Emotional Breakdown. Please help. :((

[vahnhelsing]

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paminawa ni sila ts.. sakit paminawon sah?
samot nag mopuno ko dri ron...

niha ra ko sige basa, nagtuyok tuyok ra jud ni.

[laxxx]

@quirkychinita very2 well said. Thank you so much for ur helpful words.. you sort of opened my heart and mind in a good way. Now, all I gotta do is do my best to be strong. That'll really be hard though. I dont even know where to start. Thanks talaga. Thanks for understanding my pain and also making me realize something.

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@vanhelsing sorry dili ko ka sabot.. gamay ra man na bisaya ako nahibaw an.. pwde kapa translate if ok lng?

[vahnhelsing]

i said listen to the pro.. beyee..
the truth hurts, you know what you have to do.
let go...

(daan pa ko.. maka translate lagi ko.. )

[laxxx]

@vanhelsing Thank u for translating lagi.. i know naman what i have to do it's just taking a little bit more time for me to face it.. but i will. I will jud. Hopefully asap..

[fotam]

many people have given you a lot of nice words of wisdom. Its time for you to decide..

[sammedriano]

Laxxx,

First and foremost, SMILE, LAUGH, and BURST INTO LAUGHTER. hehehehe
(That is what you need the most now. Don't let the pain ruin your day. ALL IS WELL )

Now, here's my "Male's Perspective".

I and my GF are now in our 3rd year. Seriously, today is our 3rd Anniversary.

We didn't reach this very memorable day happy all the time. We broke up when we were on our 2nd year of relationship. Our loving and glorious relationship eventually turned bitter. This happened due to a whole lot of reasons. In our end, my GF was so sungit and selosa that I eventually can't go along with my friends anymore because she was so strict on my scheds. Eventually, nasakal ako and I decided that we end the relationship. Yes, we ended it pronto. It was painful, but we have to accept the fact that we're not suppose to hurt each other's social life just because she wants me always by her side.

Til then we both realized that we need each other pala. So we eventually made ways to meet again. We talked wholeheartedly. She cried and asked sorry. I too did apologize for the harsh decision I made. Yet, I was grateful that I did that. It was because we realized that we indeed need each other. Now, we still have up's and down, away dito, bati doon, away ulit, and bati ulit. -- I feel sakal ulit at some point, but eventually I realized -all of these are tests. Tests to see if we can really handle a family soon. You have to make tough decisions in life. It could be a matter of life and death, or as simple as who will cook breakfast. Yet, the most important part is that you know how to make crucial decisions wisely.

Now, you have a choice. Meditate and ask yourself what makes your relationship lay-low? Is it because of him? or because of you? Then, if after checking all stuffs necessary, and see that this won't work, do not hesitate to recommend a cool off or break up. You will realize the value of a person most when he is not around. If the problem is him, and he really loved you, he will find ways to have you back.

Good luck sis and if you need more guidance, do not hesitate to ask us back.


P.S: Beyee has done her best in explaining the whole picture at you, and she explained it explicitly well. Now, you really have to know exactly what to do. Otherwise, we can't help you, if you don't know how to help yourself either. Reality hurts, and it does hurt big time. Just be practical sis. Don't go on false hopes and empty promises.

Hi istoryans..

Wala ra jd ko mo sturya karon.. And I dont know where to start. First and foremost, I dont speak and understand Bisaya very well so please bare with me.. All I know is sakit2 kaau. My boyfriend and I, well we're both not from Cebu. Ng move mi d about 7 months ago para mu start over.. New job, new people around us, most esp, new environment and new start para namo. Mo 2 yrs na mi sa Sep26.. But lately, wa jud sya gana. He always hurts my feelings. He tells me one thing, like sorry jud sya for hurting my feelings and he wants to make things right na then after pila ka hours gusto nya akong palayasin.. this has been repeatedly happening for the past weeks.. dili ko man kaya mo halin ky palangga2 ko sya kaau. He also tells asks me "are u sure about us? Ky ako sure jud ko.. i want to marry you and spend the rest of my life with u.." then after naman like katong ginising ko sya 30mins earlier than scheduled because I told him I had high fever and asked him if pwde niya ko palitan tambal sa pharmacy, he got mad at me. He didnt give a sh*t about me being sick. Then he didnt even say goodbye before he left for work. Before kay grabe man sya mag alaga sa akon and grbe ka lambing. I dont know whats happening. What i dont understand is why can he say things then just end up breaking my heart again?? In less than 24 hours. why? Ba't nya nakakayanang masaktan ako?? Why can he promise me things like marry me and MAKE THINGS RIGHT but then he cant do it naman?? Wala syang idea gaano kasakit. Ilang beses na namin napag usapan to and ngiging ok naman pero cycle lang eh, masasaktan lng naman ako ulit. Wala pa akong mpuntahan ksi wla naman akong kakilala o kamag anak dito sa Cebu. Help ((((((

[silentnuker]

TS is in a real dilemma.

A little bit of logical analysis...

1. Examine what does your bf benefit/gain from you?
2. Think what would happen if you remove this things?
3. Is he still willing to live with you after?
4. Are you the submissive or the dominant type?
5. Do you show weakness or you really assert authority?
6. If you part with him, do you have anything to lose aside
from losing a bf and be terribly hurt emotionally?

I am speaking in a male perspective by the way.

[Genocide]

Manila kayong dalawa before?

[Passport]

Laxxx,

First and foremost, SMILE, LAUGH, and BURST INTO LAUGHTER. hehehehe
(That is what you need the most now. Don't let the pain ruin your day. ALL IS WELL )

Now, here's my "Male's Perspective".

I and my GF are now in our 3rd year. Seriously, today is our 3rd Anniversary.

We didn't reach this very memorable day happy all the time. We broke up when we were on our 2nd year of relationship. Our loving and glorious relationship eventually turned bitter. This happened due to a whole lot of reasons. In our end, my GF was so sungit and selosa that I eventually can't go along with my friends anymore because she was so strict on my scheds. Eventually, nasakal ako and I decided that we end the relationship. Yes, we ended it pronto. It was painful, but we have to accept the fact that we're not suppose to hurt each other's social life just because she wants me always by her side.

Til then we both realized that we need each other pala. So we eventually made ways to meet again. We talked wholeheartedly. She cried and asked sorry. I too did apologize for the harsh decision I made. Yet, I was grateful that I did that. It was because we realized that we indeed need each other. Now, we still have up's and down, away dito, bati doon, away ulit, and bati ulit. -- I feel sakal ulit at some point, but eventually I realized -all of these are tests. Tests to see if we can really handle a family soon. You have to make tough decisions in life. It could be a matter of life and death, or as simple as who will cook breakfast. Yet, the most important part is that you know how to make crucial decisions wisely.

Now, you have a choice. Meditate and ask yourself what makes your relationship lay-low? Is it because of him? or because of you? Then, if after checking all stuffs necessary, and see that this won't work, do not hesitate to recommend a cool off or break up. You will realize the value of a person most when he is not around. If the problem is him, and he really loved you, he will find ways to have you back.

Good luck sis and if you need more guidance, do not hesitate to ask us back.


P.S: Beyee has done her best in explaining the whole picture at you, and she explained it explicitly well. Now, you really have to know exactly what to do. Otherwise, we can't help you, if you don't know how to help yourself either. Reality hurts, and it does hurt big time. Just be practical sis. Don't go on false hopes and empty promises.

happy anniversary sam...

[Scott Bernard]

TS.. daghan single guys diri sa istorya.

Apil2x ug mga EB2x... or text2x... I'm sure in less than a few weeks, kita naka ug much better BF.