please help me to forget and move on

[yvonne6]

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ikaw ramay makatabang sa imong kaugalingon oi. no matter unsa pana diha ang advice sa mga taw kung ikaw dili ka willing mobuhat sa mga gisulti sa imoha, useless lang gihapon. help yourself. mao na akong ika sulti. ayaw i focus imong mind didto. i've been into your shoes several times and yes, i am still a slave of not getting over with someone but i am able to do things without him in my sight. life is beautiful, kung ma stuck raka sa usa ka taw nga unworthy gani kaau, kaluoy pud nimo. the guy is obviously not minding your feelings, why waste your time with him? pasagdi lang ug wala paka ka get over, mawala rana eventually. meet new people oi, involve in something u would enjoy like sports, hobby or social networking like istorya.net.

[balolot]

guys need your advice....how come I cannot forget my ex..his my first bf for almost one year mi pero long distance mi na relationship..sa phone lng nko xa nasugot kay by that time na after three months courtship,nilarga naman xa..so in short wa la jud mi ngkakuyug as bf and gf...pag-abot nya la mi ngkita coz nakgbulag xa kay naa daw xa dako sala and i dnt deserve him daw...pero how come di man nko xa malimtan oi.niagi naman ang almost one year..hantud karn...tabang!then lately ngkatext mi ug sweet2x then after few days wa nasad xa nireply sa akong messages...feel nko looy na jud ayu ko....di naman xa moreply oi..last nyang message nag i miss u and love u man to pero how come wa naman moreply after.....
hay naku love......help ninyu guys.....im so lonely and down.....

simple. naanad gani ka sa nui relationship for a year na LDR ramo? what more sa pagkalimot? i guess mao nang naglisod ka kay sa cge nmo ug huna2. ngita ug diversion. something that would interest you. syaro di nmo na makalimtan. there's a lot of fish in the sea. much bigger fish.

[PluckyLittleMiss]

guys need your advice....how come I cannot forget my ex..his my first bf for almost one year mi pero long distance mi na relationship..sa phone lng nko xa nasugot kay by that time na after three months courtship,nilarga naman xa..so in short wa la jud mi ngkakuyug as bf and gf...pag-abot nya la mi ngkita coz nakgbulag xa kay naa daw xa dako sala and i dnt deserve him daw...pero how come di man nko xa malimtan oi.niagi naman ang almost one year..hantud karn...tabang!then lately ngkatext mi ug sweet2x then after few days wa nasad xa nireply sa akong messages...feel nko looy na jud ayu ko....di naman xa moreply oi..last nyang message nag i miss u and love u man to pero how come wa naman moreply after.....
hay naku love......help ninyu guys.....im so lonely and down.....

Are we having the same boyfriend? Oh my maybe he is! LOL...

Anyways, I've been in your situation, we're LDR. We met online and MU for 7 months then we spent together for almost 4 months as bf and gf because I went back to Phil. from abroad . Almost 1 year in total. BUT he left me and he went abroad this time. AND he said, he is worthless and he deserves me not, blah blah blah.... The worse is he LIED to me. He had sinned unto me. That's the reason why he couldn't face me because he is guilty. He walked away.


Like you, I'm expecting for him to call me because it's been 14 days he didn't contact me anymore. He said that I should wait for him because he will choose me as his wife, blah blah blah. But why should I raise my hopes? It's all in my mind. If I choose to lure him more, I end up suffering from depression AGAIN.

Help yourself sis. Don't make yourself harder and bitter. It's all in your mind. Don't ask yourself about that.

You know what? Guys like that are NOT man. They're coward and they're just playing fire with us, women. Don't contact him! NO contact rule please. It's effective. Think of it. You missed him because he's not in touch with you. Why don't you just reverse the situation?

Move on for yourself sis. Nobody can help you except yourself. Hugs for you.

[hanna]

ikaw ramay makatabang sa imong kaugalingon oi. no matter unsa pana diha ang advice sa mga taw kung ikaw dili ka willing mobuhat sa mga gisulti sa imoha, useless lang gihapon. help yourself. mao na akong ika sulti. ayaw i focus imong mind didto. i've been into your shoes several times and yes, i am still a slave of not getting over with someone but i am able to do things without him in my sight. life is beautiful, kung ma stuck raka sa usa ka taw nga unworthy gani kaau, kaluoy pud nimo. the guy is obviously not minding your feelings, why waste your time with him? pasagdi lang ug wala paka ka get over, mawala rana eventually. meet new people oi, involve in something u would enjoy like sports, hobby or social networking like istorya.net.

thanks yvonne!!!!lagi i need to move on and i have to...thanks ayu ninyu for the advice......kaswerte rajud nya nako...hahaha..thanks again girl!!!

[hanna]

Are we having the same boyfriend? Oh my maybe he is! LOL...

Anyways, I've been in your situation, we're LDR. We met online and MU for 7 months then we spent together for almost 4 months as bf and gf because I went back to Phil. from abroad . Almost 1 year in total. BUT he left me and he went abroad this time. AND he said, he is worthless and he deserves me not, blah blah blah.... The worse is he LIED to me. He had sinned unto me. That's the reason why he couldn't face me because he is guilty. He walked away.


Like you, I'm expecting for him to call me because it's been 14 days he didn't contact me anymore. He said that I should wait for him because he will choose me as his wife, blah blah blah. But why should I raise my hopes? It's all in my mind. If I choose to lure him more, I end up suffering from depression AGAIN.

Help yourself sis. Don't make yourself harder and bitter. It's all in your mind. Don't ask yourself about that.

You know what? Guys like that are NOT man. They're coward and they're just playing fire with us, women. Don't contact him! NO contact rule please. It's effective. Think of it. You missed him because he's not in touch with you. Why don't you just reverse the situation?

Move on for yourself sis. Nobody can help you except yourself. Hugs for you.

Thanks sis!!!!!!heheh..i know mkamove on rajud ko sis....thanks ayu sis...start nko meet ug socialize other people arun di nko makathink nya.....thanks for the advice....

[hanna]

simple. naanad gani ka sa nui relationship for a year na LDR ramo? what more sa pagkalimot? i guess mao nang naglisod ka kay sa cge nmo ug huna2. ngita ug diversion. something that would interest you. syaro di nmo na makalimtan. there's a lot of fish in the sea. much bigger fish.

lagi bro...naanad akong mind bitaw kay ldr mi and all throught though layo mi but ive been so committed and faithful jud nya .....pero i guess i dont deserve that kind of guy..as what you've said, theres a lot of fish in the sea much bigger fish...thanks ayu bro.....;.

[hanna]

clone mn ka..

apil daw ug EB beh, sturyaan tanag tarung.. saman.?

thanks bro...hehehe....sa sunod nko apil EB bro...im ok na karn....for now concentrate nlng kos akong work usa, family and friends....thnks ayu bro...hehehe

[emjee17]

sorry TS ha pero ang dating sa laki ba kay mura rag nag duwa2. to think long distance pa jud. at least naa sad untay effort ba nga my commu nimu.

Ayaw lang sige ingon sa imong kaugalingon nga di jud ka makalimot niya. Ayaw ni nga thought ang i-insist. Instead, accept it and eventually sa sige nimog balik2 sa unsa juy nahitabo - trust me one day ma pul-an na kag sigeg huna2. Ayaw i-deny imung self nga wa paka ka get over niya. Cry if you want to. Pero here's the thing: You can chase him all you want pero leave some for yourself sad oi, and let him do the chasing too some times.

[PluckyLittleMiss]

Thanks sis!!!!!!heheh..i know mkamove on rajud ko sis....thanks ayu sis...start nko meet ug socialize other people arun di nko makathink nya.....thanks for the advice....

Good for you. When you think of the positive thoughts you're good to go.


I will not say, there are lots of fishes in the ocean or it didn't worked because blah blah... I know I've been with that and I have no right to advice like there are more better guys out there. You're already broken hearted and yet I will advice to find another guy? Heck! Finding Mr. Right or waiting for him are not parts of moving on. What is more important is YOU and no one. Self-esteem and self-confident are already damaged and you have to reflect on yourself and stand up from the fall.

You can do it sis. Just believe on yourself. Don't try to kill the pain. The more you attempt to kill it, the more you can't let go. I know it's hard to move on, but we have no choice if we want to live a happy life. Just let it be.

Move on slowly. It's easy to say "Yeah, finally I've moved on!" Oh yeah? Whatever! Istoryahe!

If you feel the pain and you want to cry, let it out. Don't fake it. Don't fool yourself. And don't mind what others may say unto you about your emo moments. They don't care about you. Friends like that are blunt. Sometimes if my friends would say, "Nag-eemo ka na naman? Tigilan mo na yan." If only I could salute them with my middle finger or flip one, I would do it after. LOL

Go girl! You can do it. Focus on yourself, job or family. Don't focus on other things related to guy. You've done enough. It's not your loss. Guys like them, are KIDS! How I wished I could bruise guy's ego easily to get revenge, but I know it's not healthy.


Happy New Year.

[hanna]

thanks so much sis!!!i will follow your advice...its nice to know that there are people like you who are willing to give advices to those who need it..i am so glad ive registered here in istorya...mawala akong kamingaw at the same time madivert akong attention....thanks to all of you guys!!!!!thanks much...HAPPY NEW YEAR TO EVERYONE!!!!!!