
Originally Posted by
Soul Doctor
Know what you want.
Do you want a lover or do you want a best friend?
These two are two separate individuals.
And in some point in your life you have to decide which one to keep.
A best friend is necessary only when you are younger.
When you are not that mature to handle relationship and life's challenges.
But as you grow wise.
You will learn to deal with challenges
and you become confident with your decisions
that you do not need best friends ---- for moral and emotional support.
but some women fantasize of having a best friend that eventually becomes her lover.
nothing wrong with that except, men do not want to be friends with women.
unless he is gay.
he starts as friend and work his way to become a boyfriend.
but if he plans to be your best friend forever, then things could get hazy.
because sooner of later,
you are going to be attracted sexually with each other,
unless again --- he is gay.

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