my BESTFRIEND is A Flirt..=(

[wakiki]

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hi guys, im just newbie here.. anyways.. i have this close friend of mine.. were very close.. in fACT weve been together since 1st year High school until 3rd year college, i told her all my secrets and one of my secret is about my crush.. i have a crush na classmate ra pud namo sa usa ka subject.. ganahn jud ko ani nga guy.. as in nag wish gani ko nga manguyab sya nako.. because he also show a sign nga ganahan sad sya nako.. pgka baw sa ako best friend nga ganahn gyud ko sa guy.. iya gi FLIRT ang guy siya moy mo dool2, one day naka kita jud ko sa atubangan jud nako iya gi flirt2 ang guy.. sad to say ang guy naguyab niya.. and then siya pa gyuy nagsulti nako nga naguyab niya ang akong guy nga ganahan... i was shock wa jud ko kabaw sa ako na feel ...


my question is how come mabuhat to niya nako? nga kabaw namn ta sya nga ganahn ko ato nga guy?..

ako lang ba tong kalimtan? mo tagad pa ba kaha ko sa ako friend?

[iamcreamier]

...in short...TRAYDOR imong friend...BEASTFRIEND nah...

...well, try to forgive her and forget everything...

...if the incident affects ur friendship then maybe she's not worthy to be ur friend jud...

...at least u keep urself from hurting too much...

...just let it pass girl...

[jackyboy]

ngano man d i kung nanguyab ang imu crush niya? unsa man sad mo sa imu crush? diba dili man sad mo uyab sa imu crush? ngano murag naka tag-iya naman pud ka ato lakiha? hehehehe.

relax lang. hehe. just hope na ma happy pud cla. yaw lang pud pag jelly2x diha ky magabaan pud nya ka. hehe.

kung ako sa imu lugar, pasensya nalang jud. hehehe.

[chad_tukes]

this is a good romance novel plot. you know those teen novels you get in the bookstore shelves.

not that i read them but...

[Sol_Itaire]

There are many good people out there to associate with.

[egent_kakashiZero]

aaaaaaaa...mdyo lain ang gi buhat sa imo "beast friend"..coz she knew u like d guy..as wat they all say.."best friends are your worst enemy"..even if dli jud mo uyab sa guy..mdyo traydor jud iyang gi himo..
mdyo ilang nman gud i.tagad..labi na "if" cla njud officialy..just move on nlng..try to take ur mind out of it..just make ur self busy nlng..and try to find a better friend/friends na masaligan jud hehehe..
njoy ur sinulog nlng inday hehehe..god bless...

[kamote_kid]

Just think of it this way, be thankful because at least now you know what kind of "best friend" do you have. Probably you're heard the phrases "your best friend is your worst enemy", "keep your friends close, keep your enemies closer", and "the bridge is the owner", not everybody close to you is what they really are. It might be hard to think and accept what she has done but also think about what she might have done to you in the future if you haven't found out or at least get a slight idea about her character, it might be a lot worse than stealing a crush.

You know, trust is a very hard thing to restore once it is lost. So just shrug it off and move on. It's actually not your loss, it's your friend's loss.

[zenred]

basi gi testingan lang sa imo bestfriend. hehehe

[hunt99]

hi guys, im just newbie here.. anyways.. i have this close friend of mine.. were very close.. in fACT weve been together since 1st year High school until 3rd year college, i told her all my secrets and one of my secret is about my crush.. i have a crush na classmate ra pud namo sa usa ka subject.. ganahn jud ko ani nga guy.. as in nag wish gani ko nga manguyab sya nako.. because he also show a sign nga ganahan sad sya nako.. pgka baw sa ako best friend nga ganahn gyud ko sa guy.. iya gi FLIRT ang guy siya moy mo dool2, one day naka kita jud ko sa atubangan jud nako iya gi flirt2 ang guy.. sad to say ang guy naguyab niya.. and then siya pa gyuy nagsulti nako nga naguyab niya ang akong guy nga ganahan... i was shock wa jud ko kabaw sa ako na feel ...


my question is how come mabuhat to niya nako? nga kabaw namn ta sya nga ganahn ko ato nga guy?..

ako lang ba tong kalimtan? mo tagad pa ba kaha ko sa ako friend?

let's say sis na depende sa imong bestfirend basin naa siyay mga plano una gi testing ra goro ka kung maka agwanta ba ka or second basin naa sad siyay gusto atong lakiha pero wa siya mo solti nimo or third pede sad nag trinaydor nimo or fourth pede sad siya na ly ni testing sa laki ky basin ang laki di tarong onya gi tabangan na lang ka niya aron kung ang laki di tarong di na lang ka padayon ato or fifth basin ga sabot sila sa laki ky ang laki naa sy gus2 nimo pero basin iyang gi solti-an ang laki na naa sad ky gus2 niya onya wa pa ka to-o ang laki so nag plan sila na mag ka uyab konohay ony sa tinood wala diay to pero ako pa nimo sis para ma clear ask your bestfriend kung onsa man gyuy tinood if answer is positive then ok no problem if answer is negative then it's up to you kung mo forgive ka pero mas nindot sis na mo forgive ka ayaw ka problema ky babae bitaw ka maka kita raya kag lain onya dapat gani ang laki mo do-ol nimog una onya malimtan rana nimo pangitag lingaw na di ka cgeg ka huna huna sa nahitabo kung negative ang answer sa imong bestfriend bisan na forgive na nimo

[joshbonz]

for me, this a case of a friend going envy.... envious of your likes..

you said that your bestfriend have been your bestfriend eversince way back 1st year highschool right?.. in all the years you've been together.. she had develop some attachments with you. attachments that she's thinking that she might lose you someday to some guy you tend to fall in love with(eventually). Being all that she is, I guess that all the years of being friends have develop in her the sense of awareness and sense of KSP and lack of confidence with herself... You might be mostly the guys girl and she's just a nobody in one corner of the room...

So, her natural feeling of self inadequacy and the feeling of being unwanted gets the most of her.. since you told her that you like the guy, she went jumping in to take the situation more... to her liking..

Don't ask if your bestfriend loves you alright, because I know deep down she really loves you.. that is.. loving you and all the people that you also love the most...

This won't be the first and the last for you... the next time you confide to her again about your deepest wants and gets.. she will be the one to first jump in and get that for you..trust me on that..

Your friend loves you dearly and everything and everyone that you love or care to love...she'll take that off away from you..