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    Default Is my hubby is a mama's boy?


    I'm a newbie here.

    It's all about my family. I'm married na, I had a son. My situation is, we we're just starting to build our family, everytime when it comes to decision making apilon jud na sa ako hubby ang iya mama especially when it comes to money matter. by the way he is the eldest and the only boy.Adto cya mostorya sa iya mama kon unsa iya plano then matinga nlang ko nga mao d i to iya plan. even sauna pa nga la pa mi kasal, kada sweldo niya ihatag jud na sa ya mama tanan. I understand him bcoz we live in the same roof. I already told my husband about my feelings and i think he did not mind. Now, my husband has a plan to start a small livestock business, as usuall sila lang ang nag plano. I confronted him,and he said that i don't understand their business. I was dismayed. I just rely on my job when it comes to my financial expences. We always fight when i talk about my rights as a wife..
    Mga istoryans advice lang or points of view.

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    murag kalisud ba ani oi..
    try to talk to him again.. you already had an idea na d ay before mo nkasal nga dako possibility nga ma ing ani mo, dapat before you say your i dos inyo unta na gsabot daan unsa ang arrangement. but this set up is not right of course you are the wife and you now have the rights kay inyo bya na panaaran n front of the altar.. murag ang naa deperencya ani sis is ang imo man bana.. aside from this aspect everything is fine ra between the two of you? how is he as a husband and as a father? just like to know arn naa pd mi basis unsaon ka namo pag tambag

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    yes///////////////////////

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    Paglain mo ug puyo ayaw ug ipon diha sa ilaha para ma-independent ang mind sa imohang bana...

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    yeah i know d feeling.
    pro whichever mglahi mo or ur with ur in-laws
    f ur husband s a mama's boy
    then wala ra nay pulos imong pgkawife.
    tell ur husband to change
    kay minyo na cya
    better stand as a man having a family.

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    confront sa imo husband...tell him wat imo na feel,,ka lain pd ana naa pd ka right mkabaw ky wife nagud ka nya....tsktsk...pag lain nalng mo og puyo,,
    wala pa cguro na nalutas imong bana sa iyang mama...ehehehe

    if d jud madala imong bana og bisan unsa nga storya ingna nalng nga "kamo nalay puyo sa imong mama"...hehehe

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    bitaw...


    pila mo katuig mag0uyab? wa jud ka kadiscover ana?

    how did you examine things...everything...before going to marriage?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ge_renz View Post
    I'm a newbie here.

    It's all about my family. I'm married na, I had a son. My situation is, we we're just starting to build our family, everytime when it comes to decision making apilon jud na sa ako hubby ang iya mama especially when it comes to money matter. by the way he is the eldest and the only boy.Adto cya mostorya sa iya mama kon unsa iya plano then matinga nlang ko nga mao d i to iya plan. even sauna pa nga la pa mi kasal, kada sweldo niya ihatag jud na sa ya mama tanan. I understand him bcoz we live in the same roof. I already told my husband about my feelings and i think he did not mind. Now, my husband has a plan to start a small livestock business, as usuall sila lang ang nag plano. I confronted him,and he said that i don't understand their business. I was dismayed. I just rely on my job when it comes to my financial expences. We always fight when i talk about my rights as a wife..
    Mga istoryans advice lang or points of view.
    Imong bana abnormal. Unsa may rason niya nganong gepakasalan ka? Para tig gama og bata og maid sa ilang balay? Or Tig Gamag Bata, Plus Maid, og Tig Dugang sa ilang kwarta? Sorry sa mga pulong nako. Pero imong bana way ayo.

    Stop saving a relationship or marriage nga wala kay happiness. Nuon dili man sad solusyon ang BUWAG. Pero og akong bana pareha sa imong bana, makigbuwag gyud ko.

    Mo ingon ang uban nga mag sturya mo. Nag sturya naman mo diba? Unsa iya sulti? Wala daw kono ka kabalo sa dagan sa ilang negosyo. Ngano sweto man sya? Kinder 1 ba diay imo nahuman? Grabeha pod na mang insulto imong bana. Tsk tsk.

    Nya nakigsturya na sad kas imong bana, pero wala syay paki sa imong feelings. Unsa man imo relasyon towards sa iyang pamilya? Okey ba? Maayo ba ang tagad sa iyang inahan nimo? Kasagaran raba inahan makig kompetensya sa BinaJe (LOL! BINAJE).

    Minyo naman sad ko day, akong bana kay ONLY SON! Pero wala me sa ilaha ni poyo, kay sure ko, ana na mag sugod akong kalbaryo.

    Naa ra na nimo. OG kaya nimo mo antos sa klase sa sitwasyon naa ka, aw antosa nalang. Kay og kaya nimo mag antos, pagpabilin ra ka nga BUTA OG BONGOL. Then imong bana sad kay magpabilin sad og BUTA nga wala siya kaila or kahibaw ME EXIST KA.

    Sakit baya. Mao na nga og dili na jud nimo ma antos, ayaw nalang antosa. Then paninguha nga naa kay ma save. Mag save ka nga wala siyay Idea nga naa kay savings. Kay once mo abot ang panahon nga mo abot ang PINAKA WORST NGA SCENARIO EVER, atleast, naa kay mako-ot. Okey?

    Mao nay ge tawag og... OTONG!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ge_renz View Post
    I'm a newbie here.

    It's all about my family. I'm married na, I had a son. My situation is, we we're just starting to build our family, everytime when it comes to decision making apilon jud na sa ako hubby ang iya mama especially when it comes to money matter. by the way he is the eldest and the only boy.Adto cya mostorya sa iya mama kon unsa iya plano then matinga nlang ko nga mao d i to iya plan. even sauna pa nga la pa mi kasal, kada sweldo niya ihatag jud na sa ya mama tanan. I understand him bcoz we live in the same roof. I already told my husband about my feelings and i think he did not mind. Now, my husband has a plan to start a small livestock business, as usuall sila lang ang nag plano. I confronted him,and he said that i don't understand their business. I was dismayed. I just rely on my job when it comes to my financial expences. We always fight when i talk about my rights as a wife..
    Mga istoryans advice lang or points of view.
    Sis there's nothing wrong about being a mama's boy.. ang sayop ana kay He's not doing the part of a husband and head of the family.. Men should take care of his family. and by doing that or part of that, he needs to consider all the facts or things that his wife comes up to.. Kinahanglan niya respetohon ang decision sa iya asawa ug kinahanglan pahibaw-on sa tanan niyang decision. If a man wants his wife to respect him, then he must respect his wife also.. Men should love their wives and wives should submit to the will of their husbands.. (EPHESIANS 5:21-33)

    Try lang ni ninyo sis... maybe your relationship as a couple will work out fine..

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    you should try talking to him again and let him know how you feel. make it clear that this marriage is between you and him, and although you value his parents or his mom's opinions and advice, it will still be you and his decision at the end. kaya mo yan sis. keep the communication lines open lang.

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