a bleeding heart ---> medyo taas ni...

[lynn]

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ako, as in bulls eye jud.sakit man jud ng unreciprocated love noh? maka drain jud ug energy literally. bisan la paka gibuhat, maka panghupaw ka ug lawom.hahay...

[pinkdove]

hmmm..mao gud...paet kai na situation oi...i have experience that even if ako cya sultian ingon ra cya na ani na gud ko dli romantic na taw but luv ko nya..unsaon...hayy..mao nalng na ako masulti...but i have to understand him nalng kai luv man nko cya...maybe sa pagkakaron dli cya romantic in some other ways...but time will come he will but he dont just notice na romantic na diay cya...me i just keep hoping nalng gud..unsaon luve gud!!!!

[.~broken~.]

what if u're in love with your boyfriend...? and he says that he loves you, too. whenever u're together, u're so right for each other... you have common interests, laugh at the same things, the two of u are more or less at the same brain wavelength, you ask each other what the other person wants to eat or where to go to and decide on that, you support each other on your dreams and goals, you comfort each other during hard times, and the two of you feel so right in bed you have the occasional arguments... but always manage to patch things up.

but what if the girl is a romantic and the guy is not? and the girl, in nature, wants... needs... to feel pampered and precious. she loves her boyfriend. she accepts him for who he is... that he isn't a romantic. she loves him... that's why she's stayed with him. but what if deep inside, the girl needs romance? and everytime she sees another girl whose guy gives her flowers and cards and poems and plans heart-stopping dates, the girl feels the sharp tug in her heart even more. romance is something the guy can't give... what then?

for this part i can relate. ive been thrOugh that situation and its so hard.. as a girl, i think that im giving too much, and i think that he is not. he is used to just playing around.. me i want a serious relationship. he tells me he loes me but it seems that he does not show it much.. i feel like he is just abusing.. or just fond of the attention.. i have loved him... but it just so hard. i cant take seriously with him. he gets bored easily if we talk about things under the sun.. i'm seeing someone right now.. and i'm trying to compare... he does nt get bored if we talk about anything, from stupid things to serious things.. he is a romantic a gentleman..

what was wrong with my ex.. il never know y..

[.~broken~.]

moingon ra xa if u cant accept me for hu i am then luk for someone else.. i was trying to make it worth.. dili xa moEFfort.. wala jud.. ambot niya oi.. may nang buwag mi kesa uyab mi pero d mi magkasinabtanay ana na part..

[babypaupau]

:mrgreen: isa ra jud akong masulti...a guy who makes you feel less of a person doesnt deserve you, AT ALL!!!

[ianina]

i can relate. sos. my ex was SOOO insensitive pa jd.

[whisperer]

personally, i think every girl goes thru that thing. esp if tarong kaayo ka and medyo abusado ang guy and magsalig lang bitaw kay naa ka. honestly, nakaagi ko ana. but you know what, if the time comes mwala na ka sa life nila, like ni-give up na ka, mind you, dako kaayo na sila ug basol. and the people around can see the effect. dha ra ma-appreciate sa guy kung unsa kadako ang nawala sa iya and kung unsa ka basol sya na wala ka niya na-value katong naa pa ka... pero if there's that second chance, malahi dyud tanan (based on experience lang)

[babypaupau]

i so totally agree sister!! :mrgreen: btaw... ana man jud cguro na, u dont know wat u have until u lose them.. and guys can be such jerks at times if not all the time.. hayyy..ngano kaha na noh?

[xtian_hero]

hmmm.. simple... if he doesn't make you happy.. leave him....

[whisperer]

i so totally agree sister!! :mrgreen: btaw... ana man jud cguro na, u dont know wat u have until u lose them.. and guys can be such jerks at times if not all the time.. hayyy..ngano kaha na noh?

mao nay gisulti nila na NAGSALIG MAN GUD! feel sab usahay anang mga laki na porket naa ta, na dili daw ta mwala sa ila, na, magabusar na nuon thus forgetting na uyab ta nila and dili ta nila mga inahan! aheheheheheheh