What to do about a daughter who has been doing NOTHING since graduating from college?

[sui.caedere]

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TS, if you give up then there's no need for us to give suggestions...somehow, I've read from page 1 and your frustration and negativity really stands out. Now is the time for you to erase all that and gather the strength to help your daughter through this stage.
All the people who succeed will tell you that they never stopped trying, even though now they have succeeded they have still kept on trying.
So do not give up hope, be strong and keep on trying....eventually, you'll get to her...

i cant blame you for seeing correctly my frustration, disappointment and of course, i cant help the negativity. no sir, this is not the only issue at hand. it is just what i am capable of sharing here.

[twistedANGEL25]

TS,it doesn't mean that you are a failure...

Why not try to follow what some istoryans are saying?Leave this page open when its her turn to use the PC.Silbi ba na you "forgot" to log out of your account...

Try pushing her to motivate herself.Ayaw lang siya yaw-yawi...Kay there is nothing us kids hate more than our parents mag yaw yaw dayon.Labi na nang murag guba na plaka ba,mag sige ug balik2x.

One thing you can do about the internet connection is that monitor her hours spent infront of the PC.Kay you've said dili pwede putlon ang inyong internet coz she has other siblings to use it.If gahi siya ug ulo,disconnect the modem from the PC and hide it somewhere.Sulod sa imung kwarto...

I do hope and pray that your problem will be solved soon.
Just keep on praying for you and your daughter.Dont give up your faith.
Kay God doesnt give you a problem that YOU cant handle.

[sui.caedere]

Why don't you try sending her to live with other relatives like a vacation or something....

that is exactly what i suggested with her mother years ago. both daughter and mother vehemently opposed it.

[sui.caedere]

TS,it doesn't mean that you are a failure...

Why not try to follow what some istoryans are saying?Leave this page open when its her turn to use the PC.Silbi ba na you "forgot" to log out of your account...

Try pushing her to motivate herself.Ayaw lang siya yaw-yawi...Kay there is nothing us kids hate more than our parents mag yaw yaw dayon.Labi na nang murag guba na plaka ba,mag sige ug balik2x.

One thing you can do about the internet connection is that monitor her hours spent infront of the PC.Kay you've said dili pwede putlon ang inyong internet coz she has other siblings to use it.If gahi siya ug ulo,disconnect the modem from the PC and hide it somewhere.Sulod sa imung kwarto...

I do hope and pray that your problem will be solved soon.
Just keep on praying for you and your daughter.Dont give up your faith.
Kay God doesnt give you a problem that YOU cant handle.

actually, the very last "yaw-yaw" was almost four years ago.

i was trying to explain important things to process at school as she was about to be a graduating senior, like having evaluation of subjects taken, things like that. it was not really yawyaw like a sermon, but just a parent-daughter talk lang.

but she must have been in a very bad mood.

she ended up screaming: "unsay problema nimo? lakaw, pag-suicide didto!"

that was the last serious talk we ever had... other than asking for the tv remote and little things.

[qwertyqaz]

if magna material and hawig ni shaina, hastang sayanga na bata. sori wala na ko kabasa sa page 2 onwards pero she has to decide what she wants. cguro if naminyo na sya and ikaw naa na apo niya, baka thats the kick she needs to be responsible

[sui.caedere]

if magna material and hawig ni shaina, hastang sayanga na bata. sori wala na ko kabasa sa page 2 onwards pero she has to decide what she wants. cguro if naminyo na sya and ikaw naa na apo niya, baka thats the kick she needs to be responsible

talking about sayang.. she was once asked to model for a shampoo many years ago. i think she was in the elementary pa ato, kay taas man iya hair. she just shrieked a loud...ewww..while we, and her cousins were excited to see her go to manila for it. sayang.

[sui.caedere]

Unsay course sa imo anak mam?

Bachelor of Science in Business Administration major in Computer Applications (BSBA-CA)

[unique]

she ended up screaming: "unsay problema nimo? lakaw, pag-suicide didto!"

bro, i think the solution should start with you, pangayo ug pasaylo niya.

if mahimo, bribe her to go to Hong Kong...he he he he he

bitaw bro, i stand by my previous post.

[sui.caedere]

bro, i think the solution should start with you, pangayo ug pasaylo niya.

if mahimo, bribe her to go to Hong Kong...he he he he he

bitaw bro, i stand by my previous post.

i agree, and since i could not afford HKG, sent her to davao two years ago. i thought ok na. pero..back to bed man lang ghapon pag uli.

[unique]

ok lang bro, ask her again where she wants to go next, basta be more patient and positive atiitude lang. ask her what she wants....cats...baking...(her likes)...or change the monitor of your PC into a 23 inch lcd or higher screen size(para nindot inig tan aw niya ug salida- apil ka) if mahimo apili ug nindot nga sounds (kung kaya sa budget)....bribe her kung baga, para ma draw nimo iya attention towards you. the important thing is that you both get to start on a common ground. basta steady ka lang just be there for her and her siblings too. be happy bisag unsa ka dako sa problema, be an inspiration sa imo children.