Is closure needed for both of us?

[abewtifulmind]

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dapat naay closure kung naa kay gi open... nyahaha.. wa man kay gi open TS.. ikaw raman gani cguro kabalo ana imong feelings para niya.. ambot cya naa bay feelings para nimo.... hehehehe

[anjerika]

if i get you right TS, is it like MU mong duha then you're about to confess to each other about serious feelings?

[Klave]

Dili Closure...You need Confession.

You need to properly say your feelings to him, he deserves it, you deserve it.

He deserves it because you love him and that means he is significant enough to hear your feelings. He deserves to know how much he has touched you and how big of a part he is in your life.

You deserve it, win or lose, it is going to take a load off your chest and is going to make you a better person overall.

Please include your confession if you don't want to be taken advantage of. Please do this thoroughly.

Use your feminine charm moderately, don't make him feel that you just want s*x.

[walker]

Dili Closure...You need Confession.

You need to properly say your feelings to him, he deserves it, you deserve it.

He deserves it because you love him and that means he is significant enough to hear your feelings. He deserves to know how much he has touched you and how big of a part he is in your life.

You deserve it, win or lose, it is going to take a load off your chest and is going to make you a better person overall.

Please include your confession if you don't want to be taken advantage of. Please do this thoroughly.

Use your feminine charm moderately, don't make him feel that you just want s*x.

this is very correct. confession and admission...opening up. sincerely opening up.

OT: taudtaud man ka nawala klave... welcome back hehe.

[clickmenow]

abewtifulmind and anjerika - I know, I am sorry if my title is inappropriate for the said situation but mao man gd ako na huna huna an..
and yes thank u klave for the right word u input in here..
and with no dignity at all, I said to him about what I felt about him and acted in a proper manner sir.....I admitted even though I am a girl but never submit for a VALID reason.
throw stones in my head but to tell u honestly, It makes me a better person...
The love I found in him never returned but then atlest I told him... and if by now, he forgots me
i understand and accept it.. diri ra jud kotob.. ug dira ra to sauna. let it be..
his happy kung asa man cea.... and i am living in my own with a better feelings...

[Klave]

Ok... so it didn't work out for you.
Well, you can't help it either he knows what he is looking for or not.
Either he has found someone he loves or he truly thinks he cannot return your feelings.

Well, I think you kept your dignity in tact, in fact I think you have more dignity than most people.
There is nothing wrong with coming out clean, you did your best and you did it with class.
At least you will have something to laugh about in the future thinking how you've gone out your way just to try to get the man of your dreams.

Women who overcome their broken hearts usually end up a lot prettier. So don't be surprised if a lot of men become interested with you. Hopefully one of them will be the one.

OFF TOPIC:
Thanks walker...nabusy ko gamay...I'm happy to be back.

[clickmenow]

thank you sir eventhough U dont know me.

[bodacious_babe]

From a guys point of view.

Being close doesnt mean that there is something more than friendship that is in the making.
I have experiences of being close to several girls but all were only up to that...close friends, nothing more. It does not make me a torpe kind of guy. I know the situation that I am into and I dont want to frustrate or disappoint a girl by telling or giving her a false feeling of being 'loved'. When it comes to love I always mean what I say and say what I mean. Malooy ko sa babaye if akong daygan sa akong gugma unya ang tinood wala gyud diay nako siya higugmaa.

For all girls, please dont rush things, dont assume, dont preempt things, just wait and be wary of your 'love environment'. Dont think that because he is showing interest in you he is already into you...he might just be looking for things or characteristic that only he understands so please be patient. The signs you are seeing in him might be the love that you are hoping for but for him he was just trying to be a gentleman, a mr.nice guy, etc while still in the process of getting over a past relationship or while in the process of looking for one.

I admit that there are times that lust takes over but I try to control these by not really taking advantage of the girls weakness...kutob ra gyud ko sa kumot-kumot, kuot-kuot, heavy petting and necking to the point nga murag the girl wants me in....hahaha.but at the back of my mind there is always that feeling of guilt...what if she clings to me pero I dont love her? what if she gets pregnant but I dont love her? kafaet!

Closure is not needed. You should thank your friend that he did not take advantage of your weakness. Or did he? poor guy if you hound him with what the two of you did...poor guy...bwahahaha
Just enjoy the company, have fun but with limits, value the friendship, learn from the experience it will make both of you stronger.


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wow. well said.. well said..

@TS: yes sis.. admission has a healing effect on us women. And if only for that admission naka feel ka nga at least naka pahungaw ka.. so be it. I'm all for admitting what you turly feel kaysa keeping it all pent up inside. Basta sad, make sure nga madawat nimo ang tinuod. In case the feeling is not mutual, as in most cases.

God bless!

I admire the peeps ga comment diri. All your comments make a lot of sense.

[Moongoddess28]

if di nako interested sa laki, i usually leave w/o a trace. mg.AWOL hahaha... avoidance!
Pero really, mas nindot kung storyaan jd na ninyo, be honest with each other.


pero mas nindot ghpon ang avoidance. HAHAHA.♥

[hunyanggo1977]

mao ni giingon kung unsay kalainan sa "conclusion" ug "opinion"...

meaning, "con-close-ion" di na pwede ug closure kay close na nga eh.

pero, kung "opin-ion" need sya closure kay naka open nga sya eh...

hehehehe...