you made a conclusion that you can never be an item. Is the relationship worth fighting for or not?

[vahnhelsing]

weeee..... makarelate nasad ko ani dah..... ambot miss ha, kay pareho mi sa guy... ilailaha sa jud siya ug maayo... basin worthy sya..basin ra hap... ayaw lang pagdali, ayaw sa ug sulod sa relationship.... hagoa sa sya ug au, ug ugaling d gani mogive up dako ug purohan nga tarong sya....

[dimplesheaven]

weeee..... makarelate nasad ko ani dah..... ambot miss ha, kay pareho mi sa guy... ilailaha sa jud siya ug maayo... basin worthy sya..basin ra hap... ayaw lang pagdali, ayaw sa ug sulod sa relationship.... hagoa sa sya ug au, ug ugaling d gani mogive up dako ug purohan nga tarong sya....

But considering the "trend" this days, murag liberated na tanan.. Just curious, if a guy wants to do "it " and said he likes you... Will that always ring true? Or it's just a tactic to lure a woman into submission?

[vahnhelsing]

But considering the "trend" this days, murag liberated na tanan.. Just curious, if a guy wants to do "it " and said he likes you... Will that always ring true? Or it's just a tactic to lure a woman into submission?

no kaayo... ilads ra kaau na... like is different from love.... so maybe its the body he wants.. love it is the whole you... claro kaau iya apas sa imoha uy... ok magpakaliberated ug sure na jud nga kamo na, nga dugay namo sa relationship.. pero sa nagsugod or padulong palang d na maayo...

[dimplesheaven]

no kaayo... ilads ra kaau na... like is different from love.... so maybe its the body he wants.. love it is the whole you... claro kaau iya apas sa imoha uy... ok magpakaliberated ug sure na jud nga kamo na, nga dugay namo sa relationship.. pero sa nagsugod or padulong palang d na maayo...

Ah I see...even if, we are already in the marrying age..not the tweetums stage?...Shall we say it is unusual at our age to be so conservative with it.. But on the other note, I agree from your own perspective regarding that matter. So, if a guy dumped you just because of 'it" then better dumped him off as well..hahaha

[soundstreammsi]

just get to know each other more... and if the two of you are really having some views that are really way way off each other meet half way na lng mo sa inyong mga panglantaw... but if di kaya sa powers ang pag meet half way then go separate ways na lng hehehe

[dimplesheaven]

just get to know each other more... and if the two of you are really having some views that are really way way off each other meet half way na lng mo sa inyong mga panglantaw... but if di kaya sa powers ang pag meet half way then go separate ways na lng hehehe

Yah ,I really believe in knowing the person well, coz character matters the most. But ,if the other one can't live with it, then there's no point wasting time being together...

[vahnhelsing]

Ah I see...even if, we are already in the marrying age..not the tweetums stage?...Shall we say it is unusual at our age to be so conservative with it.. But on the other note, I agree from your own perspective regarding that matter. So, if a guy dumped you just because of 'it" then better dumped him off as well..hahaha

weeee..bisan dako na uy... yaw sa padala, maka sure kaha ka nga matured na imo kadate emotionally basin plastic effect nasad na.... weeee... the best guy is the one who talks about the future rather than talk about "it"...

[Tirong-say]

If there is unconditional love that bonds it then it's worthed, they could adjust, and deciding on issues I think they could prefer on the most preferable and logical for both of them.

[dimplesheaven]

weeee..bisan dako na uy... yaw sa padala, maka sure kaha ka nga matured na imo kadate emotionally basin plastic effect nasad na.... weeee... the best guy is the one who talks about the future rather than talk about "it"...

Shall I say it's very complicated . So, maybe this is one of the rare cases wherein I lost my power to determine one's character based on aura and words.. I might have been obscured by fantasies of happy endings but then it failed again.