Before I kill myself I need your opinion

[philip_morris]

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thank you istoryans!

I'm feeling better now. maybe i just needed your broad knowledge on love.
I came to the right place!

God Bless!!!

[Tirong-say]

Think again, naa man gani naminyo diha nga naa pa gyuy anak ang girl, weak ra kaayo imohang love sa imohang wife, just think biktima ra pud na siya, do you think nga kung kahibalo siya nga kamo diay magdayon magpahilabot na siya adtong lakiha, dili gyud tingale, love her more luoy na imohang asawa kalimti na lang tong nangagi wala na kay mahimo adto, unya kung modayon ka, lain na pud mabana anang imohang asawa, mahimutang kaha ka didto.

[amyrrhielle]

you're asking for an opinion on what?
she lied, yes, but it's a small one...
you have to get over it...
it's not worth killing yourself over...
think about what your future holds...
people lie to appease themselves...
maybe for her it would be easy for you to look at her and love her if she told you she was a virgin...
think about this...
1) do i still love her?
2) if i really love her, do i want to hurt her? even though she hurt me?
3) what would she feel if i kill myself because of her mistake of lying to me and making a fool of me?
4) will she move on with her life after i'm dead?
5) most importantly, what would God tell me if I kill myself over this situation if I meet him?

those are the proper questions to ask.

[amyrrhielle]

i'll pray for you

[rennyvonne]

so you feel sad because you found out the secret of your wife? and you want to kill your self for that? are you sure about that decision? you don't need our opinion. you need our approval. but actually it's your choice. ending your life because of a secret that you just found out. and you also said you have been married for 2 yrs... won't that be a waste?

[darkraven]

brad, kung ang virginity ra imong issue, think again... kay mabaw ra kaayo nah nga reason to do what you're thinking.... unsa man jud ang gi love nimo sa imong wife? ang iyang paggavirgin or ang iyang pagkataw?

now, for the issue nga nag lie siya, have you talk about it with her?
tel her nga na lain ka to know about it karon lang...
pagstorya mo para makabaw ka sa iyang side.
asa naman tong "for better or for worst" you promise to each other?

[jeff_bonz59]

what the hell...ei dude.. before you jump off buildings or take some pills.. reexamine your self first and your conscience..JESUS! what kind of a man are you? just because your wife is not a virgin anymore and your NOT the first guy to 'do' her doesnt give you the right and excuses to curtail or end your own...I have heard and read poor and lame excuses before.. BUT hell, this has to be the lamest excuse of all time in my vocabulary.. tsk tsk.. I pity you dude.. if you worry over trivial things such as, and making this problem a mountain out of molehill..., how much more (I just wonder) will you do if you encounter much bigger and much more real life problems that comes on your way.. geeze.. tsk tsk..

[coolguyiam20]

bro mura mn na og binata imoha oi..big deal pa d.i na nmo ang virgin ron??
sultian tka xd..3 tyms ko nabiktima sa girl g.ingnan xd ko og virgin pa xa dn pghuman namo
n.ingon xa nko dili na daw..yah..tinood ka mkawala jud na og gana labi na og mamakak xa..
mas ganahan pa noon ko og ingnan sa girl nga nkatry na xa og s3x..kaysa mgpapretend..
minyo nmn mo...dawata nlng nah...ang nka.nindot lng skoa kay d pko minyo,uyab pa mi nkhbw nko.

[maitoots]

sure ka ani noh?? hala ka mabaw ra gud sa imo reason ana imo hikog2 oi.. virginity rah?? diin ka gikan brod sa mars?? did you even try to talk to her about your problem?? if you don't love her because she lied then go ang leave her, find another one kanang virgin arn d nana maglabad imo ulo.. but if you love her ngano gud intawn ka.. that moment you marry her, you marry the person and not the virginity or maybe you marry her because she said she is a virgin?? mao na maghikog nlang ka kay on the 1st place mabaw rman kaau imo reason oi.. as long as she is faithfull as a wife does virginity matter pa ba? ka paranoid sad nmo cge think ana ya past oi.. if nahitabo na nga wla pa cya nhimo nmo nga wife so be it.. past is past.. mao na gtawag cya ug past kay dapat palabyun na jud na cya..
curious lang ko ba, ngano d ay virgin sad ka pag minyo ninyo??

[emnace09]

di na man cgru kaau nah issue ang virginity now adays.. psagdi nlng nga bro..gmay rman nang problema nmu oie..nya kng mgsuicide, mbuhi ra gypon ka,, msamot nuon ug kdako imu problema..