need advice.. is it jealousy? or not?

[claresubijana]

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ngano man sad iya pa e-mention oi....for me mura wala pa siya naka move on....

[claresubijana]

...out of the abundance of ht eheart, the mouth speaketh....

[babyshar]

maoba? knsa mn wla ka move on? me? my bf?

[carmen iceman]

here's da story..

my boyfriend is 7yrs with his ex. since 4thyr hyskul uyab n cla. ngkauyab mi ako bf last year.. i know love au ko s ako bf but the problem is everytime ma mention ang name s girl n ex s ako bf di nku malikayan masakitan especially magmention iyang barkada about s past nla paghyskul. xmpre mgkta kta mn cla s iyang mga clasmyt before nya kyugon mn ko, nya ilang ibalik ila mga past memries so ako "OP", not da sense n pabay.an ko s ako uyab bt bcoz wa ko maistorya mao d nlng ko mutingog. "it hurts" pud esp pgmention s usa nya ka barkada n ana, if muari c .. (da ex of my bf) kuygn n2 outing ky lingaw sd to, wa to libog. kinda feeling n di nku maintindihan y dey need to mention such a name in front nku. i know d malikayan mgstorya cla about s girl but s prob is di sd nku malikayan masakitan.tao lng po ako.. db?

kani sd..

we are looking s photo album s pix s ako uyab with his younger sister, accidentally nakita nku ang pix s ex s ako uyab. then there my heart starts to pump faster! i feel like ngpalpitate ko nd i wanna cry, thinking nga y should i see some pix s ex nya? i dont really know wat to do.. then i slowly close da photo album then went to my room nd start to cry..

and da other thing pd,

ang ex s ako bf, g.idol s iyang cousin. i dont really know wat to do, everytime ma mention ang name s gurl... i tried to pretend not to be hurt but its getting worst! i feel like i dont exist!

please guys.. i need your comments.. advices..
what should i do?
i dont want to feel this way..
wer always fighting w/ my bf everytime that thing exist!

am i acting weird? or what?
i dont really know what to do, pls help..

well, insecurities lang jud siguro na...
all u need to know is put in mind nga ikaw na iya uyab ron and winner naka..
ayaw pa apekto
dont mind those people
gitest raka sa higayon kung ing.ana ba ka kastrong..

[psyrille_alphatrix]

magsige ra mog away ana if you don't resolve your own issues first

[murdocman12]

natural rana sis, ana man jud.. mulabai rana... the other thing is when you fell good about yourself you don't have to be insecure.. jealousy is all about high level of insecurity.. mao ng instead nga hutdon nmu ang imu tym sa pag huna2x ana, just be positive and focus always on your strength not on your weakness..

[babyshar]

ok, tenk.. i will.. yah.. yah.. think positive! wag kang aayaw!

[reginakrys]

based sa imong post, wla may gibuhat imong BF nga mkapa-insecure or paselos sa imoha.. you said it yourself, "i know love kaayo ko sa akong bf".. that's what matters and that's what you should always put in your mind and heart.. but you have to accept the fact nga part pud ang ex-girl sa life sa imong bf ug lives sa iyang barkada, ug nahimong part pud cya sa lives sa relatives sa imong bf.. dli sad bya na basta2x ang 7years..

just play it cool, i don't think you really have any reason to be jealous.. don't ever feel nga you have to compete with his ex, kay you've already won.. ikaw naman ang present gf, and she's just an ex..

[lovelygirl]

I think you should just forget his past...You are his present now and his future...

[babyshar]

tnx guys.. istorians.. yes, il remember that..