having problems with in-laws? tapok ta dri

[arieschua]

dealing with my sister in law is a nightmare!hahaha.

me too... seems like she's always have to compete me.. and i'm always asking myself why? i don't know..and it really sucks sometimes..ohhh not sometimes...everytime i mean.. huh! so tired of her!

[eezychair]

pasalamat jud ko nga wala ko problema sa ako in-laws. Mas pinangga pa gani nu.on ko kaysa ilang anak kay ila jud sultihan siya ug unsa dapat buhaton para dili daw ko ma.inconvenience. We do live in a different house and all is well, thank you.

[torni]

normal thing gyud ni siguro its just a matter of adjustment lang unya respeto lang gyud permanente para d magkaproblema...my in-laws may not be the perfect as we say nga mga in-laws in the world and vice versa pero ganun talaga live with it nalang kinahanglan gyud ug taas nga pasensya. Good luck natong tanan!

[istoryamember]

good for me I do not have problems with my inlaws

[atekot]

normal thing gyud ni siguro its just a matter of adjustment lang unya respeto lang gyud permanente para d magkaproblema...my in-laws may not be the perfect as we say nga mga in-laws in the world and vice versa pero ganun talaga live with it nalang kinahanglan gyud ug taas nga pasensya. Good luck natong tanan!

Agree ko anih!

[didi_tsai]

ako nai prob gamay. mura lang ko nbag-ohan ba kay sa amua naanad man gud ko ni mama nga on my own kaau ba. in terms of money murag d kau mgpagawas c mama kay lage naa kuno koy tinigoman. nya independent man gud kaau ko. sa akong inlaw, as in totally na bag-ohan ko. Thank God gani wla mi niipon nla, naa japun mi ka mama. my pagka nagger man gud ning mom in law nko. nya mamugos ba like pkan-on nka - daw kapila magbalik2 ug sulti na kaon nko nya mka irit btaw kay murag sirang plaka. nya mbg-ohan ko kay ultimo ga tambal nko (bg-o rko nanganak) mangutana xa tagpila kay xa daw mopalit - xempre nabag-ohan jud ko kay naanad bya ko ka mama. lahi rjud kaau btaw cla ug upbringing... nya usa pasad ug magcge xag kugos sa ako anak (3 weeks pa ako anak) di jud nya ibutang. ako tawn mag antos kay tingali maanad na ug kugos, akoy alaot. nya npalit xa gmit sa bb kay ngkuyog man cla kausa sa ako bana, naka pamiste jud cya kay nagpalit man ako bana ug avent bottles nya pwerte nya naka yaw2 kay mahal kuno. mkalagot lang kaau ba. ambot ui, until now ako bana iya tawag sa ako mama tita ghapon, likewise sa iya mama, tita ghapon ako tawag nya. need adjustment pjud. mura pmn xa d ka let go sa ako bana ui.


usa sa ako d gnhan btaw kana hilabtan mi - gkan sa mga bolingon, sa bedsheet hangtod sa pag sterilize sa mga bottles. maka irit!

[red_ribbon]

dali ma suya...............

[shebah]

metag kabasa akong bana ani uie malipai nlng ko.

unlike most of you, I'm a husband and my family is living inside same compound sa my parents. and ,yes, agree gyud ko diri sa mga daughters in law. lisod to live with in-laws. not necessarily bad ang either side. its just the way things are... people coming from 2 different sides and way of seeing things mag lisod gyud og ipon. kapamilya gani mag away pa. how much more mga in-laws (mother and daugher) with opposing things at stake. as a husband and a son, am caught in the middle. pero ever since, dapat firm gyud ka to stick with your family. if naa gyud imo palabihon, which believe me naa gyud, it must be ur wife.

whats worse for me now is my mom is at a menopausal stage in her life. grabe ka insecure, grabe ka pessimist. even yaya / helper, patulan niya. and whats more difficult is dili ra ba gyud nimo ma estoryahan. so murag dead end ba. then on the other side, ako wife always complains. can't expect her to understand coz even I have to admit, bati gyud batasan ako mama as compared to her mom.

reason why we're still living in the same compund is because of my dad and a vow I made that we'd live with them. sila ra pud duha and at least kung naa mi, ma alegre pud ang house. living in another roof though same compound, makes it easier to live (peacefully). pero naa gihapon ang pagka hilabtanon nila. I dunno lang, its their nature cguro. Maybe when wala na ako dad, we will be transferring. At least now naa na mi gipa himo house just in case lang. murag plan B bah.

I dunno if naa diri other husbands same dilemna as me. sa mga wives, I know its not easy. I know how hellish it can be for you. Pero, please don't also forget to look at your husbands.... am sure they are carrying twice the burden as you also.

just my 2 cents guys. have a peaceful household!

[charity.pardillo]

u can't please everyone..there will always be differences. but then who cares? you married their son/daughter and what matters is you ang your life partner accept each other..^^

[marj_579]

tinuod jud na ang inlaw lisod...kay bisan unsa ka nindot sa imo gibuhat para sa imo in-laws kay bati jud...
sa ako nga experience maglagot ko sa ako in law kay manghilabot...tinuod jud diay na ila giingon nga nindot jud nga maglain nig human sa kasal bahalag payag...
kay wlay magbuot nimo...magunsa ka...