HELP Insensitive and inconsiderate

[zeezee]

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help please need pieces of advice ako bf insensitive and inconsiderate. he is a military and stationed in boracay. we see each other once a month. the prob is he asked me to marry him but before our wedding he wanted me to go there sa boracay. but things changed and now he is making a lot of excuses. wa nako kasabot ani. help!!!

[delzy]

naa tngali lain nkt.an sa bora..tsk tsk

[zeezee]

naa tngali lain nkt.an sa bora..tsk tsk

murag mao jud na.... sigh sayang 5 years na mi... it hurts baya jud

[gkoopir]

unsa man nga exuces? dili naka niya dad.on sa boracay?

[zeezee]

unsa man nga exuces? dili naka niya dad.on sa boracay?

it was well planned na ill move there while we are preparing for the wedding coz he cant wait daw na magkita mi again and that he is not used na wa daw ko blah blah blah... all was set for me to go there on the 6th of this month then 3 days ago nikalit lang change. its not time daw coz their command officer will be there, the money isnt enough as in totally opposite jud with what we planned. how come he doesnt have money when all is set for our wedding there. hai ambot. i did ask my mom all she said was to get myself done on being stupid with him.... my mom doesnt like him btw.

if he met someone there like i told him it would be best to let me know than to expect nya wa man d i paadtuan amo relationship. 5 years isnt a joke.... it seems like we have been together since the day we were born.

[gkoopir]

i see.. dili bug-at ang iyang rason. There must be something behind that.
Lisud man pud kaayo ang situation sa inyong relationship kay once a month ra man d ai mo magkita.
Makasulti ko bisan 5 year na mo nagkauyab pero dli jud cya ing.ana ka heavy compare kong naa ra sa duol ang imong partner.

Kabalo ka friend, naa jud lalaki nga maayo kaayo mo discarte nya pasaligan ka. Maylang kong dili ni siya ing.ani. Pero daghan raba kaayo og temptation sa boracay.
Kumusta man inyong communication, kapila man mo magtalk sa week/month? kanos-a last niya nga visit?

[tyne]

U have to talk and ask him y nag change iya mind. If he finds someone new then let go of him. Even if dugay namo it doesnt mean na kamo najud.like me almost 5 yrs mi,nagbreak man ghapon.now im hapi with someone else.

[P-Chan]

he's afraid and insecure.. supporta nalng the best you can..

[zeezee]

i see.. dili bug-at ang iyang rason. There must be something behind that.
Lisud man pud kaayo ang situation sa inyong relationship kay once a month ra man d ai mo magkita.
Makasulti ko bisan 5 year na mo nagkauyab pero dli jud cya ing.ana ka heavy compare kong naa ra sa duol ang imong partner.

Kabalo ka friend, naa jud lalaki nga maayo kaayo mo discarte nya pasaligan ka. Maylang kong dili ni siya ing.ani. Pero daghan raba kaayo og temptation sa boracay.
Kumusta man inyong communication, kapila man mo magtalk sa week/month? kanos-a last niya nga visit?

before he was assigned sa boracay we both stayed here in cebu so everyday jud magkita. things were ok at first when he moved in boracay but as our wedding date is getting closer the more i realize how far he is na that i could no longer reach out na jud niya. everyday we text ga call sad siya. i guess its coming to end na jud. faetz bya aning mga laki nga uban wui. sigh

[zeezee]

U have to talk and ask him y nag change iya mind. If he finds someone new then let go of him. Even if dugay namo it doesnt mean na kamo najud.like me almost 5 yrs mi,nagbreak man ghapon.now im hapi with someone else.

juice kow i asked na if naay lain wa daw bz lng jud daw. i guess its not meant to be jud cguro. im trying my best to accept na lng. it wont be easy to let go and move on but what else can i do pa dba.