FLIRTING: Do you? Why and How?

[Legolas]

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Flirting is sending satellites into someone else's comfort zone. "Testing the waters" in a way. It's those little glances that give away so much. And the snobbish look that comes after. There is more to flirting than seduction. In its highest form, it is not an art but a weapon. Flirting is simply giving a little and withholding more. But this is done in a not too subtle way. Otherwise, the purpose of the flirtation is defeated. Here's a tip: Act interested. Pretend that seeing yourself reflected in someone's eyes is the peak of your happiness. Act like every word out of that person's mouth is an accolade to love and all its mysteries. Then drop him/her like a hot potato. That will hurt their feelings and you will intrigue them more. They will come in pursuit. Don't play hard to get. Let them feel you like them once in a while. Then play cold again. Then warm. Keep doing this until one of you loses interest. Trust me, life will never be boring after that.

Bravo! :2thumbs: this is perfect Kim! and I know no one does it better than you! if only you knew exactly which ones to target! I envy you, you're like a Secret Agent or Spy who lost his mojo.

[dessay]

hahahhaa what the!!!....that reminds me of the movie "Austin Powers the Spy WHo Shagged Me".... he lost his mojo there :P

....yeah baby yeah!!!

oh behave!....(pointing pinky finger side of mouth)

[dessay]

I envy you, you're like a Secret Agent or Spy who lost his mojo.

aiii mao gyud! ahahhaha....

[BeNZ]

it's nice to flirt somebody if they come to appreciate it too, but come to think of it if they don't.
to flirt somebody is like having a 20% ligaw-ligaw love relationship
with a 200% excitement and 5% commitment.

[dessay]

it's nice to flirt somebody if they come to appreciate it too, but come to think of it if they don't.
to flirt somebody is like having a 20% ligaw-ligaw love relationship
with a 200% excitement and 5% commitment.

hmmm...isn't that a part of it, though?like the risk of not being noticed at all?....

[BeNZ]

Flirt: "somebody behaving in a playfully alluring way: somebody who behaves in a playfully alluring way".

If you only flirt yourself without somebody taking notice of you, you look like a jerk how's going to go gaga overboard.

The beauty of flirting is when the recipient also acknowledge your action, who also have; one way or the other, behaves like your intensions.
otherwise, you're just making a fool out of yourself.

try to imagine, you, doing something in a playfully alluring way and nobody will interact. : :arrow:

well, it's hard if nobody will take note of your flirts.
infact, it's not considered flirting in the first place.

[tracygirl]

hmmmm....when i like a guy...kutob lang ko "pasulyap-sulyap"

sometimes obvious..sometimes dili..depende lang sa makabantay..ahehehe....

But normally, I don't give advances or signals.... I still believe that guys should make the first move....

I don't say that I'm being "pakipot", 'coz I'm not. If a guy likes me and I feel the same way...ngano padugay-dugayon pa man..sugot dayon!!!




yeah,i agree to that. men should make the first move coz its in our culture. but the now,some of the women does the first move...very liberated huh!...anyweiz,flirting is common but it should be at the right time and right place.


and and and....I hate guys na sobrang torpe...turn-off agad si moi!

hehehhe

[dessay]

yeah,i agree to that. men should make the first move coz its in our culture. but the now,some of the women does the first move...very liberated huh!...anyweiz,flirting is common but it should be at the right time and right place.

well yeah...time has changed....

[Galadriel]

time really has changed

[dessay]

Flirt: "somebody behaving in a playfully alluring way: somebody who behaves in a playfully alluring way".

If you only flirt yourself without somebody taking notice of you, you look like a jerk how's going to go gaga overboard.

The beauty of flirting is when the recipient also acknowledge your action, who also have; one way or the other, behaves like your intensions.
otherwise, you're just making a fool out of yourself.

try to imagine, you, doing something in a playfully alluring way and nobody will interact. : :arrow:

well, it's hard if nobody will take note of your flirts.
infact, it's not considered flirting in the first place.

you have your point..is just that, it doesn't matches my idea about flirting...

oh well..that's you!