How to deal with a boyfriend with no job..

[_trixie_]

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laziness na guro na iya... kng nhan jud ka mangita ug trabaho mka trabaho man jud ka... its for ur fren to decyd and dapat she will need to think about her future with that kind of guy....

[rakshasi]

sus!! ive bin in this case before..
lisud jud au kay mao pud akung uyab sauna mg-negosyo lng jud xa dili ngita work..
and naka faet pa aku ng-provide some of his needs unsaon taman lagi love mn nku sauna..
in the end it didn't work out kay sa cge nakug encourage akuy nahug ug dautan,,samok kuno kaau kuh dili kuno ku mgbuot nya kay iya daw kuno tong gusto iya pud daw kunong lyf!! ah well told him imu mn kahang lyf na hala! pg-SOLO!!! on the spot buwag...
asa na ka tong kugtong nuh?? hehehe

[pat_gracie07]

If naa ang sincerity sa guy and makita ang effort nga mag.bag.o or tumanon nya iyang plans.. that's good to hear naman lang sad.. but BETTER jud kung ma.put into actions na.. hehe.. As for me lang... ok naman lang sad kay naa syay plano... ang uban man gud kay taas kaau pride, then wala pa jud plano para sa inyong kaugmaon...

[febekeith]

in my point of view,...our culture demands that guys should do the work...but heck,...times change,..women do jobs that men ought to do...so ang tendency ana pag magminyo,..ang husband ug ang wife mag work,..leaving the kids behind with the yaya or so which should not be,..ideally, a parent must be present for the first 6 years of a child's life...

so, sa ako lang,..if the wife goes to work it would be ok if the husband does the housework....ana lang,..mura ba'g gibali lang roles..wehehe..tutal,..work man ghapon na..

ang pagkatapulan isn't really about a specific job ky pwede tapwan xa ana na area but then kugihan xa sa inani na area,..malay mow,..ma-interior designer or ma landscaper by experience na sa kalimpyo balay..hahaha
yun nga lang,..it would be a major blow sa ego sa laki...
pa-iba lang...weee...

[cokefloat_f]

make your bf's resume and submit it online! I did that to my boyfriend. He's actually doing good with his work! really good! Nalipay lang ko coz he agreed to go to the interview. It's not right jud na musugot raka na di siya mangita ug work. By hook or by crook help him get a job!

[jdbebz]

triple palm face

[hightech08]

batia ana oi pabuhi hehehe pero kung love nmu xa daku kag sweldo mbuhi nka ana...

[pboi]

libreha lang permi. li ka bulagan ana.

[azaleayve]

libreha lang permi. li ka bulagan ana.

Saup, kay sa guy nga part especially if maPRIDE, mubulag jud..

I've been there once, the guy was a student then, graduating, I was working na since nauna ku og graduate, since kasabot man ku sa iyang kaagi nga wala jud and sort of self-supporting, mas mugasto jud ku... if siya ang mugasto, i make sure gamay ra jud iya gastuhon..kay mao lage NISABOT ku niya.. but in the end he left me, coz of these and that.. bahala siya uie..wala naku labot niya..kaayahay ra niya dah!

[AMpretty1984]

Been to the same situation...katawa ra ko sa ako self before...Here's the thing, if the guy loves you, he will do everything to prove that he is worthy of your love. You don't have to ask him to do this and do that. Kay ing.ana mn xa na tapolan, meaning mas labaw iyahang katapolan kaysa sa iyahang love nimo...better dump him while you can.