HELP I pushed her away and now I'm broken

[rl]

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guys, thanks for the advice, now its time for me to be strong and move on and hope for the best

[jjonez_800]

im so sorry to hear that bro. i see where you coming from, in fact im still on a healing process, nearly getting over it though. i have a question in mind which made me wonder, if your ex-gf had considered you and your relationship as important as it is, why was it so easy for her to date someone else now, knowing the fact the both of you are still hurting? could she have been associated to someone else all the while and just didn't find a clean escape until the last argument which you had? i don't intend to have a negative notion about your ex or the situation in general, but when i learned that she's dating someone else that's when i started thinking, who could have been weak between the two of you from the attraction of other people. if you think you already did everything to please her and still she's not appreciating it, then i guess you had just won your battle. your gf gave up on you and that's it. she couldn't accept you for who you really are - good or bad. human as we are we have our own set of positive and negative traits, we can adjust but we can entirely change them, neither anyone should want to. a relationship works both ways and it requires effort from both parties... don't mind her, you know how some girls would crave for attention!!! divert your focus to your dreams and what you want to become in life, it'll help you move on. and since this thing happened to you, just keep in mind that there should be someone else better, yet to be known someday... cheers!

[jjonez_800]

how old are you anyway?

[acecrystal]

keeps me wondering also why was it that easy for her to date someone else knowing that the relationship has just ended? do reality check

[rl]

im already 26, and shes 21, we are in the same company, its so hard for me , cz , i can see them both together... yeah, sa among 1yr and 3months, kuyog gyd mi everyday... its so hard for me to see with some1 new, sigh... ako mangud sala gud....

what im thinking , i really hurt her so much that she couldnt take the pain, anymore, wala man kaau cya friends here gud, coz d man cya taga cebu... shes just working here

[Dondon]

Naa pud point si ace. Move on, learn from your mistakes :P Normal ra na imo nafeel.

[jjonez_800]

im not really sure how intense and how unacceptable your mistake was, if you say you are to be blame.the situation should still depend. however, if the ex has respect for what you had, regardless of what really happened she has the option to have "delecadesa" to herself and respect to you as a person, she could have give enough time before entertaining other guys. not unless if she's using it to make you feel even jealous, if so - ignore it. bec. if you pay attention to it, the more you're allowing her to hurt you, which would only make the situation worse. try to be at your best all the time, show her some self-improvement now that you are apart, still ignoring her loser moves of making you feel jealous... and see what happens. and yeah... start moving on, you'll know by then it was meant to be when you're no longer emotionally bothered and had already appreciated other things in life that can also make you feel contented and happy...

[rl]

yeah, i really want to be ok.. thanks kaau jjonez and everyone, grabe, it made me stronger gamay... s

[Soul_Captive]

yeah, i really want to be ok.. thanks kaau jjonez and everyone, grabe, it made me stronger gamay... s

Give your self some time bro..It is never easy..Nah samot pa sa inyo sitwasyon na pirme nimo xa makit-an with the guy she's dating..Pero, if wala na jd ka mabuhat to have her back, then work on letting go..I think sa sitwasyon karon is that murag di pa jd ka ganahan mobuhi niya..Think about it long and hard..Unsa man jd? Is she worth going after? Think about how she feels for you..The fact that she's dating already could mean that she's over you, but we cannot discount the fact that it might be her way of trying to get over you..There is another side of the story man gud..Her side of the story..But, if she does not want you back na jd, and she is sure about it, then you should make the decision to let go as well..We can never make someone else stay and be with us if they do not want to..Otherwise, pareho lang mo duha maging miserable if ipugos jd nimo..

[rl]

@soul

very true, shes really mad at me bcoz akong batasan...sigh, i dont know and ur right i want to get back at her, coz murag gamay ra kaau reason nag buwag mi and then naa cya ka date2x lain.. anyway im not judging her, maybe i realyl hurt her so much.. sigh i dont know..