i need your advice..i have a stepmom.

[kristal]

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`just talk w/ him heart 2 heart.. kanang kamu ra duha. tell him everything kung unsai problema. basin pa dei maminaw xa sa imong side..

[ClubUltimaLpZ]

Hi, Talk mo sa imong papa, kamo lang duha, open up your feelings, pero, think sad sa imo half sister, be brave.

[scope_hunting]

i have a broken family since pag 4 yrs old lang naku. im with my dad and he had many relationships with other girls ero naa na jud xai na pili an. pag 16 yrs old i had my first half sister..ang naka apan lang... dli na kaayu ku ganahan sa akung "stepmom".unlike before na sweet kaayu siya naku.karun nga naa na siyay iyang anak jud nawala jud. after a year i had another half sister na pud. 3 na mi and it breaks my heart nga wala na kaayu attention akung dad naku..and it's getting really unfair kay whenever naa kui pangayu on niya masuko siya pero kung akung stepmom naai pangayu on niya, dli siya masuko...it's really different back when kami rang duha kay grabe kaayu mi ka close.. karun dli na kaayu... maka ingun na lang gani ku nga mas maayu pa nga mag puyo na lang kug aku just to get away from them kay dili na jud madala ang kasakit usahay.. pero i can't kay minor pa man ku. HEELP..what should i do?

hav you tried opening your side to your dad? kanang ipaagi lang og maayo na pagka storya and dala lambing2

[miaka_cham]

Awwww...tine, i'm so sad to hear your story. i never thought you've come from a broken family 'coz I can really tell that you were raised very nicely by your parents. your aura tells me you have a very loving attitude. anyhow, I just hope you'll get the attention you need and the first thing you need is to speak up to your dad jud. On my part, I lost my dad when I was 6 due to a motorcycle accident, and my mom is the only one who raised me and my brother, she didn't remarry, and usually, paki boy man jud ang mommy, so paki-kuya kaayo siya. what I did when I got fed up, I talked to her everything...and till then, we became even closer. I know it's easier said than done, but just ask God for strength to tell your dad everything. I know you can make it. And always, always, focus on your dreams. Like you, my aunts were the ones supporting me when I was still studying college. I never failed them, I graduated the course that I love and I hope you too will achieve your dreams. Don't worry sis, I know you can do it...and peanut's always there to cheer up and so is choi. You can always text me too. take care alright.

[boylaang]

Ingon ana na jud na ang life sa kalibutan dili tanan malipay ta

[high_heels]

kaning mga storya nga ing ani mao ni perfect line for...."MAKAHILAK TA UG POPCORN!!!" hahaha

But kidding aside, we should not burn bridges specially when it comes to our families because no matter what happens when you are on the lowest time of your life they are the first ones to rescue you. sige lang sis, everything in this life happens for a reason. I also came from a broken family and just like you I had to survive and rise from the fall. Just like you i was thrown out of the fire than everybody else, so be thankful that you were because that builds character and determination.

Do not see problems as a hindrance or discouragement....they are there to give you opportunities and success!!!

[yvonne6]

been there. and the only people who can relate to your feelings are kato rapud naka agi ana nga situation. its easy for others to say, dont get affected, mao ni mao na. but you are just a human being, young and compulsive. psychologically, lain ang emotions sa mga bata nga gikan sa broken families, mas insecure jud mi, and there are a lot of questions we would like to ask mom and dad, yet we cant. we are forced to accept situations that we dont like yet we dont have a choice, and this even make it worse. ikaw bay pugson sa dili nimo gusto? i only came to understand everything kato naa nakoy kaugalingon family, kato naka experience nakog failed relationship. what im saying here is, sabton lang sa nato ang feeling sa ts, normal raman kaau na iyang na feel oi. ang iya na lang father ang nahabilin nga parent niya, i know naa siyay kasakit sa iyang mama esp ug alive pa ang inahan yet wala lang pakialam. u expect your parent to be there, no matter what, yet the arrival of a new wife and a new kid changes everything, sakit jud nuon na. u will survivie ts, dont give up. who says, life is always fair? besides, dili man ta kapili sa atong mga ginikanan gud

[purplecandy]

Be smart. Think for your future

[SundryBox]

have a heart to heart talk to your dad about how you feel. Ayaw iluom. If this doesnt work, talk to your friends so you will have some kind of outlet for it. It's bad to have pent up feelings inside and not have somebody. Lastly, please focus on your school work. I promise you the feeling of having finished college and earned a degree or even a PRC license, is beautiful. Trust in God. You will get through this. Take it easy.

[chrisangel]

mao njud a2 reality rn...majority of the family has second or more...

but wtever it is...djud ka angay mawad an ug faith! i understand na ngselos ka ky dili fair ag treatment unlike before...but u nid to realize and accept na naa nay laing family emo dad...all you have to do is be patient and do your best to finish your studies, find work. And when you have work...that's the time na mo separate nka sa emong papa... ky dli jud mlkyan na nay conflict.... Gudlak!