The secret of staying in love...

[petnemic]

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hmmm sakto nga komonikasyon ug ang pag sinabtanay... mao lang

[ashira]

when you fight: Don't namecall. It's OK to be mad, but not to be mean. If you want a respectful conversation, you have to first listen to him with respect.

[cyberZone]

ako lang.. how to keep build the trust again? please help me? i cant be at peace anymore bcoz my thoughts always rember what he did b4.. eventhou i dont let him know it bt in my part i cant sleep anymore bcoz i kept watching over him and making sure he's nt doin those "hanky panky" anymore...

please help me.. i want us to be the way we were before..

[cyberZone]

Give him time. Men need their private space to grow as a person. Although couples should be together most of the time, your man need to be alone once in a while. Give him time to unwind and discover new things. Men sometimes need time to open up and you should respect that and give him time to sort his thoughts.

but everytime i give him time for himself wen he comes back to me, he becomes another person as if he doesnt know me.. he changes.. and twice he i get to find him lying or doing/say malicious words with another woman...

and when i want him to be sori about it he gets mad. and i wil keep silent and keep the hurting inside me... but im afraid that i might explore and give up.. i dont want that to happend bcoz i made a promise.. be sometime he's actions pushes me to think of breaking that promise...

please help me.. any advise...

[ashira]

but everytime i give him time for himself wen he comes back to me, he becomes another person as if he doesnt know me.. he changes.. and twice he i get to find him lying or doing/say malicious words with another woman...

and when i want him to be sori about it he gets mad. and i wil keep silent and keep the hurting inside me... but im afraid that i might explore and give up.. i dont want that to happend bcoz i made a promise.. be sometime he's actions pushes me to think of breaking that promise...

please help me.. any advise...

to you cyberzone:

You need to have a heart to heart talk. Talk about everything, you need to settle all of the past issues no matter how small or big it is.. Tell each other what you want and what you don't. Don't let a day ends without fixing any problems or issues. Don't ignore small issues coz it will become a big problem later on. You need to try to listen to each other. I hope you can resolve everything..

[jeanine11280]

TS...well, i can't fault you for anything coz basically you are just a woman in love...but i hope you learn to live by this old saying ba set him free if he comes back then he is truly for you, if not then he never was..what can I say..sometimes it goes complicated...and one more thing sis, don't forget that you are an individual although you are a couple...love yourself, girl...be the best thing that ever happened to him without losing your identity in the process...

[cyberZone]

to you cyberzone:

You need to have a heart to heart talk. Talk about everything, you need to settle all of the past issues no matter how small or big it is.. Tell each other what you want and what you don't. Don't let a day ends without fixing any problems or issues. Don't ignore small issues coz it will become a big problem later on. You need to try to listen to each other. I hope you can resolve everything..

thank you girl

[cyberZone]

TS...well, i can't fault you for anything coz basically you are just a woman in love...but i hope you learn to live by this old saying ba set him free if he comes back then he is truly for you, if not then he never was..what can I say..sometimes it goes complicated...and one more thing sis, don't forget that you are an individual although you are a couple...love yourself, girl...be the best thing that ever happened to him without losing your identity in the process...

lagi girl.. bt thank u... naa pa mnnahabilin gamay

[wicked_girL^_^]

Just keep the magic in the relationship!...~_^

[bowee]

the secret of staying in love.. is not be in love all the time..

when you love someone.. dont give completely your love to him or her.. give a little love to yourself also...

when you love someone...learn not to be possessive /obsessive to him or her.. give some slacks to yourself and to him.. its when you give space that you and your partner will grow maturely.

when you love someone.. be as an equal partner and not an obedient partner..

when you love someone.. keep one eye and one ear open, and the other halves closed

when you love someone.. just cherish that person for what he or she is worth.. never expect something more of your partner, especially if he or she cant deliver your expectations...