What to do with my GF who still talks with her Ex-?

[lecter]

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Ang akoa gf karon kay naa ghapon communication sa parents sa iyaha ex..then ang mom sa akoa gf kay cge lng ghapon communicate sa ilaha..then kung mu ari sa cebu parents sa iyaha ex kay sa ilaha balay matulog apil iyaha ex...
5 years cla mg uyab...kami 6 mos pa lng..iya gbuwagan iyaha ex kay manukmag man...
sa fb kay open ghapon iyaha communication sa parents sa iyaha ex...although wala na cla communications sa iyaha ex.....

I DONT KNOW Y I FEEL BAD ABOUT THIS>>I HOPE MA PATCH UP NI...

I NEED SOME SERIOUS ADVICE HERE

[lecter]

FEEL nko kai murag GA SAMOK2 ra ko sa ilaha LIFE...

[rambutan]

panakip butas siguro ka bai.. hehe..
bitaw, ********* imu uyab.,. or diretsaa ang parents sa ex bf sa imu uyab; iremind lang na buwag na sila sa ila anak.. and di ka ganahan ug ingon ana nga sitwasyon... katungod man cguro na nimu kay apektado gud ka.. pero mas maayu na unhan lang nimu imu uyab ug istorya..

[lecter]

buotan bya akoa uyab...pero i dont know y ok ra niya in.ani...wat if kaha kng sya naa sa akoa side karon?..
paeta btaw...although wala man lain gbuhat ba pero i dont know murag nasakitan man ko nuon...first time na dah...tsk.tsk.tsk....

[diem]

Sabi mo buotan imong uyab, basin she and her family are just too kind kaya they were still friendly and hospitable to the ex- and his family.

I understand you bro, it's like you're being set aside and that you don't matter to her. Even if you're just six months together, this is still an awkward situation.

Ani lang, please consider this as a minor irritation. It's not a problem unless you want to make it a problem. Rise above it, be patient and understanding. Please give it time and see if things become better.

Like rambutan advised, you should talk to your girlfriend though, gently explain that you find the situation with her ex's family a bit too weird and you're uncomfortable with it.

How she reacts to your feelings, either she reassures you that she sees you (AVATAR rocks) and only you or she shrugs your feelings off, can help you decide if she's the girl you'd want to be with and your relationship is the real deal.

[CASSANDRA19]

Bro ok ra na bro...Bacn grabeh ayu ila memories together kay 5-6years na sila then xempre maclose najud ang family...What you'll do, like others said, talk to your gf and be honest of what you feel.Ingna lang na uncomfortable ka ug ana nga situation..Pro since laman kaha communication ang imo gf ug iya ex?then pasagdi !kung close ang iya family with the ex...dili bitaw sila ang mokuyug nimo ug mopartner nimo..just give yourself a chance to know them and give them also a chance to know you..Sagdi lang gud kung close sila at lease assured ka na di na mocommunicate imo gf with the ex...:-p

[BackBeat]

Sabi mo buotan imong uyab, basin she and her family are just too kind kaya they were still friendly and hospitable to the ex- and his family.

I understand you bro, it's like you're being set aside and that you don't matter to her. Even if you're just six months together, this is still an awkward situation.

Ani lang, please consider this as a minor irritation. It's not a problem unless you want to make it a problem. Rise above it, be patient and understanding. Please give it time and see if things become better.

Like rambutan advised, you should talk to your girlfriend though, gently explain that you find the situation with her ex's family a bit too weird and you're uncomfortable with it.

How she reacts to your feelings, either she reassures you that she sees you (AVATAR rocks) and only you or she shrugs your feelings off, can help you decide if she's the girl you'd want to be with and your relationship is the real deal.

You might want to take this advice.. Headshot.

[iamvindicated]

Tell your girl how you feel. Sturyai nah ninyo. Kaysa magpadayon pa ug ingana when infact kaw ra jud ang nasakitan. It seems panakip-butas na ka ani na situation. Remind her na Ex nalang to niya ug ikaw ang iyang present. Fight for your rights sad. Dapat sad sturyaan sa girl ang parents sa iyang Ex na buwag na sila intawn. Wa tingae problema if ang parents sa ex mu-stay sa house sa imung uyab but with her ex sleeping in her house is a different story.

Ask daw if why iya na gibuhat ? Rather , ask her if she knows na nasakitan ka ?

hope this helps

[umpa-lumpa]

this is a difficult position you are in since your girl and his ex has been together for quite a long time..but the fact the she already broke up with her, it means that she was fed up with her bf's treatment of hitting her and hurting her physically and mentally..best thing to do, is talk to your girl..YOU are his bf right now and you have the right to ask whats the deal with both of you.

Also, it is also very difficult to just shoo away the parents of the ex bf who is now very comfortable with your gf and gf's parents..given the fact of the 6 yr relationship..maybe they dont have a place to stay here in cebu and to stay in a hotel is an added expense..so just think positive..if you are happy with your girl, then you should be strong...communication is the key...thats all

[-=chris=-]

bitaw bro lisura ani na situation oi, but if i were at ur part what i'll do is explain to ur gf how u feel. in a nice way. dili jud na dali mawagtang ang treatment nila in ana ka dali kay to think 5 years sila nagka uyab.
but if she'd reassure u na love jud ka niya let put it into actions.... kana gud na way they're not giving each other a time to forget. kay naa man gihapon comunicatin. if parents to parents case bro, friendship nana. but if xa ug iyang ex mag comu kana lahi nana. kay dapat mu respect jud kung kinsa ang present uyab and you deserve to have it. there are three things in life bro, 1st learn from the past, 2nd look at the future with awareness. and 3rd the Gift thats why it is called the "PRESENT".....