Unforgiven

[sethner]

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what will you do if you're truly sorry about something but the person you have wronged won't forgive you?

[meimei16069]

you did something. take the consequences. for now, you should also take time to prove to that one you've wronged of that you are really to your deepest apologies.. show to her/him that you deserve a second chance coz everybody does. you should take time to earn his/her trust again.. and make sure you won't fail for the 2nd time. if he/she does not forgive you then, you're done with your part. but that doesn't mean you shouldn't treat him/her well. ok? who's that person by the way that you have wronged of? mind me asking?

[jlodarl]

people can forgive but it takes more time.. so u need to be patient, and show her that you are truly sorry..

[emnace09]

forgiveness needs time and its a long proces..toinkz..
bitaw part,,just show her how sorry u have felt sa nbuhat nmu nga saup..

[k9]

yep they are right. it takes time - just be patient and for the time being prove to him/her how sorry you are.

[emnace09]

pero d best thing u have to do is just give her time to think and reflect on things.. mkaamgo ra nah mdugay brad..

[resty"titing"]

i'll probably just wait...

[sethner]

you did something. take the consequences. for now, you should also take time to prove to that one you've wronged of that you are really to your deepest apologies.. show to her/him that you deserve a second chance coz everybody does. you should take time to earn his/her trust again.. and make sure you won't fail for the 2nd time. if he/she does not forgive you then, you're done with your part. but that doesn't mean you shouldn't treat him/her well. ok? who's that person by the way that you have wronged of? mind me asking?

thanks meimei.. you're right. i guess i just need to sulk in what happened and hope and pray that time will heal everything. this person is someone i love and i really didn't mean to hurt him. i was just being stupid. i hope he knows how deeply sorry i am and only want everything to be okay...

[sethner]

@jlodarl,emnace09,resty"titing" - maybe that's why they say, "time heals all wounds". igo ko ani kay that's one of the things that i struggle with... patience (in the sense of waiting)... i tend to want things instantly. in this case, murag nag expect pod ko ug instant forgiveness. so siguro, by giving him time and space, he will eventually accept my sorry... God knows how much i love him and that i really didn't mean to upset him.. i was just being stupid. sometimes,we just lose ourselves and get stupid-- a stupid human nature.

[jhou-ahnne]

wel, yaw nlang tagda na nakasala ka. dba? total u already did your part naman pud. u sed sory already. so,its her choice na to accept it or not. just be haapy and move on. you can live your life even without her/his presence...dba? unless nuon kung god cia.