AFTERMATH of a BREAK-UP

[beyee]

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how poetic peenut

just thought about break-ups in general... do you want a rather fleeting slow death one? or a bomb exploding right infront of you?

[acecrystal]

at first it might be devastating..but when u persevere to really move on..u can make it and when you keep an eye on this goal (with the tendency to fluctuate at tyms,memory lingers)...everything runs smoothly at the right time....

we just can't always bring the best of both worlds if the person loved longs for others... and so I bid goodbye to someone dear to me for the past years..... I trust my family and friends, that with them all my worries and pain would vanish.... each laugh means so much to me....hehehe!

[Githyanki]

Somehow, my break up changed my life for the better. I've found true friends that I never knew before. I learned that I could do more that I thought I am capable of. I've learned to love doing volunteer work, and see those sweet and genuine smile from the kids. I'm somewhat happier nowadays.

[beyee]

Yes, perseverance is the key if we want things done and over with. And it pays to have family and true friends as our support system in every crisis. They serve as our "sponge" of all our tears, heartaches and frustrations in life and it made our loss a whole lot better.

Just like you yanki, kids have helped me find me my smile again when my niece and nephews came home for summer months after the break-up. My sister planned the whole thing coz she knew how devastated I was and she even trained her kids not to mention about the break-up. That whole summer was therapeutic enough for me and helped me to get back on my roots, so to speak. Being with them made me realize how bless am I despite the loss.

[acecrystal]

Yes, perseverance is the key if we want things done and over with. And it pays to have family and true friends as our support system in every crisis. They serve as our "sponge" of all our tears, heartaches and frustrations in life and it made our loss a whole lot better.

Just like you yanki, kids have helped me find me my smile again when my niece and nephews came home for summer months after the break-up. My sister planned the whole thing coz she knew how devastated I was and she even trained her kids not to mention about the break-up. That whole summer was therapeutic enough for me and helped me to get back on my roots, so to speak. Being with them made me realize how bless am I despite the loss.

beautifully stated sis... I agree...it's entirely taxing to dwell on it...as long as it wasn't me who screwed the relationship up,then I'm sure no remorse would surface in mind.... yes, the genuine people around us are worth our time..they suffice our joy which is likewise a choice....

[beyee]

Thanks ace Shall we say break-ups made us wiser now? hehehe

I remembered one colleague told me that break-ups are blessings especially on the dumpees coz we already know that it's not gonna work and we're better off without them nice one jud That made me stop crying over the guy.

[acecrystal]

ahahaha! thanks too beyee..I love reading your insightful posts around here... yup! tiring to let our worries consume us..let life continue to radiate its beauty! nyahahahaha! nag drama na ko....

[medwarc]

pero gus mas lisud i move on if ang imo ex is imo ra silingan. astang lisuda...

[beyee]

oucheee... mao nay lisod... lisod pod if silingan nimo ang iya new gf/bf... pagka nalang lols

[medwarc]

mao jud. ang naka pait pa jud kay usa ra man ang bintana nako. and makita na balay is ilaha. pastilan dolor....
naay part nga gusto nako magka sugat mi sa dalan pero naa pud dili kay basin magkuyog na sila sa iya new bf if naa na syay new.