Is it really hard to forgive?

[istoryabogo2009]

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yes sometimes... its human nature... the question is? are we willing to go against our nature?

[gigglesflip]

i had an x gf upto now she hates me and i dont know why..she came into my life just recently when me and my gf for 6 yrs broke up,, she was there when i was really down and i instantly fell for her..shes pretty , kind , sweet in short she has everything a guy would want for a gf..the problem is shes not that submissive.. anyway thats what i like about her .. she has a very stong personality and u can put it in this term -(hardheaded) i admit i am immature and we fought a lot with every small things..after a month of wonderful understanding we decided to split up...after the splitup i want us to be friends...im just after the friendship...and i dont want my x to hate me for life..i've been texting her ,leaving offline msgs on her ym tried calling her for almost 6 months now but to no avail i failed ...I PROMISED MYSELF NOT TO STOP asking for apology . maybe she was thinking i left her for other girls or something but i did not. am i crazy?

yes you are.. hehehe peace.. bitaw honestly i dont think if her being a hardheaded is enough for you to decide of a split up..i always believe of talking things over and try to understand each the other side. have you tried giving her chance before you decide for a break up?

[ashmae_01]

hard 2 forgive f u havent move on yet...bt f u already 4got ol d pains u've encounterd mka forgiv daun ka

[mighty_liling]

be a man! cry nlng..hehe

[joshua259]

hahaha og mo cry and laki kay part gud na sa pag dako. mura na og right of passage nga matawag gud ka og tinoud nga laki kay kahibaw ka mo express sa imong emotions. so be a man gud!, CRY.

[doom_angel]

yes, its hard to forgive but i think its harder to FORGET

[ritsche villadolid]

forgive and forget

[nikxz unÖ]

forgiveness...
come so slow..
always so uncertain..
everything is all unknown..

[giver_bert]

it is easy to forgive.. but hard to forget..

especially when she/he tend at doing something that reminds you of it..

[Ecce Homo]

The best thing to do would be to sum it all up in one attempt and tell her sincerely how you feel. After that, don't bug her. Give her time to think about it. It may take even years before she talks to you but the point here is, you gave her a sincere explanation and that's it. If she doesn't want to talk then let her be. Move on.