here's a qoute from singer/songwriter John Mark McMillan
"I think people need to be free to question things. God isn’t afraid of questions. Questions only offend the insecurities of people. When I was a teenager I told my dad, a charismatic pastor, that I wasn’t sure if I really believed in God. I thought he was going to be severely disappointed, but he said it was actually very healthy to be honest with God. Seriously, it's not like God didn’t already know. In fact, it’s the ability for me to honestly question what I believe that gives me the ability to honestly believe. So many people don’t really know what to believe because they’ve been under such religious pressure that they’ve never have had an opportunity. Love is only love if you choose it. It can't be handed down like homework."
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