How do you discipline your pre-school child (1-5yrs old)?

[freesoul]

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Generally, we parents of a pre-school child (1-5yrs old) tend to shout or spank our children when they are misbehaving or have done something wrong.

Is this the right way? How do you discipline your pre-school child? How do you set rules for them to follow?

Since pre-school is the most critical stage where your child builds his/her personality and traits, we should be more guided in helping our child grow up the right way.

To displine our child we should also be discipline parents. And lead as good example for our child to follow.

Share your effective ideas and experiences in discplining your pre-school.

[dexterdal]

spend more quality time with your child so that you'll be able to see what he/she is doing wrong then you can start from there

[angelfyre]

i talk to my son lang. last recourse nlng ng spanking. dli ko mamunal kng dli angay. madala ra man ug storya. kasabot man pd. sabton lng na cla na.

[teomargulbin]

train up the child in the way he should grow so that when he grow up he will not forget it....
lola:tagai lang gud na ang ako apo peso ra bitaw na dili bitaw mangayo ug hilikopter
mama: bitaw sa taga -an lang tani bisan unsa iya pangayu-on maluoy man sad ta.....

,.......mao ni ang ato problema usahay mga ginikanan ato jud taga-an ato anak bisan unsa pangayu-on kamay ra bitaw na ila pangayo ....what if mangayo ug hilikopter nya dili jud ta kahatag nya naanad na nga tagaan jud cila.......

[homebasedpartner]

Never spank. If magstart ang tantrum divert the attention dayon. Talk and let them feel you are there for them even if sayop sila. Don't say "ayaw ana sayop na" but instead say "what you did hurt the ears of others so everytime you feel shouting coz you're mad and frustrated, breath deeply 5 times and tell mom or dad calmy". Tell the kids the reason why it's not nice and suggest a better way to act. Always ask them if they feel hurt or frustrated if maglisod pa sila open. Be firm but kind and loving.

[pinkpumpkin]

dili bunalan and dili xagitan pero usahay di gyud mapugngan. faet. as parents, kelangan kag taaaaaaaaaaaas gyud kaau nga pasenxa

[Labrador2]

when i talk to my baby girl i always put her on a stand na mag eye level mi then mag talk dayon mi in this case dili cya maka feel ug fear nako kay sa anang mag duko ka murag mo gawas na isog kaayo ka and besides sakit na sa hawak ang mag duko

[havaianatic01]

istorya lang kung masayop, ayaw gyud dapati. kung dili maminaw, e divert lang ang attention. mag ingun ana nga edad na bata mauto2 ra mana nmu. kinahanglan taas jud au ka pasensya as a parent.

[psyche54]

well I have 2 year old 9 months toddler nga lalaki..

Well I must say, nga at his age. Sabtonon jud kaayo ilang batasan. Esp. nga only child. Kinahanglan mahatag iya gusto permente kay kondi, gubot kaayo. Of course, mura nakita namo nga he always wanted attention most of the time. Hinoon, mga working class citizens man gud mi, and we only get to play on sundays kay ga trabaho mi both sa ako wife. And sometimes, unyag adto namo sa office, tulog pa siya...

Sa pagdisiplina, sometimes akoa jud mabunalan, pero anha ra pud iigo sa diaper. Kana pud dili sila masikitan. Just want to make an impression that he is doing something wrong. Pero I talk to him afterwards why I did that, then teach him how to deal with it correctly..

Anyway, Happy Father's Day sa tanang mga daddy diri...

[yani0211]

i have a 2 yr old girl, i discipline her by just talking to her. i never raise a voice at her or shout at her. as well as my hubby. we both talk to her lng tell her na what she did was wrong, makasabot man sad sya and dli na niya buhaton. if ever naa sya sayop na mabuhat mohug dayon sya sa amo then mag say sorry. para naku lng we need not to shout or raise a hand to our kids, a talk will do. and that works for my kid.