How long did it take you to let go?

[crush_23]

ugma nasad guro

[splendid moonlight]

The longest one was my longest relationship. Took me approximately 2 years but then one day I woke up and I realized I was no longer in pain. It was very abrupt, not gradual.

Why it took me two years: I guess it was because I hid inside my shell, did not take the time to say 'hey, maybe it's even better this way.' I chose to stay on my spot and allowed the rest of the world to go on without me. I could have devoted those 2 years to something else but I just did not know any better. Definitely not the best time of my life.

[Soul_Captive]

depende man jud sa nature inyo relationship and how bad the break up was.
in my case, mas maau makasala ang guy ig buwag, kay dali rako makalet go jud.
if the reason for the break up was outside factors na dili ninyo ma control but that you still love each other, pagka paet jud kay dugay jud ko maka let go.
but in both ways, break up is really hard and sad. you can always remember the happy moments you once had. and sometimes you would hope na lang na maypa wa na lang jud mo nag kauban if it will only end up very painful for the both of you. lessons are learned the hard way...

One thing I have noticed is that all the memories I can think of are the good ones..Makalimtan nlang nko iya mga sala pero clear pa sa HD TV ang mga scenes sa first meeting and first date..PGka nalng jd!

[crush_23]

mao ni pina ka long jud......still counting =(

[juleskiboi]

mao ni pina ka long jud......still counting =(

aguyyyyyyy.....tsk tsk tsk...

[crush_23]

aguyyyyyyy.....tsk tsk tsk...

hahahah char sad nmo yadz woi...kaw bah...



one month more to go and i guess it will be over........weeeeee

[cassenav]

the process of letting go varies depende sa nature and duration sa relationship, the reason for the break up, and sa personality sa tawo nga trying to let go. most common error committed: SELF PITY, or SELF-BLAME.

[Soul_Captive]

the process of letting go varies depende sa nature and duration sa relationship, the reason for the break up, and sa personality sa tawo nga trying to let go. most common error committed: SELF PITY, or SELF-BLAME.

This is the saddest part especially for the one na gibiyaan..We tend to feel ugly, bad and unworthy when the one we love abandons us..

[crush_23]

@soul sis...u r ryt....dats how im feeling ryt now........ so sad tsk

[Soul_Captive]

@soul sis...u r ryt....dats how im feeling ryt now........ so sad tsk

@crush: ok rana sis..take your time..mawala ra lageh na..i felt that way for some time pero karon ky ng cge naman pod xa paramdam, so nawala na akong insecurity about that..ang problema nalng pod nko ron is on how to avoid him..coz i know i still care deep inside, and one little miscalculation will bring me back to the ground..And it's going to be his ground..tsk.tsk...hahay gg