badly need some piece of advice :(

[jaylovespiercings]

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salamat kaayo sa inyong tambag tanan..

[kokoytoyi]

TS. I dont want to say this but luoy kaayo ka. Mao rani ako masulti nimo TS.

You deserve to live your life. Do not live for others.

I hope time will come nga ma free ka sa mga kalisud and be happy. Jam unya ta one day pangitaan tikag chicks. hehe

[jbass]

dapat istorya.on nmu sila. Mag meeting mo kumbaga na about sa inyung sitwasyon. Murag napabayaan nman gud mo sa inung mama. Try to talk sa imung maam and with your siblings..Always pray to God.

My dad passed away 2 years ago, after few months. Mom started to drink and hang out with some friends which she doesn't usually do. I have 6 siblings and life was really miserable after my dad left us. Mom met again her childhood sweetheart back in highschool.I don't know if they see each other frequently but sure is, they never miss a single day talking over the phone. It's quiet odd for me but i tried to understand her coz she's my mom. We currently live in the city, but my mom was raised in the province. Every weekend, she goes to the province and would just tell us that she's visiting dad's grave. My 15 yr old sister is also studying there in the province..It's always her excuse..

We're big family in one house. The eldest lives with us with her 3 kids plus the boyfriend. I'm the second (the breadwinner). next is my brother (a nurse who only earns like 3k a month or less.) then my sister whose already working as well but not earning that much, then my 19 yr old sister who just gave birth last january (stopped schooling coz got pregnant to a baby without a dad) then the one in highschool which is currently in the province and our youngest turning 7 this end of may.

Wait.. theres more!

My aunt who used to stay in manila which is my mom's elder sister (4 hard to walk. (got confined this year due to highblood and diabetes) also depending on us coz she has no job and wont ever have due to health issues plus his partner around 57 and their grandson around 13.

I just found out that my sister that has 3 kids just got pregnant which gave me a huge disappointment.


I pay the bills and most of the time our everyday meals. I attempted to just leave them and live on my own. But I couldn't

I can't just express to them that I'm pretty much tired

[mybuuz]

murag naa pud sa imoha ang problem TS. sure, we all help our families but you can't give your life to them.
dili nila makita ang kahayag kung dili mawala ang nag-ali sa dalan. give them a peak of what lies ahead.

[Kristiano]

saludo ko nimo TS! layo ra ako mga probs sa imo... pero mao ra ni matambag nko nimo..

your 15y.o.> she can start selling school supplies if dli kacompetensya ang maestra.. pra sd makapalit sa mga butang gikan sa iyang ginansya.. 2nd, highschool, hilig ug butingting mga girls, pwede sell mga accessories, buy wholesale baligya sa mga friends..

imo brother na nurse, pila na katuig nagwork? maau unta mkaabroad siya sa if naay hiring for males.. nice unta if naa siya sa specialty area.. kung dili gani, naa mn ubang BPO or call centers need mga naa sa medical field... or mag med-rep... paet gyd sweldo sa hospital...
imo aunt, where nagpuyo krn?
your 19 sis, pwede ra pd magstart mo ug sari2x store and BBQ stand + halo2x...
ginagmay na tabang pra di kaayo tantong bug-at sa mga gastoanan... if morekalmo sila, "simbako masakit ang bata, asa mn ta ug panggastos? ".. at least naay pundo for emergency...

and don't forget to take care of yourself... have a regular check up... simbako maunsa ka.. down pd sila..
God bless brad!

[reeses]

Bro every cloud has a silver lining!! You can do it bro! AJA! AJA! FIGHTING!!

[joeyx2000]

My only piece of advice is don't leave them, sacrifice and do what is right.

[alter-ego]

palaina na na imo mga igsoon nga naa na pamilya, syaro wala sila nagsud-ong ana inyo kahimtang ron..

Kay if dili ka mo-resort ana nga disesyon, kanus-a pa man diay? what if ikaw na pud naa family puhon. ********* na ninyo kay lisora ana ui.

[lmyburan]

TS, dili sad maayo nga imu i spoonfeed imu mga igsoon coz they will not grow, they will not learn to accept their responsibilities, to strive hard for their own families. What if naay mahitabo nimu, mag-unsa naman lang imu pamilya? nga sila tanan gasalig man sa imu, though bug-at sa imung buot nga imu silang pasagdaan, suwayi lang...i dont want nga magka conflict mu sa imu mga siblings, all i want is for them to know and to learn that you also have your own life, they don't own you, klaro man kaayo sa imung gi estorya nga galisod ka ug dili nasad ka happy, ganahan ka motabang nila pero TS, mas maayo kung ang imung mga igsoon maka realize nga kinahanglan sad sila molihok ug maningkamot para sa ilahang pamilya...

I'm very proud of you TS, kay panagsa ra jud ko makasugat ug parehas nimu, but sometimes you have to do what is right, even though this might hurt you and your family.

[pinkpumpkin]

if i were you, i'll leave.
live on ur own,paningkamot ug imo.
padad-i nalang sila ug monthly budget nila.
if kuwang,sila na mangita ug paagi para masakto.
di man sad nimo pwede angkunon tanan.
naa pud kay imohang mga plano sa kinabuhi and they're old enough para magtrabaho ug ila.
if padayon ka cge ug tabang nila, when will they ever learn to strive on their own?
as long as naa ka,magsalig ra gyud na sa imo tanan.