How can I tell to him that I already had a baby? I need ur advise guyz (UPDATES)

[prakx]

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aw.. wala pa jud d i naka sulti ang thread starter??...

dogaya ani ui... pa thriling2 pa man ang drama....

[SheilaB]

All I am saying is NOT TO BLAME the GUY.

Don't say He is shallow or he loves you skin deep, or he doesn't really love you.
He is not hiding anything....
He comes to you giving everything...

but you are hiding something

bro.. joshbonz didn't blame the guy... he is just giving some opinions or examples, we all know that this is the possible consequences may happen. I know you're on the guy's side, you didn't even respect me & you didn't understand my situation right now. I can't blame you 'coz it's your decision. Just consider yourself if you're in my situation. The only problem is, I don't have any guts to say it to him directly, I'll repeat it I was overpowered by my fears. That's all. Peace bro

You ask whose fault is it

of course its her fault.... if she gets rejected.....

The only way to let the pain go away is to tell it all...

Yes, it's my fault and I'm going to say it to him tonight after our date.

[SheilaB]

nya naka sulti naka

dugaya ana ui... if wala kai guts to tell it straight to his face.. then use the text hotline...
send sa og introduction.. then follow up question.. then direct to the point of the message..

mana.. wait for reply.. if none.. aw, u know na wats next to happen...
and if he said no problem,.. dont get carried away.. try to learn and know the person..
be vigilant!

ayaw pa ilad, og ayaw sad pangilad..

dang.. mag 1month pa gani mo...


dats all for now bow..
let us now if naka sulti naka hap!.. hehe

I will tell him tonight after our date... I'll keep you posted if what will happen... know what, I'm so nervous right now if what will be his reactions after I will reveal all my secrets ...

[SheilaB]

Someone's hurting here, let's not spoil it for everyone by bickering over petty things. While I wish the thread starter had been open from the very beginning, I can also see the point of view of not telling the guy....

Let's respect everyone's opinions.

Thanks for understanding bro.. I really appreciated it..

asa naman ang thread starter

naka sulti na xa o wala pa??

Sorry bro.. I was taking my lunch hehehe...

so how did it go? it might be very hard to say it when u already are dating but he'll find out anyway sooner or later if you are to continue the relationship so it'd be better if it will come straight from you..

aw.. wala pa jud d i naka sulti ang thread starter??...

dogaya ani ui... pa thriling2 pa man ang drama....

Tonight is the night...

[miss tapya]

Goodluck ShielaB...

[rickmags2000]

Good luck

hope everything will turn out fine

[ajol]

Girl

Im not with the guy's side or your side either.
What is important is to admit fault.
I can't understand some people here criticizing the guy. It's not his fault.

If you won't admit it... then it becomes a failure....

Mistakes are part of life.... it only becomes a failure if you don't learn from it....

If you had said it earlier it would have helped a lot. The guy has great expectations of you. He wants you to meet his parents already. That's a sign he is convince that you are the right girl for him and he just want to formalize it by bringing you to his parents.

Best of Luck.....

[shaven.poodle]

haay, bitaw, it's a hard thing to do but you have to do it... i think you'll be okay. Three weeks is a short time and you can just tell him that you still weren't comfortable telling him everything about your life. But you are now.. If he really loves you, he'll be able to accept you for everything that you are. It happened to me. The person i am with now also has a child. We were together for about a month before he told me. It felt very very strange listening to him talking, murag hard to absorb, hehe... but i realized that it really doesn't matter. What's important is what we have now. anyway, good luck. I hope everything goes well.

[get_dona]

tell him! theres nothing wrong with having a baby. its not like u murdered someone.
if he truly is a good man then he will accept u as who u are,and than baby is a part of who and what
you are! CHAR......ITOOOOOO SOLIS! hehehe. seryos btaw go ahead and tell him!

[sheka]

I can't wait