HELP I thought they were my friends

[staphylococcus]

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akong e.story ang nahappen sa ako ganiha hap..,? read if you like and den comment if you like.., akong i.detail para way lalis., taas jud bya ni ahw unsa bah..,

sige start nako:

since sarado ang fuente niha., la choice ang mga tao but to make baktas para ka.abot sa imung padulngan.., esp. if doul ra.., so ako gbuhat.., naglakw na lang ko from jones area to capitol.., padung sa haus ako cuzin.., den sa hapit nako abot sa place sa ako cuzn.., naa mga tambay na ga.inum.., wa ko ga.mind nila but sa dha natungod nako sa ilaha.., gtagad ko nila as if kaila mi.., so nahunong ko den ni.atras gamay to check if kaila me.., den before ko k.ask kinsa sila.., ingon daun si

lesbi and guy1:tagay sa ta na
ako:hah?
lesbi:tagay sa ta bah..,one shot lang
ako:ay cge pass lang sa ko (d bya jud ko mu.inum so lakaw na ta ko padung when...)
guy 1: medtech ka noh? unsa gai ka year?
ako:uu medtech ko nganu diay?(curious mode pa ko ani)
guy1: same man tag skul.., kit.an tika sa skul,, vet.med ko..,
ako:ahw mao ba? cge ha.., kita2 lng nya ta sa skul.., cge ad2 sa ko..,
lesbi:ahy ayaw sah.., lingkod sa dri.., ila2 sa ta bah..,
(so nakig.ila2 sad ko nila in like less than a minute., mga 1st name ra.., den after lakaw na sad ko padung)
guy1:ayaw sah lakaw.., aha man dai ka padung bah?
ako: ay ad2 nko kay niha rko ghuwat ako cuzn.., taga.dha man sila.., (gtudlo nko compound sa akong ig-agaw para mahunong na ang storya and makalakaw nko w/o bein rude.., but daghan pa u sila side-questions na nasulti jud nko ang almost exact location sa haus na ko ad2an)


basta nakalakaw jud ko.., na.abot ko sa haus sa ako cuzn den dritso ko iyang room and gayawyaw if palahubog na ba jud dai au ko para agdahon ug tagay? gbugalbugalan kog tando sa akong ig.agaw.., den ask cxa y man diay? so i told him my story., den nanghagad ako cuzn to eat sa mcdo.., so nigawas mi sa ila.., ate for awhile and went back to their place..,

within mga 5 mins sa amung pag.abot sa ilaha.., gi.ingnan ko niya nga naa daw nangita nko sa gawas sa gate dapit., so na.shock ko kay d bya toh amu haus.., so ako g.gawas.., to my surprise.., it was the lesbi.., as in., super F.C. au cxa nakigtabi.., and mau gae ako nephew.., wa jud ko byae while naa ko sa gawas.., my nephew was shooting dagger looks at her and she even commented na isog daw au ako nephew., totally iyahang gdisregard ang obvious au na look sa akong nephew na "go away.., d ka pwede mutalk sa akong aunt.." and after like 10 mins of her blabbing away and me thinking of ways to end d conversation(it's not that nagpapresyo ko and all but dili man to amu haus.., delicadeza lang na d ko mu.entertain ug visitors nko ngad2).., mau gai gtwag ko ako cuzn for 3 times and i was glad na she took the hint and went away.., but hadlok ko 4 dem to just go find me at my cuzns place when i said na visitor rako..,

in less than 5 mins again.., nibalik na sad daw., ds time wa na gpa.open sa ako cuzn ang gate., and ds time guy1 was with lesbi na.., basta sige gyapon sila ug talk sa gwas even if through buslot sa gate ra ang conversation.., den nangau jud si guy1 sa ako number.., i somewhat knew na dili jud sila muhunong or muhawa until they get my number.., so i gave my prepaid lang..,(para naa ko reason d mureply)..,


after they went away na jud., then ang tanan tao sa haus sa ako cuzin.., ning.ingon na y man daw gsunod ko ato nila.., diin daw mi gakita.., unsa daw tuyo,,gtubag sad sila nko.., when kalit lang.., ni.ingon ako auntie na d daw ko mukompyansa gyud ug mga tao, na dili na daw ko maglakaw ako ra isa,den d daw ko makig.tabi ug mga tambay(in fairness to them: d man sad sila tambay jud ug look...) den d na daw ko maglaag sa skul or muad2 sa isa ka place sa skul na ako ra isa kay basin atangan daw ko sa guy and lesbi., naa ra ba daw wheels ang guy.., bacn unsa daw(grabeh au ug mga imaginations sila T_T)..,


den na.abot ako parents ug bro.., they were told of what happened and akong parents kay nahadlok sad but ako mom kay grabeh sad ka.react.., up to the point na ihatod sundo daw ko everyday.., den niabot pa sa point na ako ang naay sala..,


my question is...,

*tama bah kahadlokan and mga tao na nkigfriend nko?(d man sad nuan jud ko mureply ato nya)
but since same mi ug skul..,
*tama bah na mulikay ko nila sa skul if magkita mi?(like what my auntie said)


nahadlok sad ko nila ni guy1 and lesbi jud.., murag desperado effect man gud au.., but mas na.irit ko sa reactions sa mga oldies sa family kay ang ilaha solution is to protect me by guarding me na as if preschool ko na di maka.huna2 and think of ways to keep myself safe..,

[BeoR]

You should be thankful that your relatives care for you. It may sound like you are being bound against your will, but if you ponder on the events that took place there really is a reason for concern. Remember that a lot of things can happen if a person gets "drunk". Always remember that a parents' main objective is always what they think is right for their children. It may seem hard to understand, but eventually you will when your time comes.

On the other side of things, maybe they just really want to befriend you. But then again, there are better ways to do it other than inviting you to a drink while walking alone in a place unfamiliar to you.

[staphylococcus]

You should be thankful that your relative cares for you. It may sound like you are being bound against your will, but if you ponder on the events that took place there really is a reason for concern. Remember that a lot of things can happen if a person gets "drunk".

On the other side of things, maybe they just really want to befriend you. But then again, there are better ways to do it other than inviting you to a drink while walking alone in a place unfamiliar to you.

i'm really glad that my family and relatives care for me.., but i somewhat learned that i am too sheltered by them.,, that i also need to learn things on my own.., i am no longer a teen but they are treating me like i'm 5.., and the solution they thought of is to hide me and hinder me from learning and discovering this world on my own.., i am lucky that i am cared for but the concern they shower upon me.., actually left me helpless in real world., i am grateful jud.., but i also know that i can't always hide from the dangers of this life and that there may come a time that they are not around to help me.., i dnt want to hide and i dnt want to live in fear.., coz in reality man sad jud.., no matter where we are.., we can never be too safe..,

[BeoR]

I replied in relation to your post. I do agree that there are things that you need to do or experience on your own.

If you trace back on your parent's history, chances are high that someone in their family, close associate, or even they themselves had some previous experiences that they do not want you to go through...

[scorpionqueen]

kyawa sad ana oi! sakto ra nga protektahan ka sa imo family coz lisod na if you want to be left alone to learn things on your own, as you say. Stay away from them nalang if magkita mo sa school.

[neomorgatory69]

I dont think thats a good way to make friends, offering a girl a drink... Not by my standards that is. Hehehe.

Anyway, id advise you to stay away from them. Basehan pa lang ang pag atang nila sa gate, klaro na ilang linihukan.

[the Messenger]

*tama bah kahadlokan and mga tao na nkigfriend nko?(d man sad nuan jud ko mureply ato nya)
but since same mi ug skul..,
*tama bah na mulikay ko nila sa skul if magkita mi?(like what my auntie said)


nahadlok sad ko nila ni guy1 and lesbi jud.., murag desperado effect man gud au.., but mas na.irit ko sa reactions sa mga oldies sa family kay ang ilaha solution is to protect me by guarding me na as if preschool ko na di maka.huna2 and think of ways to keep myself safe..,

• Yes. The guy and the lesbo are not friendly people. They're the coercive type.
  
• Yes, as much as possible. But don't act scared if you cross paths with them and if they initiate small talk. Acknowledge their presence but don't give them a chance to get close to you. Appear to look busy all the time and stick to your own circle of friends. Easy target jud ka if loner ka.
  
• Don't be irritated by your folks. They're just doing what they can to protect you. You may not appreciate their efforts today, but you will in the future. They have every right to take measures. Gi-atangan na bya ka sa house. Desperate moves call for desperate measures.

[candy_ytal]

sakto jud.. obviously, aside from the fact that they wanted to make friends with you, naa sad jud reason behind it kay nganu dli gud ka nila undangan.. sa imung family.. sakto raman pd.. lisod naman gud ang kalibutan karon.. you can never trust anyone that easily no matter how they look.. it's better to be safe nalang jud.. panagana rana sa folks nimu..

[jntio]

wla mn daotan mkig fren, pa mili lng pd ug buotan/masaligan

[staphylococcus]

• Yes, as much as possible. But don't act scared if you cross paths with them and if they initiate small talk. Acknowledge their presence but don't give them a chance to get close to you. Appear to look busy all the time and stick to your own circle of friends. Easy target jud ka if loner ka.
  

lageh., cge2 il try and do above.., scared sad ko., d man sad nuan ko mulakaw ako ra isa sa skul.., ^_^

wla mn daotan mkig fren, pa mili lng pd ug buotan/masaligan

yeah.., wa man sad nuan ko plan makigclose nila kay im really choosy when it comes to making friends.., kay i believe man sad na you are who your friends are.., ",)



~thnx sa mga nireply and thnx sa tips..,

il stay away from them as much as possible.., d nako muagi sa ilaha dapit

il surround myself with friends sa skul

and

il prove to my folks that its okay to be protective of me.., but not so much kay its strangling sad jud bya.., im so thankful that i have a family dat cares for me jud..,