The "feeling sister-in-law"

[mrs507]

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I wanna ask bah, how do you i call the gf or my bro-in-law is she an in-law pud or i maybe right in naming this topic, the "feeling in-law"... I just got hitched earlier this year and i'm thankful that i get along w/my in-laws very well. they said, in-laws are pain in the a** but i got lucky... as i was saying about the gf of my bro-in-law... yeah, she's my PROBLEM and a real pain in the a**... my husband and my mother-in-law warned me from the very start on how sneaky she can be in "stabbing you from behind" and that wala siya halos friends diri. their friends would just act nice or pretends to get along w/her in respect na lang sa bro-in-law naku...

ok back to her as my problem ... last month she did something to me. she posted an old pix of my hubby and this girl he used to date or get along w/very well... and of course, i felt JEALOUS and INSECURE. who can blame me ok lang sana if GF pa ko ni "B" but then for me, she didn't respect the fact that i'm his wife na... you see, i'm also protecting my hubby on bad comments coming from my family coz they haven't meet him personally. diri nami sa abroad nagkita but he's also from cebu and i've known him since grade school days...

she reacted the wrong way when i asked my hubby to call her attention and even started spreading rumors about me and my kumare told me that she's upset w/me because of a comment i shared w/her katong time na i was so depressed and i thought she understood me perfectly on why such burst of emotion... it's so hard to trust anybody diay basta dia ka sa abroad. i saw her that weekend but i'm in no mood of talking to her, whatsoever. i just acted civil-ly in respect to my mother-in-law who was w/us, spending some "family-quality-time" ... take note, gf pa lang siya but duna na sila anak and dugay na pud sila sa ako bro-in-law...

she called me that monday and she was like telling me you know to get things staighten up between us... yeah, we talked but daghan gihapon siya gi-comment on me like, nobody likes me here and that i shouldn't be maarte coz a lot of people said that "pangit na daw ko then arte pa" ... she doesn't even want my hubby to know about our talk but si kinsa pa man ako ka-share-ran diri except for him. wala bya intawn ako family diri naa pa tanan sila sa Cebu. for her, our conversation settled our differences but then for me, it just worsen the situation. she made me lose my confidence and misamot tawn ko ka-insecure. i was just crying the whole day until my hubby got home from work. i decided not to go out during weekends for almost a month tungod sa hadlok naku on what i'd hear again from other people. i'm just thankful that my hubby's here and that he's cheering me up. i asked him not to do anything in respect na lang sa ako mother-in-law especially that dia mi puyo w/her. usa pud na sa rason why she's "jealous" w/me coz she's not really welcome diri sa house katong dia pa gapuyo ako bro-in-law...

experience-wise... miski diay hilom2x ka, duna pa jod diay gusto mo-put down nimo. and not eberybody wants you to be happy. i'm kinda talking to her again but hinay2x naku this time w/her. in as much as possible, i wanna avoid her and honestly, my mother-in-law doesn't like her that much kay "bati jod siya ug batasan"... she's crazy!!! i'm just praying that their kid wouldn't inherit her most of her values coz ambot lang jod...

[cebu1029]

don't listen to that kind of person! talk with your hubby about it!

[rambutan]

ayaw nalang jud na tagda.. xa ang insecure cguro nimu..

just pray for her soul... sumalangit nawa

[cebu1029]

yeah
just pray that she will be enlightened!!!

[mrs507]

thanks for the reply everybody... i've told my hubby about our latest conversation and he told me to avoid her in as much as possible. if she gets trashy w/me again, she's gonna be sorry for my hubby knows a lot of "bad stuff" about her that his kuya doesn't know... well, KARMA'S A BITCH!!!

[cebu1029]

hahaha!!! well pray that she makes the mistake! thehehe gf pa lang siya. mahimo pa mabuwag!

[mrs507]

hahaha!!! well pray that she makes the mistake! thehehe gf pa lang siya. mahimo pa mabuwag!

agree ko jod ko ani... mao diay magkinto siya sa ako hubby kay tanan baho niya nakahibalo ako bana!!! well, i don't want to brag too much but i guess sa ako gihapon ang alas!!! thanks for keeping my spirit high... nindot jod basta bisaya oi, magkasinabtanay jod. ay by the way, tagalog bya ni siya. dili taga-tondo but ang batasan mura ug taga-didto. i have no idea how bad that place is and the people there but kasagaran sa ako kaila pati ako papa, ingon na Tondo's not a good place to live in... delikado kaayo!!! well, dili ko papildi ug Tagalog oi. si lapu2x man gani wala miatras ni Magellan... isog basta BISDAK!!!

[cebu1029]

ask your hubby about some of the baho! you can use this as a threat! kung makiggubot siya... you have something to tell your bayaw!

[mrs507]

seriously i know some of it. she's a hard core SLUT. like my hubby's not the type who'd divulge something about a certain person not unless he's provoked. that's why kunti lang gi-share niya sa ako. but if anytime this b***h starts to act crazy again, dili na siya magduha-duha pa sumbong sa ako bayaw even if it'll cause fight between my hubby and his kuya... sayang lang jod kaayo ako bayaw na he left his gf who's in cebu just for this girl... ako mother-in-law, ganahan bya kaayo sa ex sa ako bayaw. too bad, she's getting married this july...

[cebu1029]

hahaha!!! kana!!! tell that to her face! or tell her that your hubby has told you about her. >