Husband cheating, should you tell wife.

[Ms.Beau]

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@mai LOL

na di jud diay ka mosulti nako mai sa? si charmz kaha? LOL...mao na mai tabang jud mog ampo nga dili ko matunong sa mo cheat para way blema ani nga sitwasyon

ug sa mga spouses ba, ayaw nalang ninyo taga-i ug dilemma inyung mga friends kung mahimo? pwede man kaha makigbuwag usa mo mangita ug la-in? ana nalang para way blema

[dexterdal]

hmmmm di ko minyo pero it's good to play the what-if game sad sa...not only ask but play it to the end. so there, that's my answer.

hmmmm, mao d ay kay d pa ka minyo... for me I've heard that story a dozen times from a friend of mine. But in the end, nagmahay ghapon sya na why g sultian sya sa iyang friend.

[Ms.Beau]

hmmmm, mao d ay kay d pa ka minyo... for me I've heard that story a dozen times from a friend of mine. But in the end, nagmahay ghapon sya na why g sultian sya sa iyang friend.

oh yeah im single, but i've lived for close to 3 decades now and mao jud ni akong mindset bro...mo sulti jud lagi ko if my friend ASKS for the truth. and ako sad, if i say tell me the truth, i mean it.

as for your friend nga nagmahay, i say he should take his power back. anything that a friend or foe say shouldn't destroy his marraige unless he allows it to, correct? using my crazy analogy, if God dropped the news on his lap like the morning paper, mahayon diay niya ang ginoo? hope not

[dexterdal]

if God dropped the news on his lap like the morning paper, mahayon diay niya ang ginoo? hope not

Lets not talk about GOD, cause god is not human.. GOD is GOD.

God is infinite, compassionate... etc... people (us) are not

[Ms.Beau]

Lets not talk about GOD, cause god is not human.. GOD is GOD.

God is infinite, compassionate... etc... people (us) are not

i was just trying to drive home a point--accountability for one's life. but if talking about God here hurts your sensibilities, then fine, let's drop that.

[Streetcar]

@mai LOL

na di jud diay ka mosulti nako mai sa? si charmz kaha? LOL...mao na mai tabang jud mog ampo nga dili ko matunong sa mo cheat para way blema ani nga sitwasyon

ug sa mga spouses ba, ayaw nalang ninyo taga-i ug dilemma inyung mga friends kung mahimo? pwede man kaha makigbuwag usa mo mangita ug la-in? ana nalang para way blema

Ms. Beau, nah dili gyud ko makialam anang life sa uban tao its not my nature. Besides personally, number 1 dislike nako nang mga makialam sa buhay ng may buhay the likes of mga tsismosa and intrigera. I just focus on me and my life. I guess anad na sab ko aning life sa Amerika nga way pakialaman and I really find its the most peaceful route and you wont create conflict with others that way too. I also do not want to give unsolicited advice kay lain lain ang life direction sa tao what works for me might not work for them. Hay naku malaki na sila its their life. I have mine to worry about. Yeah just pray that it wont happen but in life there is no guarantee. The winds of change comes blowing once in a while

[dexterdal]

Ms. Beau, nah dili gyud ko makialam anang life sa uban tao its not my nature. Besides personally, number 1 dislike nako nang mga makialam sa buhay ng may buhay the likes of mga tsismosa and intrigera. I just focus on me and my life. I guess anad na sab ko aning life sa Amerika nga way pakialaman and I really find its the most peaceful route and you wont create conflict with others that way too. I also do not want to give unsolicited advice kay lain lain ang life direction sa tao what works for me might not work for them. Hay naku malaki na sila its their life. I have mine to worry about. Yeah just pray that it wont happen but in life there is no guarantee. The winds of change comes blowing once in a while

This is the answer I've been waiting for someone to post

[evs]

i caught my friends hubby cheating on her about a year ago, when her hubby realized it was me he begs me not to say anything to her, the sad thing is she just have a baby. i called her the next day and ask if everything is fine and how's her hubby and the baby doing, she said it's alright, she's great. a part of me wants to say something but i just know it's none of mybusiness and she seemed sound fine, so i just told her that if she needs anything to let me know. to make the story short, i keep it myself. the last time i checked she's pregnant again and he seemed to be responsible when it comes to them and she seemed happier. maybe me seeing him got him feeling guilty or maybe not, i'll never know and i don't want to find out.
i have to agree with others here, don't be quick to tattle, give them a chance to work things out. if i would have told my friend, i'm pretty sure she would have left him in a snap, i'm just glad i haven't.

as a wife, if my hubby cheats on me and my bestfriend would find out and not tell me, i will totally understand her position. it's not other people's job to tell me that my marriage is on the rocks, i should know it myself.

[Ms.Beau]

this just goes to show people are different. we can't fit with everybody, and everybody won't fit with us.

if i were the friend of someone who'd appreciate truth-telling regardless, then i'd be a good friend by telling her the truth. if she's exactly the opposite, then that would make me a thoughtless friend. so one has to really know the friends she keeps.

[evs]

this just goes to show people are different. we can't fit with everybody, and everybody won't fit with us.

if i were the friend of someone who'd appreciate truth-telling regardless, then i'd be a good friend by telling her the truth. if she's exactly the opposite, then that would make me a thoughtless friend. so one has to really know the friends she keeps.

i don't feel that it make me less of a friend by not telling her or i'm being a thoughtless friend at all, i just don't make other people's lives my business even if that is my friend's life. some people are just not comfortable being drag at other people's problems and i'm one of those people. i know i'm a good friend and i don't have to prove that by telling her what's going on with her hubby's extra curricular activities. that's her job to find out, maybe if she will ask me that's another story. you don't have to be pakialamira to be a good friend, friendship is not measured through that, being there for a friend when they are in need, is what friendship is all about, not to meddle in their personal lives.