need advice.. is it jealousy? or not?

[anjerika]

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baw lang sa mga girls. hehehe. but i think normal rani. coz mu saka ang insecurity.


ako mudagook akong tiyan makakita sa iyang "other" girl hahahaha

[disomniac]

akO nimO tS keBs na Lang ----


naa btaw cya sa imong kiLiran karOn baLaka man ka....

[YOX]

that's insecurity, not jealousy. for me lang ha.. been there.. mypa ipa feel nmu sa imung bf na he just have the best girlfriend ever! love yourself and ayaw lagi pada.. be cool bah..

[Blackjellybean27]

Sis I understand how you feel, 7 years jud cla. but then, you have to start living "NOW" instead of what happened sa past, and you knew naman before you gave your heart to your bf na naa sya ex right? so, what you're doing is actually causing a big friction sa love life mo and maka daot jud na ang selos2x. and believe me, whether you like to admit it or not, being insecure is the root of jealousy... you could be prettier, sexier, etc than your bf's ex but you can't really avoid the fact na ma insecure ka.
I found out that jealousy actually is the root of evil in a relationship. hehe. always lang mi mag away before and then when i stopped being jealous, wla na jud mi away2x... peaceful ang relationship, he loves me more, 'cause i was able to prove na i am mature enough to handle a lot of things and take control.
sos, unsa nalng kaha ma feel mo if you were in my shoes? my bf and his ex were together for 14 long years..
Take my advice sis, i've been there, done that, survived and am happier.. ayaw na jelly2x..

p.s. I'm still human, 'cause mag selos pa ko ha. but it's not that bad. and I don't make a big deal out of it jud, i try to control the words that come out of my mouth, and instead of showing him na nag selos ko, i show him i love him ♥

[kishniquin]

be true to yourself that's what most people say love yourself first sakto dili nana cya jelousy somewhat insecurity nana imo na feel kay ma compare naman nimo imo kaugalingon sa ex nya tungod sa mga tao na insensitive na cge mention nya....but if your bf love u that much cya na misyo mo likay nimo ana i mean common sense nalang pud na niya diba....basta yaw lang kaayo padala kay mau rana mka guba sa inyo relationship ron....

[monrose29]

normal ra ka sis oi...pero hinay2x lang og adjust...di man gud diha2x dayon malimtan ang usa ka tawo nga na part na sa family 7 years gud sila daghan na gyud na hitabo....past is past naman di bah so ayaw ka ayo palabi pa apekto kong unsay imong ma dung-gan og makit-an palapus lang sa pikas dung-gan if nakita nmo nga gi love ka og ma ayo sa imong bf then deli ka angay mahadlok or what.....

slowly but surely sis... ang importante ang uma abot deli ang kagahapon....

[sushikandi]

mao n lage ang point.. dli ako ang 1st, yah! i admit dat.. but d ba pwd d nlng cla muhisgot about it? nd mgkachat cla s iyang ex.. dnt know if sometime or more often.. coz his in work, myb mgkachat cla.. hu knows? coz 1 tym ngkachat mi s gurl nd she told me. "oh! hi, iv heard lots of stories about u." so meaning mgkachat cla, db?
dats wt im doing, i dnt want na halokaton pa ang past bt cla mn ang mag una una, not me..

Well the thought of your boyfriend telling stories to his ex means he is really over his ex. Dili man jud na malikayan TS nga maka hisgut cla sa ex, wala man pud cla nag hisgut infront of you kung unsa cla pagka uyab or binuhatan sa imung bf while cla pa dba? Ila lang is, plainly friendly. Ako pa nimu TS, kung naay outing unya naa ang ex, maypa imu cya ilailahon. Para friends mo and dili naka ma insecure. Aron ma kampante jud ka nga mana cla, wala na jud between them and you have nothing to be worried about.

[monrose29]

^^^^^ lisud na sis but i think that is effective....

[hunt99]

here's da story..

my boyfriend is 7yrs with his ex. since 4thyr hyskul uyab n cla. ngkauyab mi ako bf last year.. i know love au ko s ako bf but the problem is everytime ma mention ang name s girl n ex s ako bf di nku malikayan masakitan especially magmention iyang barkada about s past nla paghyskul. xmpre mgkta kta mn cla s iyang mga clasmyt before nya kyugon mn ko, nya ilang ibalik ila mga past memries so ako "OP", not da sense n pabay.an ko s ako uyab bt bcoz wa ko maistorya mao d nlng ko mutingog. "it hurts" pud esp pgmention s usa nya ka barkada n ana, if muari c .. (da ex of my bf) kuygn n2 outing ky lingaw sd to, wa to libog. kinda feeling n di nku maintindihan y dey need to mention such a name in front nku. i know d malikayan mgstorya cla about s girl but s prob is di sd nku malikayan masakitan.tao lng po ako.. db?

kani sd..

we are looking s photo album s pix s ako uyab with his younger sister, accidentally nakita nku ang pix s ex s ako uyab. then there my heart starts to pump faster! i feel like ngpalpitate ko nd i wanna cry, thinking nga y should i see some pix s ex nya? i dont really know wat to do.. then i slowly close da photo album then went to my room nd start to cry..

and da other thing pd,

ang ex s ako bf, g.idol s iyang cousin. i dont really know wat to do, everytime ma mention ang name s gurl... i tried to pretend not to be hurt but its getting worst! i feel like i dont exist!

please guys.. i need your comments.. advices..
what should i do?
i dont want to feel this way..
wer always fighting w/ my bf everytime that thing exist!

am i acting weird? or what?
i dont really know what to do, pls help..

tysa sis most important sa usa ka relationship na seryos ky both must love,care,trust,honest,help,respect, and understand each other and both must have good attitudes,move and style towards each other and both must be happy always um you know sis basin mao ng gi ing-ana ka niya ky if ang past niya ang laki ang sad-an nano nag buwag it means basin gi gamit lang ka niya para limot or nangita siyag new or pang-lingaw lang or if sad-an to sa iyang ex pede na gi test lang ka niya orp ede pod gusto lang siya maka experiece pag maayo means di pa siya seryos so para ma clear talk niya about ani advice lang ni ha talk niya na seryos mong duha pero dapat kamong duha calma lang pod ayaw pag init inyong mga ulo og nano iyang mga migo mga cousin iyang mga picture na-a pa niya ky ing-non sad nimo na ikaw nasakitan pod ka gi agwanta lang nimo pero kung negative ang answer niya towards nimo dapat andam ka mo accept if postive congrats pero dapat bisan laki ko ha ang laki mas dako og respetar sa babae og before ka mo buhat ani pag pray pod

[sushikandi]

^^^^^ lisud na sis but i think that is effective....

Effective jud na bro para ma wala ang insecurities sa TS. The thought of her BF is still friends with his ex, means they didnt have a bad break up. It's a mutual thing. Para nako nag pa dala ra c TS sa iyang emotions.