"ITS COMPLICATED" scenario...

[sakuragi_10]

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@Passport thanks, it's not voluntary starvation but more like ive lost appetite over this.

here's my story:
i was once married but that didnt last long so i am a single dad. i have a 'friend'(just like TS) whom i liked for so long and became my gf now. we had this agreement of no commitment thing but just on the side lang. i did considered it at first, but as u know kanang magkadugay mahulog mn jd atong feelings labi na if ang other party who first instilled the rules magpakita pd ug motive nga okay na jd mi bah, even mentioning of things we're going to go or do together in the future, etc..in the end, i became sweeter to her(dont get me wrong, i was serious with i felt with her it was just at first menos2 lang kay basin it myt scare her off, but i love her, i really do) and thought that everything is going well(and made me so happy)..then suddenly...

after being with her more than 2weeks ago, and the last time we talked over the phone happily was like last week, she suddenly turned cold. as in the way sya mutext nko murag wala nay spark or wala nay unod bah. so after 3 days of being treated like that, i was left with no choice but to call her up and ask her what's up? and now she said nasakal na daw sya nako and all, dili na daw sya happy. ag ako sad mura ko ug naningning, i mean WTF we were so damn okay a few days ago and never nag away then this?? then gawas dayon iya storya nga i was being too serious with her and that she realized she cant be with someone who have attachment(my kid - w/c is very unfair) as in na shock lang ko bah ngano kalit ingana. just to clarify lang, me being so sweet and caring for her is my only way of showing my love to her FOR NOW - because i am based abroad. di man nko madawat guys, i so damn love her man gd. my friends here advised that maybe she's just stressed with work sa atoa and that they dont believe she dont love me cos she is the one who pays for her fare going abroad just to be with me.

now im confused. what should i do? ur thoughts, comments and advise i will take them all in. payr!

[R_sQuArEd]

@sakuragi_10

give her time to think it over...did you try to express to her how you feel? maybe what she wants from you is assurance...most women want that in relationships...you've been in a failed relationship (no pun intended) and maybe she is afraid that it might end like that...

[sakuragi_10]

@sakuragi_10

give her time to think it over...did you try to express to her how you feel? maybe what she wants from you is assurance...most women want that in relationships...you've been in a failed relationship (no pun intended) and maybe she is afraid that it might end like that...

@R_sQuArEd

thanks for the insight bro but ask lang unta ko bah, what exactly is assurance and how we can show that to her? about your question, bro over and over again jd ko ga sulti niya how happy i am with her and that love nko siya. if dili pa na assurance then i dunno how pa.

simple ra jd ko ug pangandoy sa life: is to love and being loved in return, kay mao ra nay makapalipay nko and everything else become positive for me. am i asking too much bah?

[R_sQuArEd]

@R_sQuArEd

thanks for the insight bro but ask lang unta ko bah, what exactly is assurance and how we can show that to her? about your question, bro over and over again jd ko ga sulti niya how happy i am with her and that love nko siya. if dili pa na assurance then i dunno how pa.

simple ra jd ko ug pangandoy sa life: is to love and being loved in return, kay mao ra nay makapalipay nko and everything else become positive for me. am i asking too much bah?

thats the difficult part when you are in a long distance relationship...it's given that women don't usually give their trust when the set up is like that...we also have to admit that there are a lot of temptations and it goes both ways...stay loyal to her...karong panahona dili ra kita mga laki ang dali ra matintal, apil nasad mga babaye...it takes time to make that assurance bai labi na sa inyong situation nga layo mo sa usag-usa...kung napuno siya sa duda just give her time to think, diha sad nimo mahibaw-an kung makasalig ba ka niya ug tinud-anay sad iyang gibati diha kanimo...basig ikaw ra ang inlove niya unya siya naay laing gika busyhan...

[sakuragi_10]

thats the difficult part when you are in a long distance relationship...it's given that women don't usually give their trust when the set up is like that...we also have to admit that there are a lot of temptations and it goes both ways...stay loyal to her...karong panahona dili ra kita mga laki ang dali ra matintal, apil nasad mga babaye...it takes time to make that assurance bai labi na sa inyong situation nga layo mo sa usag-usa...kung napuno siya sa duda just give her time to think, diha sad nimo mahibaw-an kung makasalig ba ka niya ug tinud-anay sad iyang gibati diha kanimo...basig ikaw ra ang inlove niya unya siya naay laing gika busyhan...

isa pd na bro but salig man ko niya when she told me wala daw lain and all. ang setup sa akong part guro ang di niya ganahan or unsa bah. wala nalang unta niya testingi akong feelings pd tawn; ive been wronged before and it hurts like hell inganaon nya karon ingani na pd. to be honest bro,i tried to end my life a few days back(i know its stupid, but i was in sheer grief so idk what i was doing) by overdosing on sleeping pills but i still woke up. i am that depressed.

[R_sQuArEd]

isa pd na bro but salig man ko niya when she told me wala daw lain and all. ang setup sa akong part guro ang di niya ganahan or unsa bah. wala nalang unta niya testingi akong feelings pd tawn; ive been wronged before and it hurts like hell inganaon nya karon ingani na pd. to be honest bro,i tried to end my life a few days back(i know its stupid, but i was in sheer grief so idk what i was doing) by overdosing on sleeping pills but i still woke up. i am that depressed.

don't lose hope bai...naa pa kay anak...huna-hunaa lang kung unsa kalisod magdako nga wala ka sa iyang kiliran...kung ang asawa/uyab pwede mailisan, ang anak dili

[sakuragi_10]

don't lose hope bai...naa pa kay anak...huna-hunaa lang kung unsa kalisod magdako nga wala ka sa iyang kiliran...kung ang asawa/uyab pwede mailisan, ang anak dili

mao lagi pd pero saon man bai nakurat rman ko ug kalit uy. i hope naa pay chance. bati pf ingani gd bai wherein happy unta ta bah nya maingani lang, mayta gaaway bigtime mapunta ani madawat pa guro nko pero kanang okay mo nya mukalit lang ingana? wa ko kahibaw asa ko mulugar pa.

[R_sQuArEd]

mao lagi pd pero saon man bai nakurat rman ko ug kalit uy. i hope naa pay chance. bati pf ingani gd bai wherein happy unta ta bah nya maingani lang, mayta gaaway bigtime mapunta ani madawat pa guro nko pero kanang okay mo nya mukalit lang ingana? wa ko kahibaw asa ko mulugar pa.

sabta lang usa bai...mas maayo nga uyab pa mo kibaw naka sa iyang weakness kay kung imo huna-hunaon mas lisod ni ug minyo namo nya ingon ana gihapon iyang style nga kung magkalisod kay muhinay² ug exit...for better or for worst man kaha imong gipangita nga relasyon, dili man kaha kutob lang sa lipay²? ang babaye mura sad na ug panahon, mag-usab²...parehas karon diri sa cebu, init kaayo nya mukalit lang ug uwan...kinahanglan kibaw ka moadjust nya andam sad ka

[sakuragi_10]

sabta lang usa bai...mas maayo nga uyab pa mo kibaw naka sa iyang weakness kay kung imo huna-hunaon mas lisod ni ug minyo namo nya ingon ana gihapon iyang style nga kung magkalisod kay muhinay² ug exit...for better or for worst man kaha imong gipangita nga relasyon, dili man kaha kutob lang sa lipay²? ang babaye mura sad na ug panahon, mag-usab²...parehas karon diri sa cebu, init kaayo nya mukalit lang ug uwan...kinahanglan kibaw ka moadjust nya andam sad ka

aw hinuon pd bai naa kay point basin di pd sya sure sa iyang nasulti or unsa bah but sakit lang gd when everything's going smoothly bah. nya kalit lang ug freakout when miseryoso ko, unsa man diay binuangan lang nako sya? hai babae kung binuangan mangreklamo, naay magtinarong di pd sila kay tarong ra! pagka way ayu

[Passport]

The nuptial vows which solemnly intone the matrimonial promise of love for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, till death do us part,’ are sometimes easier said than done, for many a marital union figuratively ends on the reefs of matrimonial shoals. (People of the Philippines vs. Ruben Takbobo, GR No. 102984, 30 June 1993) - See more at: Notes on Philippine Laws and Jurisprudence : 7 LOVE QUOTES FROM THE COURT