HELP ME! I need advise what to do with my son :(

[Kagami-chan]

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Please set an appointment with Dr. Jacqueline Espina

http://www.chonghua.com.ph/index.php...html?type=view

We also had my niece evaluated with dr. Espina. Although, di man ADHD iyaha, more on autism. Pa set appointment lang kay dugay rabah na ang schedule nila.

[reutreve]

Need nag terahpy dont worry dali rana nga case

[ohohoy]

TS ingon anah man gyud nang nga edara, istoryahe lang perme kay later on ma change ra nah, part man gud nah sa growth and development sa tao..

[TheCalligraphist]

I don't necessarily agree with everyone jumping into conclusions about ADHD this and therapy that.... have a look at a different perspective: Sir Ken Robinson: Do schools kill creativity? - YouTube

Make sure you listen in to the end... you might hear a familiar anecdote...

[Scott Bernard]

TS miga, akong ma advice nimo noh... your child is NORMAL. Ayaw pa evaluate2x ug mga doctor or psychologist kay ma stressed raka. Unya dili raba mabayaran ang ilang mahatag nga stress sa wrong diagnosis.

Let him exposed in extra curricular activities, kanang mga super-active sports like jogging, martial arts, etc... para ma burn ang iyang extra energy. Then try to have a bargaining agreement with your son para at the same time, mag binuotan siya sa school.

[Kagami-chan]

TS miga, akong ma advice nimo noh... your child is NORMAL. Ayaw pa evaluate2x ug mga doctor or psychologist kay ma stressed raka. Unya dili raba mabayaran ang ilang mahatag nga stress sa wrong diagnosis.

Let him exposed in extra curricular activities, kanang mga super-active sports like jogging, martial arts, etc... para ma burn ang iyang extra energy. Then try to have a bargaining agreement with your son para at the same time, mag binuotan siya sa school.

I beg to disagree. The more we ignore that there's a problem, the more we will not be able to solve the problem. It's true not all kids if in ana ang batasan sa pagka bata, sign nga naay problem. But it's not also good to ignore, if you feel, as a parent that there's something wrong, i-ignore nalang nimo kay lagi, we think that it's "normal".

I don't also want to think that going to a doctor para ma evaluate ang bata means that the child is not normal. NOPE. At least, ma evaluate sha sa doctor (since they specialize these kinds of behavior sa bata) and see why the child acts this way. Is it just behavioral? Psychological? or more on his Mental? Di man pud siguro na mu ingon ang doctor nga naay problem ang bata if wala gyud. They're there to help you understand your child's behavior.

Just speaking on my perspective coz this is what happened to my brother. Because my mom was being denial of the fact that there was really something wrong with my brother. Turns out, karon, he passed the gene to his daughter.

At least it will give you a peace of mind if ma kita sha sa doctor rather than, not go there but still mag sige nalang ka wonder ngano in ana imo anak. As a parent, ikaw ra TS makahibaw what's best for your child. I do agree though, expose him to a lot of activities that will really burn his extra energy. It's one form of therapy by the way.

[hanzheyteta]

My son is hyperactive. Sikat na kaau ni sya sa school nila because he is know nga slow kaau mo suwat, mang disturb sa iyang classmate during class ug grabe ka ki-at. Kada school year (3 successive years) iyang teacher mag ugtas jud niya. Karon nga Grade 2 sya mao mn japon. Abi namo wala na inig dako.

Problema kaau mi kay ulaw na kaau atubang sa mga teachers niya nya same ang complain bahin niya. We did our part, ipa praktis namo sya ug write sa balay, dli pakan-on ug sweet foods kay maka samot sa iyang pagka hyper active.

Very smart mn sya. Dali ra sya makakuha sa lesson but ang problem is dili jud sya ma puyo. Murag iyang thinking pirmi is duwa ra jud. E ask namo sya why mn mag bad sya sa school daghan kaau sya ug pasangil. Wla nami kabalo sa buhaton.

Need your advise here. Hope maka tabang mo ug suggest unsay buhaton or maka suggest Kinsa nga doctor duolon pra maka evaluate sa iyang behavior pra makabalo mi unsa buhaton.

Salamat istoryans!

musta na imong kiddo TS? ani man akong 5yr old. hyper kaayo. and karon mas grabe kay isog na kaayo. mas isog pa sa mga maguwang nea.

smart pud nga bata but tapolan lang. dali mapol.an. if wala xay buhaton moreklamo nga wala daw xa buhaton. mag.unsa daw xa. and that's coming from a 5yr old ha. pasuwaton dili man pud. gusto ra mag cge duwa og counter strike. sa skul pud kay kiat pud kaayo.

pa check lang gyud ni sa doctor pohon2 if mao lang gihapon ang taras.

[Synthetic]

NORMAL na imung anak miga, sultian tika, ako ang pinaka kiat nga bata sauna, hyper active kaau ko sa tanan! so ang g buhat sa akong papa kay g enroll kog sports (karate,swimming,basketball,etc.) ana siya para kuno ma channel akong energy sa positive na buhatonon

so I recommend you do the same TS

btw, dili nako hyperactive karon ha?!

[Scott Bernard]

I beg to disagree. The more we ignore that there's a problem, the more we will not be able to solve the problem. It's true not all kids if in ana ang batasan sa pagka bata, sign nga naay problem. But it's not also good to ignore, if you feel, as a parent that there's something wrong, i-ignore nalang nimo kay lagi, we think that it's "normal".

I'll give you 2 situations:

1. Parents sa usa ka hyperactive nga child. Ge disiplina lang sa parents, after a few years nag normal ra.

2. Parents sa usa ka hyperactive nga child. Gepa check up ug doctor, ingon ang doctor naay problema ug kinahanglan e therapy. Ge undergo ug therapy... after a few years nag normal ra.


Difference between 2 parents:

Parent 1 kay walay kwarta epa therapy sa ilang anak. Naka save pa sila ug kwarta, wala pa sila na stressed.

Parent 2 naay kwarta eka afford. Same ra gehapon, na okay ilang anak pero na stressed sila, naka gasto pa sila financially.


There are some conditions nga maka help ang therapy, while naay uban therapies cannot really help.

Anha lang pag base sa mga families nga dili maka afford. Ilang mga anak grow up to be fine mentally and physically. Problema lang nila siguro kay a few bacteria kanang mga squatters or mga financially under privileged.

[Kagami-chan]

I'll give you 2 situations:

1. Parents sa usa ka hyperactive nga child. Ge disiplina lang sa parents, after a few years nag normal ra.

2. Parents sa usa ka hyperactive nga child. Gepa check up ug doctor, ingon ang doctor naay problema ug kinahanglan e therapy. Ge undergo ug therapy... after a few years nag normal ra.


Difference between 2 parents:

Parent 1 kay walay kwarta epa therapy sa ilang anak. Naka save pa sila ug kwarta, wala pa sila na stressed.

Parent 2 naay kwarta eka afford. Same ra gehapon, na okay ilang anak pero na stressed sila, naka gasto pa sila financially.


There are some conditions nga maka help ang therapy, while naay uban therapies cannot really help.

Anha lang pag base sa mga families nga dili maka afford. Ilang mga anak grow up to be fine mentally and physically. Problema lang nila siguro kay a few bacteria kanang mga squatters or mga financially under privileged.

I know. That's why I said si TS ra ang kahibaw what's best sa iya anak. As a mother, I understand the worries. That's why, I suggested TS to go for the doctor kung gusto niya.

Also, I'm speaking for the other perspective. Because my brother was once a VERY hyperactive child. Mura ra pud situation ni TS sa iya son. My mother actually ignored it. It actually caused a lot of problems while nagdako sha. And he's being labeled as a problem maker... Ma misunderstood lang ang bata, until mao nalang ang ibutang sad sa iya huna2x nga problem maker sha. Remember, ang reaction sa parents, dako ug impact sa bata.