HELP He broke my trust

[motchkatt]

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nobody's perfect we all know that..
but is that an excuse to commit mistake bisan kahibaw kang sayop?

nka-sala sya nko before..
as in sala nga "grounds for instant break-up" jud bah.
sort of napasaylo nko sya but.. not totally.
now, mejo la nko trust niya..
i don't nag him about things regarding ana hinuon..
pero doubts about him are rising up in my mind..

[Soul_Captive]

It is normal for you to doubt him every now and then..He cannot blame you for that..After all, he did it once, so he can do it again..However, he has to be grateful that you forgave him and accepted him back..And if he has enough sense in him (and if he really does care for you), then he will not do it again..

[motchkatt]

i sure hope so... in-ani man gud ang twist..
wla bya jud xa tintala sa girl, it was his own will.mismo siya pa ang nangita ug way..
karon, wla may temptation nga duol so mkaingon jud ka na he's doin fine na..
but wat if nana pud muabot na temptation, if he really does care...the big question is, will he evade or be drawn to it again!

[Soul_Captive]

It will be his decision to make, sis..And that will serve as your judging point..If he really does it again, then it will be safe to say that he is bound to do it over and over again..It is up to you to decide if you will be willing to put up with that..The thing is, if he does it again, and you forgive him and take him back again, more likely than not, mg-abusar jd na xa and mgsalig na you will always be there to take him back no matter how many times na niya buhaton..So, it's all up to you kun kaya ba nimo na mabuhi with him and his actions..

[motchkatt]

wa rabay kawatan nga muangkon, and i am unaware if he's doing it again. how wud i kknow..?

[Soul_Captive]

wa rabay kawatan nga muangkon, and i am unaware if he's doing it again. how wud i kknow..?

I'm not that good in being a detective..But, one thing you can do is not to trust completely..Be a little cautious, observe things and check on those which are suspicious..Mao raman na ako kasagaran buhaton before, ug kaluoy sa Dios, nasakpan jd! hehehehe

[jlodarl]

mao jud na even naay second chance wala na jud ayooooo... kay trust was already broken...

[Soul_Captive]

TO forgive is always possible, and even easy if you love the person, but to forget about things done is another issue..The heart forgives but the mind always remembers..

[ajol]

if you have doubts better end it...

Quotable qoutes: "Better to end pain than pain with no end"

[rockrhyan1982]

CHEATING is not by chance, its a CHOICE...