Until when ko maghilak?

[luke0917]

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im sharing my feelings kay huot na jud kau akong dughan, please understand if taas taas ni cya.

i have a bf for 4 years and 7 months. currently i am also 6 months pregnant with our son but were not married. everything was doing good until last sunday, may 10. i accessed my bf's ym then all of a sudden there was a buzz and a msg coming from a girl, the message says "hi luvs", so, i was shocked. i also replied. "hus this", then the girl replied, "ah bag o pa gne ko nilarga nkalimot nka". so i again replied, "huh", who are you, she then again replied "knsa ni c (my bf's name) or me (my name), i told her its me then she starts saying bad words to me. sa akong kalagot kay ako g.adto akong bf sa ilahang blay den ako g.confront. then niangkon cya na september pa daw cla nagka uyab. ako sad, pwerte nkong hilak kay sakit kau jud sa akong buot na gbuhatan ko ug ingon ana den buntis pa jud ko. ako gpapili akong bf kung knsa namo 2 ang iya pilion, ako ug ang bby or ang iyang new gf. ang tubag kay mas luv na daw nya iyang new gf kaysa nko. grabe jud, mura ko makuyapan sa kasakit sa akong gbati atong adlawa. pag uli nko sa amua, ntxt cya nko ug nangayo ug sorry. sa akong kalagot na pud, nkareply ko ug mga sakit sad na pulong nya.

pagka lunes ana, may 11, niadto na sad ko sa ilaha sayo kau mga 7.30am pa. ako gdala tnan nya mga gpanghatag nko even among albums. nagtalk na pud mi den this time nangayo cya ug sorry personally, ako cge ra ghapon ko ug hilak jud. he said na maybe wla lng cya sa tarong nya hunahuna pag sunday na niingon cya na mas luv nya ang iyang uyab kaysa nko ug sa baby. so, pag uli nko sa blay nag txt2 na pud mi den mura na ug nahusay gmay.

pagka tuesday May 12, while nag browse ko sa iya friendster, ako gtan aw ang friendster profile atong girl kay friends man cla, ug na shock na pud ko kay naa didto ang mga picture nlang duha sa friendster sa girl. lagot na pud kau ko so ako na pud g.confront akong bf. ako cya g.ingnan nga wla jud cla at least kaikog man lng nko na gbandera pa jud nla ilang mga pics sa friendster. sa akong kalagot kay gsendan nko ug email ang girl akong g.away. by the way ang girl kay wla na dri, naa na sa dubai pag december daw nlarga. nag sorry na sad cya nko den nangayo cya ug time pra mag think, ako g.ingnan na wla nay time kay makigbuwag na jud ko, sobra na jud. sugot cya na magbuwag mi pro dli cya mosugot mawagtangan ug ryt sa baby. ako man cya g.ingnan nga dli jud nko cya pakit on sa bata.

krn, wednesday, may 13. nireply ang girl sa akong email. ako pa ang g.away, g.ingnan ko na salin ra daw ko!! lagot na pud kau ko so ako na pud greplyan ang email sa girl ako pud g.away. g.ingnan ko nya nga dli ko maghabol nla duha kay wla na daw love ang akong ex nko. as in, the nerve!! cya pa ang nangaway nko. grabe na jud kau ang kasakit na akong gbati krn. kapoy na pud ko cge ug hilak.

ako pangutana is until wen man ko maghilak??

[angelbymistake27]

sis...mag hilak jud ka sige if mag cge ka ingon ana...naka kita naman ka ug buslot then mag sige ka ug pangita ug lain na buslot na pud..samot na masakita ka...if ingon ana nga wala klaro imong bf..don't chase after him...pasagdai siya oi...imo na lang kay mag focus ka sa imohang umaabot na anak...ayaw hatagi ug problema imong self kay mo apekto na sa imong baby...pasagdai na sila sa ilahang gibati oi...kaysa mag antos ka maau...pasalamat ka nasakpan na nimo...bf pa lang gani mo nag binuang naman gani siya how much more if makasal namo..confident pa kaau siya ni sulti infront nimo nah mas gipili niya iyahang new gf...ayaw paantusa imong kaugalingon..u also deserve to be happy...naa imong family..they are always there to listen and support you..and also..don't forget to ask guidance and strength from HIM...

[monochromatic]

until when? until mka get-over nka ato nia. kung pwede ayaw lang sa paghilak2 ron kay saon nlang ang baby pero d mn sad nuon malikayan. forget about him nlang ui and love yourself and your baby.

[black_vixen]

Sorry to hear that. Hope you'll move on and be happy with your baby.

POV, sis you should take good care of yourself. First thing first, you're pregnant. Please try to divert your attention. Stop being so emotional and its hard to manage that then coz pregnant like you is prone to emotional ups and downs. Stop the crying for your baby's sake. Do the things that makes you happy. Don't be so hard on yourself. If you can dare to set aside the situation first, have a talk with your fool bf on what to do with the baby. Talk about the hospital finances, things that he should do for you and for the baby while staying as friends. Or else you can leave him and NEVER EVER run after him. Get helped from your parents and friends. I know they will understand you. Don't makes decision when you're discouraged. Stay focus on your baby's health. S/he don't need your unhappiness. S/he feels you when you're frustrated. Pray that you can stand in your own without any cheap parasites around. Its really your decision to stop the tears. Motivate yourself don't think too much about the situation. Simple 1,2,3 - since he cheated and choose the other girl, let him go. You're not married to him, you still have the bright side to fulfill your dreams in life. You're not alone on earth who'd encounter this stupidness. Stop doing things that can lead your frustrations. Stay strong. Women are born to be strong than man.

[luke0917]

lge,nka decide naman ko sis. pro sakit man gud ghapon, mkahilak ra jud ghapon ko.

[chad_tukes]

looks like a love triangle.

this guy's like a monkey; he loves swinging from one branch to the other.

[black_vixen]

luke0917, past is past. Don't look backward, move forward. Just think it is just the hormones acting. Read any books.

[kisntel]

maka affect kaayo ni sa imo baby ang imo pgcge hilak ug ka depress. ug wala ka maluoy sa imong self, maluoy ka sa imong umaabot na anak. basin "masakiton" imo baby ana inig gawas. dili jud na dali na maka move on ka labi na bag o pa kaayo fresh pa ang sakit. just keep your faith in HIM, ask the Holy Spirit for strength and guidance. e think na lang na everything happens for a reason.. love yourself more and your baby..

[luke0917]

wla man ko plan maghabol sis, even if dli pa cya mutabang sa gastohon nig panganak nko ok ra kau. ang ako lng jud kay sa pagka krn sakit jud kau iya gbuhat. dli gne ko gnahan mukaon pro pugson lng jud nko tulon ang kan on pra lng sa baby pud.

[darkraven]

hahay, to TS, that gurl is a b*tch. i assume kabaw siya about sa inyong relationship sa guy pero nipatol ghapon... kung na babay pako sis then ako ang naa ana nga situation, pasagdan nako sila sa ilang gibati... tinuod sakit jud nah ang nahitabo pero kung nabuhat na sa laki karon nga wala pamo naminyo, for sure mabuhat pajud nah niya in the future, and worst if minyo namo...

use your mind at this point sis... hunahuna kung magbalik mo malipayon paba ka with him...
makasabot ko sa imong gibati karon. ihilak nah og maayo, moabot ang time makaamgo raka og makapangutana nga ngano nag usik-usik man ko og hilak aning tawhana...

your family will help you with this problem, talk to them....