The One That Got Away?

[xavisimao]

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@TS

as the old adage would tell, "someone got away, but something better will replace it"

wait for it....wait for it...wait for it...


here comes...Superidol's buwad from Bantayan Island...


pag makatilaw ka ani, mawala na tanan heartaches nimo kay naa ni Omega 3 which, for all we know is good for the heart...naa pud ni siya lycopene ug pataban nga cellophane kung mopalit ka ug usa ka putos...once you taste it, dili na gyud ka maghuna-huna sa imong mapait nga kagahapon kay kani nga buwad dili parat, sakto ra kaayo ang timpla, susama sa imong gipangita nga saktog timpla nga gugma...ayaw na ug huna-huna ug lain pa, sayang ang imong kaanyag pag dili ka katilaw sa Superidol's Buwad from Bantayan Island..so why wait? sakay na!


yours in crime,
-xavisimao, Superidol's Buwad from Bantayan Island advertiser-

[facuztha]

yes... same here... one year nasad to ba since gi kasal sila.... pagka pait kuya eddie

[PseudoSurgeon]

Naa na koy "the one that got away".

[halon1301]

mo abot rasad imong time TS na mka move on, just be patient ....... naa gani uban pila pa ka years

[jhanjhan]

aw naka move on na si TS nana shay palalabs hehehe.. answering for adz eh sige pra dili OT.. aw happy raman ko sa current siguro kung magbuwag mi pwede sha the one who got away aww depende diay sa sitwasyon sa pagbuwag kung naa shay lain aww erase daun na
anyway, going bak naa sad dugay mi nagkaila, kuyog mi simbahan.. bestpren gyud mi ato niya since dungan man mi na "baptize" sa among church.. I was his first date and he was mine..first guy who held my hand in a romantic way and was my MU for the longest time pero dili man ko gud musugot nga kami na although the feeling was there kay hadlok man ko mag minyo nya hehehe adik kay ko sauna and i was so driven to succeed career wise.. he waited for many years till he got tired and he decided to look for someone na.. was too prideful to go after him and yun to make a long story short minyo na sha hehehe.. we are frends and the feeling is not there anymore but it wud have been easier and less complicated if i just said YES to him. anyway, its not meant to be

[zhibi]

accept it adz, just don't hold back kay ang mahitabo ana di jud ka maka move on and wala jud chance na mo fall ka ug balik. been there already and isa ra akong maka sulti sa akong ex, (thank you for molding me like this) i've been able to stand even if di na nko kaya. if i where you isipa nalang siya nga usa ka creature na once ni agi sa imong life ug nihatag nimo'g life and experience para if mo abot na ang time nga wala na siya kaya na nimo atubangon nga ikaw ra.

[adz]

Sige lang TS uy. Mo abot rajud na ang time nga maka move on naka and if mag flashbacks man gani ka katawan nalang na nimo tanan esp if naa nay naka pa beat sa imong heart balik

sakto jud ka..hehe bitaw oi it's only a matter of time and acceptance

TS kumusta na man ka ron? murag pila na man kabulan ang nilabay human ka mipasawo sa imong kaagi nakamove-on ka na ba ug nagmalipayon?

hmmm i've been into a relationship after but somehow it did not last we just broke up recently i ended it because of our cultural differences though i love him but i got tired of having a relationship na pa tago (pure chinese man siya)...but we're good friends and i think it's for the best if we stayed this way

yes... same here... one year nasad to ba since gi kasal sila.... pagka pait kuya eddie

hehehe well my ex of 6years are getting married next year and now i can finally say "I'm Happy for Him"

Naa na koy "the one that got away".

hehe siguro naa jud tao na maka experience ug ingun ani but cheer up your pretty and smart daghan pang ikal gwaps and sure ko someone will come

mo abot rasad imong time TS na mka move on, just be patient ....... naa gani uban pila pa ka years

naabot naman siguro but it ended lang dayon i dunno dili sako ganahan mag think about ana mga ingun ana oi I'm just happy of being me bahalag nag inusara

[adz]

aw naka move on na si TS nana shay palalabs hehehe.. answering for adz eh sige pra dili OT.. aw happy raman ko sa current siguro kung magbuwag mi pwede sha the one who got away aww depende diay sa sitwasyon sa pagbuwag kung naa shay lain aww erase daun na
anyway, going bak naa sad dugay mi nagkaila, kuyog mi simbahan.. bestpren gyud mi ato niya since dungan man mi na "baptize" sa among church.. I was his first date and he was mine..first guy who held my hand in a romantic way and was my MU for the longest time pero dili man ko gud musugot nga kami na although the feeling was there kay hadlok man ko mag minyo nya hehehe adik kay ko sauna and i was so driven to succeed career wise.. he waited for many years till he got tired and he decided to look for someone na.. was too prideful to go after him and yun to make a long story short minyo na sha hehehe.. we are frends and the feeling is not there anymore but it wud have been easier and less complicated if i just said YES to him. anyway, its not meant to be

Jhanjhan: we broke up naman oi i ended it chika lang niya ta puhon...but friends mi niya

accept it adz, just don't hold back kay ang mahitabo ana di jud ka maka move on and wala jud chance na mo fall ka ug balik. been there already and isa ra akong maka sulti sa akong ex, (thank you for molding me like this) i've been able to stand even if di na nko kaya. if i where you isipa nalang siya nga usa ka creature na once ni agi sa imong life ug nihatag nimo'g life and experience para if mo abot na ang time nga wala na siya kaya na nimo atubangon nga ikaw ra.

Dah! ug ni comment jud ka apil ngari...lage KUYA akoa naman na gi accept na wala na jud siya ug dili na mobalik...and ur right jud dapat e treasure to nga experience kay it molded me as a person

[dweight000]

@ TS.. yaw lang ka balaka adz.. i know naa ra muabot para nimo.. wa ka kabalo naa ra diay sa imo doul cge pro dili lang nimo tagdon :P

mmmmm... pili lang agcang or chu.

[spyplus6]

In your life, you'll make note of a lot of people. Ones with whom you shared something special, ones who will always mean something. There's the one you first kissed, the one you first loved, the one you lost your virginity to, the one you put on a pedestal, the one you're with.. and the one that got away.



Who is the one that got away? I guess it's that person with who everything was great, everything was perfect, but the timing was just wrong. There was no fault in the person, there was no flaw in the chemistry, but the cards just didn't fall the right way, I suppose.



I believe in the fact that ending up with someone, finding a longtime partner that is, does not lie merely in the other person. I can actually argue that an equal part, or maybe even the greater part, has to do with the matter of timing. It has to do with you being ready to settle down and commit to someone in a way that goes beyond the little niceties of giddy romance.



How often have you gone through it without even realizing it? When you're not ready to commit in that mature manner, it doesn't matter who you're with, it just doesn't work. Small problems become big; inconsequentials become deal breakers simply because you're not ready and it shows. It's not that you and the person you're with are no good; it's just that it's not yet right, and little things become the flashpoint of that fact.



Then one day you're ready. You really are.



And when this happens you'll be ready to settle down with someone.

He or she may not be the most perfect, they might not be the brightest star of romance to ever have burned in your life, but it'll work because you're ready.



It'll work because it's the right time and you'll make it work. And it'll make sense, it really will.



So that day comes when you're finally making sense of things, and you find yourself to be a different person. Things are different, your approach is different, you finally understand who you are and what you want, and you've become ready because the time has truly arrived.



And mind you, there's no telling when this day will come. Hopefully you're single but you could be in a long-term relationship, you could be married with three kids, it doesn't matter. All you know is that you've changed, and for some reason, the one that got away, is the first person you think about.



You'll think about them because you'll wonder, "What if they were here today?"

You'll wonder, "What if we were together now, with me as I am and not as I was?"

That's what the one that got away is. The biggest "What if?" you'll have in your life.



If you're married, you'll just have to accept the fact that the one that got away, got away. Believe me, no matter how fairy tale you think your marriage is, this can happen to the best of us.



But hopefully you're mature enough to realize that you're already with the one you're with and this is just another test of your commitment, one which will just strengthen your marriage when you get past it. Sure, you'll think about him/her every so often, but it's alright. It's never nice to live with a "might have been," but it happens.



Maybe the one that got away is the one who's already married. In which case it's the same thing. You just have to accept and know that your memories of that person will probably bring a nice little smile to your lips in the future when you're old and gray and reminiscing. But if neither of that is the case, then it's different. What do you do

if it's not yet too late? Simple...find him, find her. Because the very existence

of a "one that got away" means that you'll always wonder, what if you got that one?



Ask him out to coffee; ask her out to a movie, it doesn't matter if you've dropped in from out of nowhere. You'd be surprised, you just might be "the one that got away" as well for the person who is your "the one that got away."



You might drop in from out of nowhere and it won't make a difference. If the timing is finally right, it'll all just fall into place somehow and you know, I'm thinking, it would be a great feeling, in the end, to be able to say to someone, "Hey you, you're the one that almost got away."