to spank or not?

[Tech Guru]

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naa may ubang bata nga walay bunal bunal pero mu tuo man ug maka sabot man ug estoryahon ra..

[ZD14]

I had therapy with my son and my developmental behavioral pediatrician specialist told me its a big no no to lay hands on ur kids, simply explaining things to them would gain their trust and eventually they would follow u bec. They trust u... We need extra patience to attain this

[porbidaman]

Nope, I never spank my kids, just a "labtik" to their ears is enough

[Kagami-chan]

I think spanking a kid is ok as long as it's for a good reason. I've also read from the bible that parents have to do this to discipline their children. And compared before when parents are more strict in bringing up their kids, mas disiplinado gyud sila kaysa younger generations karon.

"30:9 Give thy son his way, and he shall make thee afraid: play with him, and he shall make thee sorrowful.
30:10 Laugh not with him, lest thou have sorrow, and at the last thy teeth be set on edge.
30:11 Give him not liberty in his youth, and wink not at his devices.
30:12 Bow down his neck while he is young, and beat his sides while he is a child, lest he grow stubborn, and regard thee not,
and so be a sorrow of heart to thee.
30:13 Instruct thy son, and labour about him, lest his lewd behaviour be an offence to thee. " SIRACH 30: 9-13

[reighyah]

nah! ako pagka bata naku bakos diri silhig didto.. mao nang karon na naa nakoy anak dili ko kabuhat anang butanga kay kabalo ko unsa na kasakit, physically and emotionally and now amo rajud kasab-an among anak amo storyahan makasabot man pud siya mopatuman and we always give her reward kung magbinut-an..i think depende rajud na ge unsaon nato pag disiplina sa atong anak..di lang jud nato etolerate ilang kasipat..

[didi_tsai]

I spank once in a while when its too much and im fed up and di maminaw nako.. But f mada pa ug storya, storyaan ra sa nako. Ako nephew nakaila na nako kung unsa ko masuko w/c is good kay gibati na xag not necessarily kahadlok pero kahibawo na xa asa kutob iya limitations.. Grandmas and grandpas spoil der grandchildren dats why sa disiplina mga ginikanan jud ana.. Naa koy terrible two.. Lisod pa kaau e establish ang word na discipline niya, ganina gni nahapak nako ang kamot pag breakfast na shock cya ui.. Iya ko gihapak balik daun iya na papa nangasaba niya mao to hilak daun.. Pero in the end hugs & kisses ra gihapon ang katapat