Much of our misperception of love is based on how we use it in our everyday speech. For example, take the expression:"We fall in love." Fall means to stumble, to trip, to lose one's balance -- to be out of control. Is love then an accident, an unconscious descent into the unknown? Is love something that bypasses conscious choice and rationality? From our use of language you would have no concept of love as a creative act. Too many of us think that love just happens.
what you think? can you give your openions?