AFTERMATH of a BREAK-UP

[beyee]

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hmmmm..I looked for a job luckily I got in.. keeps my mind occupied but still after work and when everything is still.. I cry for the love lost...

... that's a good one, u kept it balanced, make urself productive then give urself a time to cry

Aftermath?

aw magmokmok sa balay hadlok na mo gawas. sigi nalang katug.dina mo kaon. haha!

... hahaha... karelate pod ko anning phase na mahadlok mogawas esp ikaw ra isa.. i can only muster up some courage to go out when I go out with my mafia or family.

After a break-up.
It's like quiet as a ghost town.
No words, just plainly goodbye.

... so true.. as if a part of you had been taken away and ur heart seemed like a ghost town coz it's cut out from the emotions... hmmm numbness perhaps?

break up? yeah, does really hurt...pero it will make you a better person somehow...

... yeah eventually, heartaches make you a wiser and stronger person

[abewtifulmind]

... yeah eventually, heartaches make you a wiser and stronger person

mao ni akong nahan everytime maka kuha ko og mga experiences.. naa juy lessons..

[tummyache]

madawat ra madugay pero pagkasakit

[abewtifulmind]

bitaw pud lagi.. sakit jud lagi..

[beyee]

for a time, you feel as if you were the very first person to go through such a rough time, but you realize, listening to songs, reading books, that no, you certainly wasn't the first and god help us all, not the last. Parang rite of passage ito ano, no matter how old you get, how many loves you've had in the past, everytime somebody breaks your heart, it will always feel like the first time. Who was it that said--the heart is forever inexperienced? The only difference is you now know better how to cope. Advice ko to people going through it, deal with it the best way you can, kung gusto mo mohilak 24/7, by all means do so, if u wanna write an angry letter, do so, just don't send it...and whatever you do, please, try, try not to let others see it. You may think it would make your ex come back, seeing how pathetic and miserable you are, but it actually works the opposite. And you'll never forget how crazy you acted. Wallow in your misery but do it in the confines of your room and with only a few trusted friends and family to listen to you rehash the breakup for the nth time. Ako I dealt with it by going out with a couple of other guys I really didn't have any feelings with. Good thing hanging out lang, but somehow it helped me put myself back together. Time really does help. And if its a devastating breakup, don't text, call, email. Cold turkey is the best way to go, everytime.

thnx ann for ur input... i totally agree with you... no amount of bawling and desperate pleas can bring back ur ex nor even his respect for you... so be more composed and cry in private

i like this thread, tnx. it eases a little...

thnx mel... this thread aims to be everyone's space for our heartaches

lamat bro,
actually set a time for us to talk tonight, make things clear... try nko save kay sayangan ko.
perhaps will try to set right goals and expectations... wish me luck na lng ani.

... any updates?

[deejjerjov]

i would like to share na...

i gone through many hurt-aches in life about loving the opposite gender... im proud to say na..buhi japon ko but i do admit... natagam ko sa akong mga experiences...

in adition murag numb naman ko sa love... wai gana mulove naman...once makaexperience ka ug love na abe nimu maimo pro gepatilaw ra diay ka ug gepaibog...then wala na work then you had the courage again to love kai nindot na sa second time around..but worst did come the way...wai au ue..maipa manarbaho kai kita paka kwarta ug kalipay in material ways...

kapoy akong mga tell about anang love love...

[tummyache]

ang question siguro kay "was it worth it?"

yes kaayo para nako, i would love again despite the risk and pain if ever di diay kami

[japferp]

its really hard.. but 1 thing i always put in my head i have still a family that support me..
im trying to move on right now..... (this thread is really helpful thanks for sharing guys)

[beyee]

i would like to share na...

i gone through many hurt-aches in life about loving the opposite gender... im proud to say na..buhi japon ko but i do admit... natagam ko sa akong mga experiences...

in adition murag numb naman ko sa love... wai gana mulove naman...once makaexperience ka ug love na abe nimu maimo pro gepatilaw ra diay ka ug gepaibog...then wala na work then you had the courage again to love kai nindot na sa second time around..but worst did come the way...wai au ue..maipa manarbaho kai kita paka kwarta ug kalipay in material ways...

kapoy akong mga tell about anang love love...

... hehehe.. in other words, nano ni enter? makaingon jud ta in the end na we have grown wiser and more numb to the pains in love but then again when we find ourselves to love again, unknowingly we have opened ourselves to the process of loving and hurting... i guess it's human nature to undergo such cycle in order to BE HUMAN and it's one way or another our path to our personal growth whether we dreaded it or face it bravely

so how about embracing our heartaches? anyone will join in? hehehe

ang question siguro kay "was it worth it?"

yes kaayo para nako, i would love again despite the risk and pain if ever di diay kami

... i love ur positive attitude about ur pains tummyache, i commend u for that it's all about acceptance and the healing process will follow

its really hard.. but 1 thing i always put in my head i have still a family that support me..
im trying to move on right now..... (this thread is really helpful thanks for sharing guys)

...what's good about us pinoys is that we have our own support system who is our family (and even friends) who are always there for us especially in times of crisis, emotionally... we drew strength from them as we move on and that somehow eases our sorrows..

no prob, japz.. feel free to share more in here... this thread is here for all of us who have loved, hurt and have the will to move on...


keep the faith guys and never stop LOVING ♥

[T1CODE]

after the break up, alot of changes happened

i usually slept early na though now balik dugay napud
grabe ang waldas sa kwarta
nisamot ko ug katambok
outlook of life nausab na
but id say karma jud to nako why nahitabo... but have to move on wa naman tay mahimz