Dealing with In-laws

[meeneemi]

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ako in-law ganahan i-solo iya anak.. then ang pinaka ka hate nako jud is kung sapoton ako anak, iya patolan... di niya tagdon for weeks jud kay bastos kunu ako anak kay gi sapot sapotan cya... mao ray tiguwang nga labi pay bata... mupatol ug way buot!

[hot_lips]

hei guys!

if you have problems with your "in-laws" then pls do post it here , you might nver know we can help you

[Generals]

what are the usual problems kaha noh?

[junenine]

I don't think that I really have a problem with my inlaws because they are not even around. They live just a town over but they don't even say Hi or stop over sometime. They are like... they don't even exist.

[Zahara]

I don't have a problem with them...they do, however, have a problem with me!!!

They're not mean or anything. They accept me as part of their family.

Dili lang gyud ko the type of in-law na mo-go out of my way for anyone.

[earljahn]

No problem at all....

[i am jasmine]

uhm yes i do have problems with my inlaws esp my mum nlaw. she pries 2 much with our lives since i live with them. she talks to much and olwes make sumbong to my hub who works abroad. a lot of times those "sumbong" she made causes slight rifts bet me and my hub mostly bec her "sumbong" is always one sided and inacurate. smetimes i would jst laughed it off but most of the tyms i got pissed off. if she cant help it to make "sumbong" to him, shel make it sure that its 100% reliable, at least dba dli ka maglagot if ul hear it coz 8s the truth. everytime moreklamo ko sa ako hub, he wil jst tel me na pasensyahan ko na lang iya mum..

jst like ysterday, he called my hub and informed him na someone sad na chismosa like her mistorya nya na may nakakita daw nako kadlawon na dako na padong sulod sa amo subdivision with a guy {yeah blame ito all to the clear glass windw of my car haha!}. funny thing 8 was my bro inlaw **dave's best bud hu was with at that time. dave {my hubs youngr bro hus wife wrks abroad too} called me around past 3am ystrday and asked me if i can fetch him since hs too wasted to drive home. so i woke up my sis inlaw **sharisse {their youngst} and asked her fiance if he can tag along with me so he will be the one to drive dave's car. and off we go to fetch him. dave asked me f i can drve hs best bud cedric home too, so i said yes snce hs hauz s just 4 blocks frm ours. problem is, early am gahapn, amo chsmosa na neighborhod hu saw me with cedric, called my mum nlaw and told her wat she saw. and then my ever boutan nlaw called my hub dayon w/o askng any1 sa hauz, wel in fairnes 2log pa sad mi. hehehe so obviously my hub called me 2 confront me ryt den and der, he just laughed when i told him the story..

see? its not easy living with your inlaws. theyre so hard to please and youl always have to be on your toes. i realy wanted to live on my own since d ko nahan na mosamot pa ang rift namo bet me and my mum nlaw. but my mum 2ld me 8s rude if i left the house when my hubs not here. oh thats like prolonging my agony.. haaayyy!!! my nlaws used to expct that il asume the role of my hub as "2nd father" snce hs the eldest of the 3 and their dad works abroad snce they wer kids. omg! thats bulls**t 2 me snce im the youngst and only daughter in my family. well, they cant expect me to be that responsible since i am the youngst too in their family. the least i can do is to fetch my mum nlaw evrytym shel wnt to her skol {at waterfrnt casino hehe} or drive her everytime mag grocery siya and help them in paying their bills. im a total disaster if im at the kitchen so im not much of a help anyway. so im prety sure grbh jud ang livak sa ako mum inlaw sa ako.. haha! heck i dont care!

[jonielynne18]

wlah paman ko minyo..but i think dili judna malikayan ang problema about sa in laws...
especially nya sa umaabot naku nga life with him where my husband to be is "mamasboy".
sos..i dont know jud unsay mahitabo sako life if married nami.bastah i try my very best jud to beh patience whatever problems ma encounter namu wioth my in laws..but if mag padayon pa gani ghapon iya pagka mamaboy wherein mas motoo xa or maninaw sa sa iya mama kaysa naku,,sos mouli judko sa amoa.......coz i hate jud nga naa mang hilabot sa amo relationship...........bsag kinsah pana..wethier my family or his family...thats why earlier pa..i always told him na dili jud me poyo sa dool ra sa family namu...pra peaceful.

[Tamblot]

Sometimes, first year is a turbulent encounter. Especially if the in-laws are possessive or have dominant character.

All we sometimes need to do is to adjust with them. Lisod man usahay huna hunaon but lets face it, the younger is the one who need to adjust with the elder in this kind of situation.

Stand your ground. In critical aspects of life, especially matters that concerns about you, your husband or your kid, dont give in to them as long as your decision is correct.

[IT]

Yes. You are in love. You both finally decided to tie the knot. In one way or the other, both of you have already gone through the "MEET THE PARENTS" stage. Maybe, everything is all bed of roses. Or maybe, something seems to be a bed of thorns.

Though, a perfect positive in-law bundle is not a fairytale, some if not most of us out there have this in-laws who are or or or just but plain pain-in-the-ass.

if you happen to have any in-laws such as this, please share your styles, tactics, whatever you may call it, on how you deal with them.

They say, there is a way to disagree without being disagreeable. What's your way?

ah... GET USED TO IT, I GUESS.