it's a family problem that's been running for years

[RemohDude]

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tsktsk..LOVE can move mountains gyud diay!but, lisod ni nga situation oi, how bout u'll seek help from your immediate relatives sis..ur uncle,tita, or male cousins?pa tambagan nila ang bf sa imo sis..bacin pa diay makatabang!!or asa man diay imo pops?

[khimmy]

tsktsk..LOVE can move mountains gyud diay!but, lisod ni nga situation oi, how bout u'll seek help from your immediate relatives sis..ur uncle,tita, or male cousins?pa tambagan nila ang bf sa imo sis..bacin pa diay makatabang!!or asa man diay imo pops?

dili man gani namo makakita angiyang bf amung relatives na ba kaha... im the eldest apo sa both sides and wala koi ka age... i think they couldnt help that much... ako pos nagwork sa gawas.. and he doesnt know about this... dili mi ganahan nga maabut nia coz he's sick and this prob might worsen his status...

[eilrach]

headshot jud ka bro... since im the eldest, i used to do most of the household chores..
manglaba, hugas plato.. and the like... (but nachange pagcollege na nako.. i had to delegate some of my tasks to my younger sis.. we agreed nga naai division of tasks) okay ra unta to pagstart kai easy breezy man but then niabot ang guy sa iyang life she started to mumble na and murefuse na ug sugod... if she has no way out, wala xai lain choice but mu do sa iya responsibility while on the phone with her bf.. dili naxa efficient ky miskan unsaon di naman jud magkadimao iyang mga tasks...

i give part of the blame sa amu parents kai gi spoil xa for a long time compared nako...

so there it goes... na spoiled jud d.i ni cya sis...

kung dili nalang kaha ninyo cya tagaan ug kwarta sis.. then, kung naa cya gusto paliton, kamo palit para niya, pra lang dili jud cya maka kupot ug kwarta ba..

[RemohDude]

dili man gani namo makakita angiyang bf amung relatives na ba kaha... im the eldest apo sa both sides and wala koi ka age... i think they couldnt help that much... ako pos nagwork sa gawas.. and he doesnt know about this... dili mi ganahan nga maabut nia coz he's sick and this prob might worsen his status...

tsktsk..lisud in other words!!let's just wait for a miracles nalang sis!!

[khimmy]

miracles jud... wer even planning nga ipa blotter ang guy... para di na sila mag.kaduol

[khimmy]

so there it goes... na spoiled jud d.i ni cya sis...

kung dili nalang kaha ninyo cya tagaan ug kwarta sis.. then, kung naa cya gusto paliton, kamo palit para niya, pra lang dili jud cya maka kupot ug kwarta ba..

and she'll do just about anything para makakwatra kai of course if gkan sa parents mu ask jud sila nga for what ang money diba... nya para man i DATUNG sa iyang bf... so wala xai lain choice eh di manguha xag money from my mom... and the bad part is amo lola is living with us now and gikan ra xag gawas so naai kwarta somewhere.. nya karun iyang dollars naganam ug kagamay... who's to blame?? nga i'm always with my lola and she knows nga i wudnt take something without her permission...
ang ako kahadlokan kai if wala na xai mahuthuitan namu diri sa haus mangawat nya xa from someone else...

[Klave]

and she'll do just about anything para makakwatra kai of course if gkan sa parents mu ask jud sila nga for what ang money diba... nya para man i DATUNG sa iyang bf... so wala xai lain choice eh di manguha xag money from my mom... and the bad part is amo lola is living with us now and gikan ra xag gawas so naai kwarta somewhere.. nya karun iyang dollars naganam ug kagamay... who's to blame?? nga i'm always with my lola and she knows nga i wudnt take something without her permission...
ang ako kahadlokan kai if wala na xai mahuthuitan namu diri sa haus mangawat nya xa from someone else...

Pareho diay ta eldest, I don't know why my parents would say nga since maguwang ko I have to be the one to guide them na. Kulang akong authority plus makita ra gyud sa akong mga manghod nga naa ilang mga parents. They wouldn't want anybody else to guide them but their parents. So murag naa gyud ang tendency nga mapabayaan ang mga manghud compared sa maguwang.

Wala moy probinsya nga pwede siya i-exile? Para nako hapit naman gud siya maabot sa "Worst Case Scenario" with regards to attitude. Does your sister have a "caring attitude" or is she the youngest? She may be overreacting with the fact that someone needs her (the bf) that is why she thinks she can't leave him alone. Pagtinabangay mo nga dili siya dalidali makakita og kwarta, wala lang mo kibaw niapil na diay na og suyop. Last one little fact, this generation of teens have a contradicting attitude towards their selfishness, it is not protective selfishness rather it is very destructive. And with that kind of attitude, it makes them easier to decide that they would rather sell themselves to make a quick buck.

[gcc4426]

we keep on wailing and NOT doing any...

wouldnt want to act something sd nga makpaguba sa inyong relasyon, i guess? if that's the case, then endure that.


make a move. buhata ang unsay paminaw nimo ang sakto. pangusog ug barugi na.
bahalag magkontra mos imong igsuon...malamdagan ra na cya kadugayan.

[khimmy]

Wala moy probinsya nga pwede siya i-exile? Para nako hapit naman gud siya maabot sa "Worst Case Scenario" with regards to attitude. Does your sister have a "caring attitude" or is she the youngest? She may be overreacting with the fact that someone needs her (the bf) that is why she thinks she can't leave him alone. Pagtinabangay mo nga dili siya dalidali makakita og kwarta, wala lang mo kibaw niapil na diay na og suyop. Last one little fact, this generation of teens have a contradicting attitude towards their selfishness, it is not protective selfishness rather it is very destructive. And with that kind of attitude, it makes them easier to decide that they would rather sell themselves to make a quick buck.

wala mi mabutangan niya jud...
she's the middle child so i think she has the least attention.. samut na nga amu yongest kai boy so pinalabi jud na xa in some things... sis about sa caring attitude.. murag negative xa ana... di jud mi nia lingiun if we need something... she doesnt even care about our dog... grabi iyang batasan... maldita xa but grabe kahumok iyang ilong.. mailad jud xa sa mga laki...

[khimmy]

@gcc4426

nicontact nami ug mubantay nia.. effective nov.8.. mira xag spy2 kunuhay... nag mureport sa whereabouts sa ako sis after school and every saturday..