My boyfriend and her X are close... should i get jealous?

[Anonymous_23]

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NO ! u shudnt get jealous though its a normal reaction..m n ur boyfren shoes ryt now, m close 2 my x..c it as postive gurl..dat means dat ur bf has manners..he didnt just dumped gurls after..just b open 2 ur bf & dnt let ur jealousy b d cause of ur misunderstanding dat leads 2 break up..instead, b gentle, secure & just do ur thing..let ur bf c dat ur worthy than sumbody else..

[7DMM]

unsa kaha no kung maka side trip sila na 2 ra sila then mag reg reg gihapon sila if given the chance. [br]Date Posted: 2005-09-13, 23:29:24_________________________________________________e xcuse my wild imagination.

[tomb raider]

just let your bf know how it makes you feel... if he knows how uncomfortable it makes you feel for him to be spending time with his ex and he doesn't do anything about it, you may not be as important to him as you believe...

[tricia_mye]

u don't have to get jelous, whatever he does kung nandun yung trust no need to jelous, TRUST stregthen your relationship

[glow]

neishan, does ur boyfrend tell you about it? i mean, is he open to you? di cya mu keep ug secrets? I think that makita nimo if he's sincere if he's honest to you about everything goin on didto sa ila school.. & u be honest to him too if ever naa kay feelings of jealousy, maybe he can do sumthin abou it if he really loves you.

[specs]

ay sus! ni gara rana kay tungod ikaw ang gi elis, ikaw ang gi choose over her!

pero, ayaw jud sugot nga pasingitan ka! MASKI ikaw pa ang nangilog (if lang ba)! hehehe... ayaw jud palupig oi kay naa jud good reason for any guy to leave a girl... kay ikaw man ang gi choose, it simply means that you are better...

[n`gel]

Neishan, lahi² man gud ta ug conviction and attitude when it comes to our man. Ako kay medyo stirct man ko when it comes to girls around him. Why? probably because I'm really assertive. Dilil gyud ko gusto magsuod-suod as in close nga bestfriend babae akong uyab sa una. Kay... Hey I'm here, I am supposed to be his BESTFRIEND. My longest relationship was like 4 years, and I should say, I told him about my principle when it comes to love and relationships, and he kept it, hadlok sad gyud nuon siya magsuod-suod ug girl, kay ako man gyud ingnan I won't hesitate to leave. Okay man lang kaila, friends, pero there's no reason for other girls to be bestfriends with him kay naa gud ko.

Now, sa imong situation ug ako naa sa imong lugar, dili pwede himuan ug projects uy! or.. speed dial pa ang number? Dapat ako ang pinaka-importante para niya. May ma'g mamatay na imong bf ug dili na sila magsuod sa iyang ex. See, we women are supposed to set a boundary asa ang yellow line sa respeto. Para naku, wala na sad gyuy respeto ang lalake or ang iyang ex kung magpadayon lang gihapon sila ug suod nga naa ka. The ex is supposed to let the guy go and move on with his life without her. Delikadesa lang ba, kung dili lang sila bestfriend since bata pa, they can stop that closeness uy.

I know it's very hard for her cause she was the DUMPED, and she's probably trying to heal with the guy still close to her. Ug wala pay uyab ang girl, samot gyud na siya pilit sa imo bf. He has to assert and show his ex, she's not an important person in his life anymore, ikaw na. And... dapat i-test sad gyud na nimo kung palabihon ba gyud ka niya.

Is there any way you can do this?

[crinkle]

you have reason to feel that way. and believe me, it's okay. why don't you befriend the "ex" and perhaps be happier...

[Pixie77]

it's normal to feel jealous.. in your situation who wouldn't? love gud nimo ang guy and you don't want to lose him... just keep your communication lines open, let him know what are his limitations.... try to befriend the girl na rin.... don't show any insecurity towards her though coz judging from what you posted, mao na gusto sa girl.. na ma insecure ka sa ila closeness sa imo bf.... let her see that you're confident in you and your man's relationship... eventually she'll back out... baga na jed kaayo sya if mokapit pa sya

better yet, introduce the ex to your single and available friends para makakita na sya ug iyaha bf di na mo samok samok ninyo :mrgreen:

[spotless mind]

it needs a gread deal of trust on your side to be able to handle this... its really hard dealing with an ex of a current bf... but dont let it affect the relationship! that x still likes your bf im sure (",) that's something you should be mindful of.. they might get back to each other's arms.. sowi po but shit does happens most of the time (",) Good luck and God bless though!