Tambagi daw ko..my gf posted a msg to her ex sa facebook.

[jeff_bonz59]

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hapit nami mag 2 years oi... I told her about things like these nga d ko comfortable she blurting out to me wyl kuyog mi on how another guy's body looks good.. or im not ok with her someone she doesnt know at all.. Or esp f someone from her past..

Perhaps it's her trait to be tactless lng jud.. And yes she is very vocal to me about her inner sexual fantasies.. And she is pretty much satisfied w/ me man.. Emotionally we dont hav any problems....

she is tacky lang why on earth would she added still her x as one of her list of friends..and even sending 'musta?' to him...

now she keeps on calling me after i told her its time for us to hav a bit of a cool off..

Ingon cya wa daw cya kasabot ngano g,big deal nako ang ni happened wen infact she loves me man jud... I told her.. I already told u i dont like u communicating with someone from ur past.. And still again gibaliwala ra ko nimo..

She said she's sorry.. And her sorry is not the first time i heard from her..

Akong point is.. kapoy naman gud sultihan pabalik2 ang tao nga giingan na nimo bfore.. Must u always remind her/him what u dont or shouldnt do because ur my gf/bf already? Bogo naman lang tingali kau ta pirme nato pa remindnon ang tao ana dba??

[pretty_jasmine]

TS, you mean you prefer ur gf adding or sending a msg to her ex behind your back? the fact that she did it naa naa gyud ka, that means wala xay gi mean na lain.. kay f kana speculation ninyo guys na naa pa xa feelings sa iyaha ex, dapat ta ginabuhat na niya if she's alone and not with you. she was not trying to revive her relationship with her ex, she was just simple saying hi to him... slut d i daun na? slut if she's doing it behind ur back and sending naughty messages...

[Herzensbrecher]

Akong point is.. kapoy naman gud sultihan pabalik2 ang tao nga giingan na nimo bfore.. Must u always remind her/him what u dont or shouldnt do because ur my gf/bf already? Bogo naman lang tingali kau ta pirme nato pa remindnon ang tao ana dba??

ang masulti lng nako: imong uyab kay insensitive sa imong feelings.. if she is not sensitive on how you feel, then respect is not there.. respect is very important in a relationship.. love grows from respect..

[kurdapia.nikki]

Don't be conceived by her LITTLE actions Bro
Maybe your girlfriend's just very friendly and outgoing.
No one knows that they both retained their friendship after their love affair.
Not that I am defending your girlfriend ha.
Pero in my honest opinion and on my side, communicating with our EX's doesn't mean that we are still attached to them. It's just we feel like communicating with them and we don't think that it's wrong. Labi na if that EX of ours is really a close friend to us. Diba?

On the guys's side pud, we can't blame you if you put on assumptions on us.
With our little actions most especially pertaining our EX's
We girls know that you want to be assured that we're really over our past.
And we just hope that you won't feel any doubts on our love for you guys.

Since uyab man mo, don't be very exclusive with your own feelings.
You both have the right to compromise and talk things out.
Understand the side of your girlfriend and maybe you could meet halfway.
Maybe you'd get her point of communicating with her EX.

I hope you two would relive your time together
Cooling off your relationship wouldn't do any better.

Sometimes us girls think na vulnerable mo on those stuffs.
If you think insensitive ra kaayo mi, then tell us.
We girls always wanted the best in our relationships.

[jeff_bonz59]

no i dont prefer her sad doing underground behind my back... Ang ako lang g.kalainan kay why would she hav the guts to add pa her x or send a message to him wen infact wala na gani to nagparamdam ang iyang x nya...

it's sort of slap on my face man gud.. here she's telling me how she cried and wept on this guy before who left her kay nag two time.. And she bitterly curse that guy nga mamatay and now she's adding him and even has the nerve to send him again another msg sa fb??

The dead are already dead...!! Don't bring it back again!

[pretty_jasmine]

hapit nami mag 2 years oi... I told her about things like these nga d ko comfortable she blurting out to me wyl kuyog mi on how another guy's body looks good.. or im not ok with her someone she doesnt know at all.. Or esp f someone from her past..

Perhaps it's her trait to be tactless lng jud.. And yes she is very vocal to me about her inner sexual fantasies.. And she is pretty much satisfied w/ me man.. Emotionally we dont hav any problems....

she is tacky lang why on earth would she added still her x as one of her list of friends..and even sending 'musta?' to him...

now she keeps on calling me after i told her its time for us to hav a bit of a cool off..

Ingon cya wa daw cya kasabot ngano g,big deal nako ang ni happened wen infact she loves me man jud... I told her.. I already told u i dont like u communicating with someone from ur past.. And still again gibaliwala ra ko nimo..

She said she's sorry.. And her sorry is not the first time i heard from her..

Akong point is.. kapoy naman gud sultihan pabalik2 ang tao nga giingan na nimo bfore.. Must u always remind her/him what u dont or shouldnt do because ur my gf/bf already? Bogo naman lang tingali kau ta pirme nato pa remindnon ang tao ana dba??

no offense ha? but i don't get it pd why you're making a big deal out of it.. ur together for two years already and ur willing to let it end just for a petty fight? goodness, two years is enough for a girl to move on from a past relationship.. and for 2 years, wala pa ka naka establish ug trust? for me lang ha, maybe the reason why wala kau niya g take seriously imoha ingon na d ka nahan makig communicate sa iyaha mga ex bec para nya, its no big deal and wala xay dautan na intention... and a piece of advise, do not control your girl kay mura naman gud ang gusto nimo mao gyud angay matuman. give her some freedom with her actions or try showing to her that you trust her, maybe that way, at her own will, dli na xa mag-inana..

[Herzensbrecher]

ikaw ra jud makadecide kung unsa ang angay nimo buhaton sa kni nga situation ninyo sa imong GF.. ikaw ang nakaila sa imong GF, ikaw ang naa ani nga situation, ikaw ang nasakitan..

[pretty_jasmine]

Don't be conceived by her LITTLE actions Bro
Maybe your girlfriend's just very friendly and outgoing.
No one knows that they both retained their friendship after their love affair.
Not that I am defending your girlfriend ha.
Pero in my honest opinion and on my side, communicating with our EX's doesn't mean that we are still attached to them. It's just we feel like communicating with them and we don't think that it's wrong. Labi na if that EX of ours is really a close friend to us. Diba?

On the guys's side pud, we can't blame you if you put on assumptions on us.
With our little actions most especially pertaining our EX's
We girls know that you want to be assured that we're really over our past.
And we just hope that you won't feel any doubts on our love for you guys.

Since uyab man mo, don't be very exclusive with your own feelings.
You both have the right to compromise and talk things out.
Understand the side of your girlfriend and maybe you could meet halfway.
Maybe you'd get her point of communicating with her EX.

I hope you two would relive your time together
Cooling off your relationship wouldn't do any better.

Sometimes us girls think na vulnerable mo on those stuffs.
If you think insensitive ra kaayo mi, then tell us.
We girls always wanted the best in our relationships.

well said sis... i do agree jud... TS, huna-hunaa ni na comment ... wish you luck with your gf.. don't make any decisions when your mad =)

[jeff_bonz59]

@kurd...

No they are not close friend and No the guy is a two tym SOB...

Sometimes makaingon na nuon ko sa akong self.. Mao tingali gbayaan ni cya (gf) becaus she dont value and respect sa side sa uban...

If u want to be respected.. Learn to respect first...

My guy friends says to me now to leave her and again to treat girls not to seriously.. They told me before that women/girls are there for keepsake lng.. Serious stuff?? they laugh and said to me.. Dont get too serious w/ girls or u get BURN!!


NOW I TRULY REALIZED WHAT THEY MEANT BY THAT..

[jeff_bonz59]

thanks anyway.. I feel bittered and frustrated...


It might not be again a big deal as some of u would say.. Pero para nako nga sincere nya ug ala gani ko nag entertain sa lain nakong mga girls nga friends kay g.una ra nako cya pirme.. sakit jud...

Im not mad.. Im just down right hurt... u girls doesnt know wen a guy would feel hurt.. Because he keeps it to himself raman..

Pero nako.. im slowly trying to catch the broken pieces again...