have u ever thought of setting up ur gf/bf to bust him/her??

[n0stALg|a]

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here's the situation:

there's this evil inside ur head telling u to setup ur gurl/guy juz to prove that he/she is loyal to u and not playin u...

so u ask a fren to text ur guy... pretend to be a stranger and ask Qs... like what's his/her name, where he/she lives, stuffs like that... and then u ask ur fren to ask ur gf/bf if he/she is in a relationship.. good thing he/she said yes... then comes the bust.. ur gf/bf asked ur fren why ur fren asked the question and asked if ever he/she (ur gf/bf) was available, would ur fren ever go out w/ ur gf/bf...

if this happened/happens to u, what would u do or how would u feel... would u believe if ever ur gf/bf tells u, after u told him/her that it was a setup, that he/she knew all along that it was a setup? would u believe him/her that he/she would never play u?

[abat]

sometimes when we feel insecure sa relationship we are tempted to do that, especially if your partner daghan kaaug sikreto.

i remember doing that before which wa gyuy ayo -- i realized you're only hurting urself and ur partner.

but for now, i'm too happy to even think of doing that.

[SweetCatEyes]

i did that once and i was happy with the result because i found out that he was faithful since he never entertained the idea. the girl even told him he'll wait for him outside the office. he even told me what happened, that a girl is texting him.

sometimes we do things "just to make sure". its wrong because in a relationship there should always be trust and respect, without that it will go to the drain.

[n0stALg|a]

yah i know na i should trust my partner.. but the thing is what if u and ur partner is in a relationship na barely a month pa lang.. dont u wanna know if kaw lang sa iya life?!?! di bah?!?! ako if bag-o pa lang kaau meh sa ako partner i get tempted to do this jud.. coz i wanna make sure na im not bein played...

[grlnxtdor16]

it happened jud to me!!!!

as in the exact scenario! i dunno.libog man akung na feel atung time-a oi.as in libog. wa jud ku kibaw unsa akung dapat jud nga bhaton.basta one thing na i wanted to happen kai magka istorya jud mi kai he was already avoiding me. to make the long story short, he was humiliated.i was disappointed.kai ni patol man gud cya.na wala na gai ang trust nga naa jud sauna.tungod lang ana.pait kaaU! to think ha, love gd kaau na to ang person nya ana lang ka sayun masakitan na dayun. di lalim ois.

[zer0_cooL]

i did it once when my bf at that time told me his going to manila coz his father is sending him there to pursue his studies... i was doubtful about it so i asked my friend to be his textmate... and boy! i found out a lot of things... the nerve of that guy! although ive forgiven me for what he did but it was only through text pur paths never crossed again after that incident..

[n0stALg|a]

sometimes, after u find out things about ur partner, u can hardly trust him/her anymore... once trust is lost or broken somehow its never easy to get it back.. and yah, we may forgive our partner for bein a jerk at that moment but we can never forget such incident... it hurts.. eventhough kita mismo nangita ana nga sakit.. but still we get frustrated that our partners are not as loyal and honest as we thought they were... =(

ako, once i lose my trust it becomes so hard for me to trust the person again... miski pa mu-ingon cya na they knew all along that it was a setup.. still lisod na jud.. there's still doubt on my partner.. what if the next time naa mu-text nya then dili na setup?? how would i know na he'd never do that to me?! di bah?! basta oi! yopak na! maypa wala nalang lagi!!

[14343]

........i hope before you do any stakeout and other binata thingy just to show you are so so so insecure please think about the consequences you will be getting........in the first place dili mag kagubot kung wa nimu gubuta..............di ba?..........

advice nako ninyo mga bayi.....pila a nang lalaki nga kabalo asa mu adto........na a man na inig ka date ninyo di ba?.........ask ka "asa man ta"?........ug nay tarong tubag.......mao nay pili-a............pero ug ang tubag "ambot " or ikaw asa man...........na wa nay klaro!..............

[n0stALg|a]

@14343

di man na childish... insecurity nuon! i know there's the saying na "what u dunno won't hurt u.." but then again, "the truth will set u free..." wouldn't it be nice to prove for urself that ur partner really is as faithful and honest as he/she tells u he/she is? di bah!? esp. kung bag-o pa kaau na relationship.. it would really be nice to know mintras sayo pa lang if ur partner has plans of really committing to the relationship or juz playin u... di bah?!

peace 14343

[14343]

............mao, dapat e cure sa na nimu ang pag-ka insecure nimu kay walay relationship nga mu last kung usa ninyo dili confident ug unsay mahitabo ninyo duha.............instinct ra man tingali ang descarte ani............ang pangutana ngano dili man sya faithful nimu and blah blah kung uyab naman kaha mung duha??...............na a kay BO sa?...........hehehe


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