badly need some piece of advice :(

[APRILiiciious]

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Dagko naman d i na imong mga isguon TS. Storyae ninyo ang problema. Di man pwede nga imo na lang bago tanan. You also have a life to live. Dapat magtinabangay mong tanan. Pamilya gud. Don't forget to pray to Papa God for guidance. Be strong. ^^

[ExtraHot]

TS you are such a strong person... di lalim mahimong breadwinner... wala d i work nang Bf sa imong sister? dapat patrabahoon na nimu siya... ingna imong sister nga dili nimu sila responsibilities... bahalag sakit ni sa iyang part... dapat mu sulti jud ka sa imong part... be honest to yourself TS... not forever in ana ka... soon enough magka pamilya ka... unsaon nalng na sila? then imo mama? istoryahon nimu siya... just accept nalng kung unsa iyang decision... God bless TS...

[ozracer]

Lisora ani TS oi.. Wala may kwarta paigo ani bisan dako pakaayo ka ug income kung imoha tanan gastonohonan...

You have meet all the family members and explained to them all expenses and your income.

You're income must not exceed all the expenses, or if it happen nga mo dli nimu makaya tanan expenses, then they have to contribute particularly on the billings. Electricity, Water and etc.... Dapat naka budget na jud imoha kwarta for certain expenses..

You have to a lot a savings for yourself for emergency needs... If all family members will cooperate, I think ma solve ra jud imo problem...

[dbalagosa]

ang mahitabo ani TS kay dili jud ka maka live sa imo kaugalingon na life kay pirme ka adto padulong nila. If ever mag pamilya na ka ug imoha, pag huna2x napud ug buwag sa imo DEPENDENTS

[daphne27]

buotana nimo TS oi. God bless

[goodasdead]

ts ako pa nimo ingnon nimo imong pamilya nextweek mag tangtang og trabahanti ang among kompanya og usa ko sa gitangtang, so wala nako trabaho andama na inyong kaugalingon pangita namo trabaho sugod karon

[debbie]

homayghed! nka experience pod ko ani sauna, though akong papa naa work d man enough ang sweldo, ang eldest namo preggy way bana,akong bro nadeado og sayo naa 3kids and a wife nagpuyo sa amoa..super lisod kau akong sweldo way subra permi...pro nidecide kog hawa sa balay pro maghatagan ko sa ako mama part sa akong sweldo... though at first naa mga negative words...ako lang ihilak ig gabie,den one tym nag inom2 mi sa balay naistorya nko akong kahiubos,akong rason nihawa sa balay... eventually nadawat raman nila nga naa pod ko own life oi...og dili nako responsibilidad ang tibook pamilya apil na mga anak (bali pag-umangkon nko)...karon iyahay nami amo... i hope maistorya nimo sila kong unsa man gani kay dili gyud ni lalim nga situasyon...

[poloi123]

bug.atag sugilanon nimo TS oi! ahaha pero di na sila ma kat.on ug barug sa ilang kaugalingung tiil kung dili ka mu biya ana nila...

mag cge rana silag salig nimo hangtud dili naka magkapamilya ug imuha kay busy na kaayu kag trabaho para nila!

goodluck brader!

[fleur_66]

buotan ra kaayo ka ts, what if maka decide ka nga magminyo na? Dapat imo na sila hinay hinayan og pasabot nga u have your own life to live and dapat manikaysikay na sila aron mabuhi. At first naa gyud nang bati nga mga words pero sa ngadto2 maka adjust ra na sila. Teach them how to stand on their own. Ikaw ra basin matiguwang na lang ka og paningkamot para sa uban.

[MollyMillions]

Hi TS!

First. HUGS to you. This is common scenario from breadwinners in the Philippines. It is hard.

Are your family the type that discusses things as a family? If not, it might help to initiate one with them.

How open are they to gentle corrections, comments, and criticism? I can see that you might have a chance to ease the burden with some teamwork and understanding from them.

As I know it, (i could be wrong) most FIlipino families, arent really that accepting esp with regard to criticism. Most often, they will end up getting defensive instead of seeing at as a constructive criticim.

I wish you all good things for you. U may want to try going abroad. Or, have your nurse for a sibling do the same as well.
What do you think?

My dad passed away 2 years ago, after few months. Mom started to drink and hang out with some friends which she doesn't usually do. I have 6 siblings and life was really miserable after my dad left us. Mom met again her childhood sweetheart back in highschool.I don't know if they see each other frequently but sure is, they never miss a single day talking over the phone. It's quiet odd for me but i tried to understand her coz she's my mom. We currently live in the city, but my mom was raised in the province. Every weekend, she goes to the province and would just tell us that she's visiting dad's grave. My 15 yr old sister is also studying there in the province..It's always her excuse..

We're big family in one house. The eldest lives with us with her 3 kids plus the boyfriend. I'm the second (the breadwinner). next is my brother (a nurse who only earns like 3k a month or less.) then my sister whose already working as well but not earning that much, then my 19 yr old sister who just gave birth last january (stopped schooling coz got pregnant to a baby without a dad) then the one in highschool which is currently in the province and our youngest turning 7 this end of may.

Wait.. theres more!

My aunt who used to stay in manila which is my mom's elder sister (4 hard to walk. (got confined this year due to highblood and diabetes) also depending on us coz she has no job and wont ever have due to health issues plus his partner around 57 and their grandson around 13.

I just found out that my sister that has 3 kids just got pregnant which gave me a huge disappointment.


I pay the bills and most of the time our everyday meals. I attempted to just leave them and live on my own. But I couldn't

I can't just express to them that I'm pretty much tired