About One's Past: To tell or not to Tell?

[pandabear]

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For me, its not wise to lay all your cards down on the table when the relationship is still new.. but if the relationship is getting serious, and if you think that it is important for him to know about it, then its best to tell him. but leave out the unnecessary details. ; )

[inchit]

YUP... thats true pandabear... u can tell some of ur secrets when u are still new.. and when things are getting serious then u can tell him everything.. for u to know if he will accept u of wat u are..

[the Messenger]

forget the past and just learn from it, no need to tell spread it around

I couldn't agree more. Leave the past with the past. Stop digging it; there's nothing you can do about it anymore. Respect your partner's privacy because he/she's entitled to it.

[puccay]

past is past

[bir2]

hell no.. ^_^

[froi]

pra nku d na knhanglan phbw.on oi..kng mangutana cya aw anha nlng ku musulti...

[CASHFLOW]

no need to tell

[titaniumbox]

must tell.. if i were to gain her trust. i'll be that open.. past na gani. so, be it good or bad. it would be up to her to decide if she'll accept it or not db?

i think only those who play around are guilty of sharing their past.. daghan dark secrets.. and i hate it when that happens. walay openness & honesty.. mg cge hinuon ka doubt2 sa iya..tsk tsk tsk..

[missy21]

well..i think nga dapat honest ka..if you think nga dapat jud na kabalo cya sa imu past..
pero ifnot necessary..ayaw nalang..
if ask cya, then go ahead, tell her/him...

[tikboy]

If ill be ask ill tell.. If not why go there dba?