tarong ba ni? (need some advice)

[Siobhan]

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day wa jud n au imong uyab......d jud n cya nindot nga candidate para himoon nimong husband sayang2 ka lang sa imong panahon aning klaseha sa taw....may unta nananghid cya nimo nga lovs magmovie marathon sa ko ha with my two girlfriends tsk tsk

[luke0917]

he's staying in a boarding haws by the way.

i don't know what to do.
im planning to go to his place tomorrow to reconciliate.
i felt like im the one who's responsible nganung na in-aneh.

nah mao nani ron. y nkaingon man ka na ikaw ang responsible kung y nanghagad cya ug 2 girls na mag movie marathon? dli ka gnahan mutan aw ug movie with him??

dli sis oi, temptation is everywhere, its up to you if you will accept or resist it. imo bf, iya na g.accept ang temptation, so naa ra na nmo if mgpadayon pa japon ka niya, pero, be mindful na dli na cya ingon ana ka faithful nmo.

d ka malain ana na sa iya pa jud kwarto? huhuh.

btaw, naa ra na nmo sis. pray for guidance sa imong decision na himuon.

[gkoopir]

Just talked with each other in person. Basin miss understanding lang.

It could be your BF like one of the girl and mo try og hirit ba... mao invite2x dayon...
'Bout sa imong issue nga sa sulod sa kwarto, naa ba silay other katan.awan aside sa kwarto niya kong maginvite siya og friends? Boarding house baya, meaning kwarto ra jud na niya??

Talk lng jud mo in person..

[butong101]

he's staying in a boarding haws by the way.

i don't know what to do.
im planning to go to his place tomorrow to reconciliate.
i felt like im the one who's responsible nganung na in-aneh.

ahahahahaha...
girls will always be girls..

your trapped in the bottommost pit hole ever created in romance tragedy films/stories..
the feel of being liable to a couple's break up..
ahahahaha

[kurdapia.nikki]

si saac na mhel? hala ka diha. hahaha

pero naa bitaw silla kuyog LAIN laki. hehehe.
ayaw i-rigor ang brain kay ma damage.
chill lang, ang heart, atakehon hehehe

dugay na kay mo mel eyyy. one of the many oppressions rana

[babygrace_pilapil]

whew...wai nkakita ng.unsa cla sa kwarto...hahaha

[babygrace_pilapil]

bsan pa ng.unsa pato c bf dd2 chx, ikaw japon lab ato..dli ka iilis sa mga chx nga mlabay2 ra sa iyang lyf...
jam2 rato...dah vega2, igat2,tusik2...watever..wa rato sa imo bf...hehehe.. mhitabo mnjud na sa lalake..lake gud nah

[amfoi]

lugi-a nimo ana maam oi... wala ka g apil sa ilang partey.?? dapat join2x pod ka.. arun makita nimo ang katag naa btaw cya uban lain laki.. ang kuyaw ana props ra diay 2ng 2 girls.. iya pasudlon.. sa dhang kad2ng laki diay iyang type... waaaah!!!!

[gomugomu]

sayop na even ingon imo bf na wala cla gbuhat other than watching movies bisag kuyog pa iya amigo. he doesnt respect you as his girlfriend. kung wala cya gf pde ra cguro..

[BackEdge]

[QUOTE=butong101;7796347]can't help but react when i saw the BOLD words found above..
im not a moralist nor naive..
i know and had acknowledge that human as we are, we will explore what is good for us; even in relationships and romantic partners, exploration is inevitable..

If this kind of reasoning is allowed without opposition, the much cared sanctity of loving will definitely be undermined.. yes of course, legally they are not bound for each other.. sometimes, what is legal is not always moral.. and what is moral is not always correct and right for us..
my point is, even in the west - which claimed that they are not moralists, fidelity is very important and valued. That is why divorce and legal separations are very common there because of this fidelity issues..
The thing here is not about being possessive nor restrictive to our uyabs but respect, respect that each uyab needs.. not just for the good of the relationship but for the good of each partner..

my last thought.. wala ngpasabot nga uyab namo, dili na nimo siya respitohon.. ang uyab ng expect nga siya ra gyud sa imong kinabuhi.. kun dili man gani nah nimo mahatag nga siya ra gyud, mas maayo nga mo sulti sa tinoud ug mag buwag na lang.. luoy ang uyab nga ng tarong sa relasyon..
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DEFINE:
Morality (from the Latin moralities "manner, character, proper behavior") is a sense of behavioral conduct that differentiates intentions, decisions, and actions between those that are good (or right) and bad (or wrong).

Are we on the same page now? I bet,..huh..hehehe. Respect, wrong or right is this a moral issue. It's is percieved differently on each person depending on many aspect like upbringing/learnings/social environment etc. It is still a MORAL issue and perception.

@ threadstarter...if you percieved it NOT GOOD (dili tarung) im not using moral/immoral coz some ppl would react. If you really think it's unacceptable and your bf is inconsistent to his stand...so skip the chit-chat,dump him,spare us the wringkles (daut ang beauty). You dont need this trouble and hassle. DONT think you are LOUY. You deserve to be happy and to have someone (BF) better than this one.