Is it really hard to forgive?

[chadix24_7]

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i had an x gf upto now she hates me and i dont know why..she came into my life just recently when me and my gf for 6 yrs broke up,, she was there when i was really down and i instantly fell for her..shes pretty , kind , sweet in short she has everything a guy would want for a gf..the problem is shes not that submissive.. anyway thats what i like about her .. she has a very stong personality and u can put it in this term -(hardheaded) i admit i am immature and we fought a lot with every small things..after a month of wonderful understanding we decided to split up...after the splitup i want us to be friends...im just after the friendship...and i dont want my x to hate me for life..i've been texting her ,leaving offline msgs on her ym tried calling her for almost 6 months now but to no avail i failed ...I PROMISED MYSELF NOT TO STOP asking for apology . maybe she was thinking i left her for other girls or something but i did not. am i crazy?

stop texting her na bai, luoya sad nimo oi martyr man ka, lalaki man unta... hehehe... bitaw kay kung sige ka ug text niya musamot na hinuon to ug palayo nimo. testingi bai ayaw ug contact, diba siya nasad na mangita ug paagi para ma contact ka.

[JuRa^]

its not that hard if you really love the person

[gunjack21]

wwwaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhh!! why do people always mistake me for a guy?? hehe.. actually my name's supposed to be spongebob squarebutt (my bf calls me that) but it's too long! hehehe...

kc po dahil sa nick mo...squarebutt parang pang lalaki ..anyway sorry....peace,......

[Ground_0]

It us hard when the reasons are just mere conjured convictions..
It is hard to forgive someone when we really believe our reasons for being unforgiving..
If her reasons are just as preposterous as not wanting to be friends with you, then that's hard, for that reason is quite a bit of an assault to our spirit, for it makes us look at ourselves as unwanted beings..
But well, she'll wake up in time.. Everybody needs a friend.
She'll need your friendship in time.
Don't go down brother, there's still a ceiling in the sky, it's not gonna fall down yet.

PEACE!!!!!!!!

[mhai...07]

well loving is about forgiving..
in ur case...im sorry but im a new member here..
well u just have to take those steps slowly
enuf for ur x to recover and to heal the wound she has ryt now..
dnt think ur crazy cos ur up to her ryt now..
its just a simple thing..
let her move on same as u are..
cos olwes bare in mind when u fail it doesnt mean u have to fail everything
make it a point to rise up after a damn fall...
and ur x needs time more enuf time for everything..
loosing ur wolrd wd each other does not satisfy the reason that u will bopth or u will have to loose ur worlds too...

i hope i did make u feel ryt..

[panic.]

its not hard for me to forgive..
ive forgiven everyone who did me wrong.

[faithfulnina]

its not hard to forive especially when you love that person. what is hard is to forget though.

[nHaRuToH_XXX]

its not hard to 4give.....aftr 4gving 4get n lang d przon..

[miss tapya]

its easy to forgive but the main prob is how to forget......

[sassy_suzzy]

i don't find it hard to forgive... and i don't dwell on past hurts...