AFTERMATH of a BREAK-UP

[beyee]

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Break-ups are always inevitable in any given relationships. May it be in a sour note, bittersweet or simply a mutual one, individuals go through a lot of changes in their lives -- either good or bad.

In your case, iStoryans, does your break-up change you positively or have you become a cynic in the end?

Personally, my life had undergone a total overhaul that it compromised my views on certain issues when it comes to relationships. I have become more experimental which I never thought of doing in my past life. My friends saw me now as if I'm getting back at my ex for hurting me and I realized that I messed up completely. So right now, I am trying to reconcile with my own self and be more mindful of my actions.

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[rl]

g unsa nmo pag wala diay ?

[beyee]

I have gone drinking and gone out with peeps -- which I normally don't do. It's like everything my ex would detest me doing it, I did otherwise. Pero that was before coz I have come to terms with myself na I'm not like this... I'm more at peace na

[abewtifulmind]

akoa kay... I thought.. I had coped up with the last relationship I had... for 6 years we've been together.. pag october 2009 lang nagbuwag jud og klaro... I thought.. easy lang nako para maka let go og move on... kay I have been to many learnings in life.. daghan nako naagi-an nga mga problema og mga tribulations sa life.... cge ko storya sa akong friends nga naka let go nako... naka move on nako.. cge cla palag kay sayo daw kaayo.. impossible.. but ni stand jud ko nga.. of course.. I know how to handle it... but february 2010.. naka realize ko nga... I still missed her.. nga.. cguro.. wala pako ka let go jud diay.. until now... I am still thinking kung mo contact niya or dili.... basta... after the last relationship... lisod kaayo oi.. kahilakon ka nga dili ka nahan mo hilak.. ka uyabon ka nga d ka kahimo pagpanguyab... dili ka kamao na mo diskarte.. daghan naka fears.. daghan na magdagan sa imong utok when we talk og new relationship.. basta... lisod jud.... maglisod ta og storya sa atong mga friends.. kay they see me as "joker" man gud.. cge lang katawa og pakatawa... kung mo storya ta.. "emo" napud daw.. lol...... pero... tinood jud... hangtod karon.... libog pud baya.. gusto nako maka move on na jud for sure.. gusto nako maka let go.. pero.. part of me.. gusto pud makigbalik.. pero.. hadlok nalang.. huhuhuhu.. share lang ko...

[beyee]

i know the feeling bro... there are instances na malahi imo pananaw sa relationship.. makaingon gud imo mga friends, "ikaw na??" morag jaded na au ka sa imo beliefs na naandan nimo sauna.

[abewtifulmind]

mulang.... jaded kaayo.. karon... maka ana ta nga.. gusto ko next relationship cya na jud.. pero.. mahadlok pud ka nga basin kung iyang panguyaban... sayop diay ka... og wa lang ka maka hulat nga niaabot na ang babaye ... maka gusto na noon ka sa lain nga naa nakay uyab.. basta.. hadlok oi.. nga maka lisang.. lol.. hehehehe

i know the feeling bro... there are instances na malahi imo pananaw sa relationship.. makaingon gud imo mga friends, "ikaw na??" morag jaded na au ka sa imo beliefs na naandan nimo sauna.

[beyee]

scary jud if u go serious wid someone na... mao na makaingon ka, di ta magsineryos beh k dili lalim jud mobalik napod ta sa past... morag nahimo naka og palaban na bah, like sa ako case. Bisag gamay praise sa guys nako, sakay lang ko but dili nako moserious kay I have the nagging feeling na borit napod ni sila.

[abewtifulmind]

ako lalaki man ko.. lahi pud akong case...

kuyawan nako mo praise og mga babaye or ma involve sa usa ka babaye kay basin ma inlove ko.. and masakitan lang cya.. kay d pako kamao or d pako ready.. or naa koy mga fears... but inside of me... willing nako to take chances and risks to have another relationship with somebody.. it's just naa lang jud mga fears.... y blema sa serious kay mo serious man jud ko og relationship kay .. of course.. gusto ko always ko gusto naay ma learn... lisod e kalimot sa past kung wa paka maka himo og present.. or ma hadlok ka mo atobang og present nimo nga bag-o...

[beyee]

lahi pod... sa ako, nakat-on nako mosakay sa mga guys when it comes to lip service.. morag ako mindset, sa kinsa lay mailad nato.. i know bad au but careful nako na maunhan.. so ako mouna nalng og bira nila... ang kafaet lisod na au ko makadetect na kinsa sincere jud

[missingyouso]

i smile more now. i laugh out loud. i go out with co-workers, even those nga dili close, coz before i keep to myself ra man gyud and only go out with close friends ra. i guess, i reach out to others now coz i need them to get over him. i may pretend to be happy, bt i cant deny to myself nga naglisod ko. pero it gets easier every day. if its easy for him to live without me, why would i make it would hard for myself. easier said than done, pero gotta move on